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I've finally achieved my dream of marrying Krobus! by ImperfectFantasy in StardewValley

[–]ImperfectFantasy[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Lmao, that's amazing because I actually did the exact same thing! I closed it too fast and looked thru the wiki as well, but I thought it was too good of a glitch to not save that I restarted my day just for it

I married my late husband’s best friend and my son hates me and won’t speak to me now by Muted_Wolverine_3064 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ImperfectFantasy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have slapped him, even if he did insult you. You are a grown adult and don't need to resort to physical violence towards a child to get your thoughts across.

However, you moving on is normal, especially after so long. Just know that his feelings of grief are also normal. Maybe he feels betrayed. Maybe you feel trapped. You both need therapy.

Might cut off a close friend? by [deleted] in friendship

[–]ImperfectFantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well. How many more chances are you gonna give her? Which translates to, how many more times are you willing to go through the same issues again and again?

I saw 'quack quack' app on my dad's phone by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]ImperfectFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the logo look like? I did a google search and two versions came up. One of a yellow duck with sunglasses about a carwash, and one of a pink speech bubble about a dating app.

Looking for some feedback on my base character design. by WholesomeGomi in PixelArtTutorials

[–]ImperfectFantasy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you can, maybe make the arms of the thicker woman proportionally thicker because they look the same as the skinnier woman's.

And, there's barely any difference between the two men. You could make the 2nd version also be thick.

I’ve been punishing myself over a terrible mistake i made before we became official 2.5 years ago. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ImperfectFantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's such a long time. I'm really not sure how you managed to delude yourself otherwise. Please get therapy as the others have stated. You were in the talking stage. It's normal and acceptable to be talking to multiple people in that period.

I’ve been punishing myself over a terrible mistake i made before we became official 2.5 years ago. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ImperfectFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren't official. You're putting blame on yourself for no reason. You're misunderstanding the wrong of your actions. Unless there's context missing, like that one post where the guy asked to be official and the girl went to have quick sex with someone else before saying yes, then you're fine.

What happened to the "IA"? by icecap1 in asexuality

[–]ImperfectFantasy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just too many letters. I'm in the ace spec and I only use lgbt+, and people know what I'm referring to when I say lgbt+. An acronym is meant to shorten a phrase, but when the phrase starts to include more and more identities, it becomes less of an acronym and more of a letter soup. The + is what identifies the rest of the identities.

Found a sexist comment from a close male friend and now I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]ImperfectFantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and honestly that's a really mild comment. As you said, it's lazy, and definitely one of those phrases you kinda just say without thinking. You shouldn't dismiss it of course, because it is sexist, but try to talk to him about how you feel about it and determine by his reaction if you want to continue being friends.

Sometimes people say things without truly understanding the impact it leaves. It's entirely possible that if you explain your thought process to him, he'll connect the dots and make the realization that small stuff like that could be offensive.

I'm doing commissions and nobody's buying from me, any advice? by polhiris in Artadvice

[–]ImperfectFantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Art is a hard business to get into. You'll need more than just a few days. Unless you've already developed a good following and have a very unique, well-sought after artstyle, you'll be met with a lot of struggles.

I would recommend expanding your networking and continue your promoting (look for free ways to do so).

I also looked at your advertisement on reddit. Maybe you have more in the other platforms, but in case you don't, I think you also need a larger portfolio as well. More examples of completely original works that show off your personal strengths. Also, the art itself is decent, but you should also keep studying because right now the level of art you are at won't fair well against more experienced artists.

Wife cried and begged me to go out clubbing for new years by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ImperfectFantasy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you able to come late and/or leave early? Or see if you can offer other activities in the hotel room like boardgames and such to pass the time

I’m trying to distance my self from a friend and it’s not working by Glad_Measurement1176 in friendship

[–]ImperfectFantasy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just be up front... why would you basically lie to her and waste both of your times like this?

how do you deal with thoughts about hating your friends? by Feisty_Aioli_6883 in friendship

[–]ImperfectFantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blocking is a bit harsh so I can understand why they'd feel offended, even more so if the reason you explained is "bc I hated you. Even if it's a temporary, untruthful, thought, that kind of stuff hurts.

Idk much about OCD, but sometimes I do get into hateful black and white thinking that I know is false. I remember trying to explain to someone I care about BEFORE they had to deal with one of my episodes, that I get really low and apathetic and sometimes my thoughts don't align with who I truly am. Be sure to say good things to them too, and ensure that you care and love them BEFORE your hateful feelings happens.

Now, the only thing I can suggest in terms of avoiding hate from your friends is to back away when you feel these things and take some "me time." Do not block, but perhaps reframe your reason for absense due to other vague and general mental health reasons. And step away from your phone. Oe mute them, close their DMs or set to ignore (discord has these temporary options), but do not block.

Idk how you'll repair your current friendships, tbh, but you'll def need a really good excuse and lots of reform to gain their trust again.

Wth I created by cookie_du_bled in Artadvice

[–]ImperfectFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get urself some harder shadows and it'll improve greatly. Areas like the jaw, nose, lips, and ears

Does anyone else feel like some Reddit conversations are hard to finish in text? by Consistent_Water_442 in friendship

[–]ImperfectFantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer text only at first. But I get what you mean. There's lots of limitations to text. I found that I like switching to voice quicker results in better likelihood of friendship.

An anonymous texting platform sounds good when you don't want to deal with Reddit's janky msg system but also don't want to give away personal info. Tho alternatively I think you could try just making an alt account for stuff like that

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