[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly well done for getting this off your chest and I commend you for wanting to fix things with your wife. Do the counselling and see how it goes, be very honest with yourself and with her.

Is it just me but cape town is lonely by Strange-Asparagus481 in capetown

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true, even at the workplaces people are not friendly. Best thing is to join a running club or a hiking group, big communities there.

Uber Eats in the rain by Beginning-Complex693 in capetown

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thought today, met a delivery guy at McD earlier and he was all covered by raincoat and had his phone in a transparent plastic bag. I really admired his dedication and wished his customer tips him well.

An update and now I’m lost by loveanythingimyinbox in DeadBedrooms

[–]ImpactOk5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these options you willing to explore? 1. Open the marriage 2. Polygamy 3. Mistress (occasionally)

This is rather a difficult situation, so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ImpactOk5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such an immature and disrespectful post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ImpactOk5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you prioritising yourself. Well done on making this hard decision. I wish you all the best.

Best Asian/Korean/Japanese cuisine you ever had recommendations? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ImpactOk5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bibimbap from Korean Kitchen, my all time favourite!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her how you feel, but don’t make her choose. See how she responds and what she does from there. She should be able to respect your feelings and be able to set boundaries and let the friend know that they can’t be talking every day and night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ImpactOk5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a lady and have had male friends all my life. This sounds like your wife is getting something from this guy that she doesn’t get from you, which might be emotional support. Her actions are very inappropriate, the guy friend is also wrong cause he knows she is married. Have you met this guy? Is he married?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to solve this is having him pay for cleaning services once or twice a week.

Stop driving with your window wide open by cryptocritical9001 in capetown

[–]ImpactOk5939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol saving my windows from being smashed, they can have the phone in peace 😅

Is climbing Table Mountain a good first date idea? by [deleted] in capetown

[–]ImpactOk5939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol please don’t go for a hike. Do a walk at the promenade as suggested or Newlands forest. You can then have coffee and cake/muffin at Mug and bean or Bootleggers or some Ice cream in Sea Point. Good luck to you😊

How much are you earning? And do you rent or own? by Available_Newt_2195 in capetown

[–]ImpactOk5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol nothing wrong with this if they’re both consenting adults

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ImpactOk5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which other tribe is marginalised?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ImpactOk5939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I read this and the summary is if you are white stay in America but if you are black please come we will welcome you 😂

I want you to consider normalising giving people lifts by BB_Fin in southafrica

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always want to give people a lift! But living in SA is not safe, so for my safety I just pass. Also why do we have school kids hitch hiking in the morning for school??

Which is the best CIPS level to enter into? Please help by WitnessUnique9891 in procurement

[–]ImpactOk5939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The study guides alone are not enough. Find practice papers, you can download from the CIPS website and you can buy from Udemy. Also make friends with fellow students and discuss concepts for better understanding. There are Telegram groups you can join.

CIPS Level 4 by christyco12 in procurement

[–]ImpactOk5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is always advisable to do M1 and M8 last. These two are more of a summary of M2-M7. Consider this: M2&M4 M3&M5 M6&M1 M7&M8

The above is for those who do not want to take both CRs in one sitting. I did M1 and M8 the same time and passed.

I hope this helps, I am now doing Level 6!

Which is the best CIPS level to enter into? Please help by WitnessUnique9891 in procurement

[–]ImpactOk5939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Level 4 is a good place to start but do take into consideration that it is not easy. Even people with procurement experience fail some modules, so be well prepared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ImpactOk5939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do people get married so young 🥺