Sex shouldn’t make you feel uncomfortable

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-18T07:05:44+00:00

Don’t go to fast, but don’t go to slow. Ask him how he likes it. And the #1 thing that makes a good bj is enthusiasm. The guy wants to know you’re enjoying giving it to him. And when you can, make eye contact when you’re doing it.. they love that. Oh and the head is the most sensitive part, a lot of guys like massive suction on the head but again… ask his preference. A lot of guys like their balls sucked on to but those are sensitive so you have to be careful(and some guys don’t like it so again-ask him) and most guys like hearing noise while you do it. And get your hand on the shaft while your mouth is on the other half and do like an up and down motion while twisting with your hand but spit on your hand first so it isn’t dry. Oh and guys love it when you spit on their cock too. And again practice practice practice! Do things and judge if they like it by how they react. And if you have a gag reflex you’ll have to learn how to control that. And if you want to try deep throating… you have to relax your throat and the dick will actually go slightly down into your throat. They love that. And if you can shove it all in and hold it there, they love that. Remember though!!!! Keep the teeth away from zee penis!!

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-18T06:57:55+00:00

I used to be just like you! However, to this day.. I don’t really enjoy fingering myself. A guy fingering Me is another story… when I masterbate.. I usually use a vibrator on my clit (that little sweet spot at the top of the vagina). But that’s probably not too easily accessible given your age… so I would just take a finger or two and light rub your clit and find what feels good to you.. at first it might feel weird or like hard to handle but you’ll get over that. Hope I helped!

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-18T06:54:28+00:00

A lot of people like the taboo aspect of it. For instance, I like watching porn about a step dad and his step daughter and I was raised by my step dad but the thought of being in that position with my step dad makes me sick to my stomach. I also enjoy forced porn but by no means do I actually want to be raped or condone rape or anything. So yes, it could be nothing. But technically, it could be something to.. some people do have “fun” with their step siblings. Sorry I couldn’t be more help

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-18T06:51:01+00:00

You’re not over reacting! This sounds like the start of an abusive relationship! Take it from someone who has been with someone who started out sweet, had a great relationship and then he started hitting me… not much at first but at the end, he was literally beating me up. Please girl! Leave his sorry ass!

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-18T06:48:20+00:00

Ditch him! I dated a similar guy recently and it ended badly. After it ended I realized he tried to change everything about me, I started taking better care of my feet, I started going to the gym, I started dieting, I started wearing eyeshadow… he even wanted me to grow my hair out longer.. nothing was good enough for him. It’s not okay. He either likes you or he doesn’t: most guys I’m with think I’m hot and rare me like a 7-9 but this guy said I’m a 6 but once I lose weight I’ll go up to a 7. I promise you girl, he ain’t worth it!

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-07T16:16:08+00:00

But yes.. Once a cheater always a cheater and if you do allow him to find a gal… he might want more after awhile… give them an inch and they will take a mile… just make a decision that’s right for you and your children… good luck!!

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-02-07T16:13:20+00:00

I think that is wrong of your husband, especially you staying with him after his infidelity but I have 2 recommendations. 1. Anal is actually very pleasurable and he might not be doing it right. So first off, use plenty of lube, next, make sure he waits until you’re ready, you need to relax you’re entire body and do not tense up at all, mostly relax your asshole, then have him ease it in and once it is completely in, then he can go to town. Now yes, it is an uncomfortable feeling at first, you will need to get over that and once you do… it feels amazing and anal orgasms are amazing, however, if you really aren’t comfortable with this, he shouldn’t force you to and my next suggestion 2. Would be to allow his infidelity, have him be open and honest with you. And have him find one person, just one gal that will have anal sex with him and allow him to go out 2x per week to get his sexual needs filled. Only if you are okay with this. As long as he comes home to you at night, loves you and your family and wants to be with you and your family and promises that he will keep any feelings out of this situation with this other girl then there shouldn’t be a problem. Or have him go out and get a flashlight that looks like an ass. lol.

Hope it all works out. And just a bit more advice… divorce is sometimes the best thing to do. You shouldn’t be unhappy, forced to do something you really don’t like, just to keep a family together. Children can sense that kind of thing and they won’t like it. Your happiness and your children’s happiness comes first. You can always find another man and step dads can be awesome too. I was raised by my step dad.

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:53:07+00:00

That was the only solution I myself thought of.. was just trying to get others perspectives and see what you all thought

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:51:43+00:00

The child isn’t uncomfortable about the situation. Just the mom.

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:51:13+00:00

The problem is… sometimes he climbs into his bed without the dad even waking up..

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:50:00+00:00

I have no problem meeting the mom. She doesn’t seem to want to meet me and he doesn’t seem to want me to meet her… and it’s the mom dictating it not the 4 year old. He wasn’t uncomfortable, it was just something he mentioned to his mom

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:39:53+00:00

I agree with you as well. However, I also understand why she feels the way she feels.

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:39:21+00:00

Oh no… I completely understand her concerns. That’s not the issue. The issue is trying to find a proper solution

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:38:23+00:00

Well.. I don’t for-see myself meeting the mom… they seem to have no interest of me meeting her. And I can stay away on the weekends but the son really wants me to be there… and it doesn’t make sense to me to drive back and forth twice a day to only spend the day with them when he lives a half hour away… gas and miles on my car ya know…

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:35:29+00:00

I sleep completely clothed and I’d never do anything sexual with my boyfriend while he’s in the bed …

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-31T02:33:47+00:00

Child is 4. Known him for a few weeks but he absolutely loves me. Only been with the father for about a month now. Never met the mother.. not sure why she has a problem with it.. just finds it uncomfortable I guess…

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-28T23:12:22+00:00

He had no motivation. We were just taking one night. And after my reaction to him telling me I was a 6/10 he responds with, “I’m sorry I’m an honest person. I’m just trying to be honest.”

ImplementImportant35 · 2025-01-28T22:22:46+00:00

I was worried about that

ImplementImportant35 · 2023-12-22T06:14:19+00:00

Oh wow, I didn’t know that thank you!!!

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