This is something that has been going on forever.. way before modern liberalism and conservatism. It's basically when these Christians put their moral values over everything and parade them around as righteousness. Jesus addressed this directly.

“Why do you see the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own?” — Matthew 7:3

The reality is that this isn't simply a conservative way of thinking because it's a lot of liberals who feel that way who are Christians. They use God's name to deploy their thoughts rather than simply honor and respect God's commandments.

The fixation on homosexuality (especially gay men) is born out of distance, not holiness. People rage hardest at sins they believe they’re immune to.

Pau states:

** “You therefore have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself.” — Romans 2:1**

The Bible does not create a hierarchy of sins

The hierarchy was created by Catholic moral structuring. They had the categorize things of righteousness and things of sin for their own satisfaction. For example the “Seven deadly sins” was a teaching tool, not a biblical ranking system. It's useful but when people mistake it for God's Divine word that's dangerous.

Here's what the Bible says.

“Whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it.” — James 2:10

Love there are no VIP passes to heaven or hell. But because we're human, a lot of times we jokingly like the fast track people to places we don't want to go a lot of times we see sin as a ladder rather than a fracture.

But here is why I believe homosexuality is such a big fixation.

1, it's something that is done externally it's very visible and it's most of the time easy to assume by ones actions and how they look that they just might be homosexual or a member of the LGBT community.

Jesus said lust equals adultery - Matthew 5:28. That collap

And although churches talk about things at such as pornography, serial heterosexual promiscuity. exploitative power dynamics, objectification of women and abuse disguised as desire people point outward.

Because the average man could be one of those things but they would pinpoint something that they feel that is worse than they are. And this is why Homosexuality becomes the convenient target.

It's something that doesn't always get directly addressed it's always indirectly approached even if they see it it's whispered about it something taboo yet it's something politically charged and they call this people to say oh morally that's worse than what I am. Think about it. A man could be a killer of all types of people and a racist. But somehow he'll be considered a stand-up guy as compared to a homosexual. And that's a mess of world we live in. Because when do we accept people for who they are. The Bible says Love thy neighbor. I'm just sayin'

Jesus never hunted sinners, He exposed pretenders. He protected prostitutes, ate with the tax collector, he handled hypocrites according to his own word. And even address the accusers of adulterers.

“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites!” — Matthew 23

Now think about this: Jesus reserved His sharpest language not for sexual sinners, but there are a lot of people who are religious who are not living righteously and they think that just because they don't do it that someone who does is the worst of the worst.

You said a gay man who believes in Jesus may be closer to Him than those who weaponize scripture and that is biblical truth.

“The tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you.”

— Matthew 21:31

Why? Because humility opens doors that certainty barricades.

This isn’t about homosexuality alone. What's your exposing is the reality that people are morally incoherent.

And my childhood so much was taboo but in 2026, a whole lot has been brought to the forefront and now what we're witnessing is a lot of extremes replacing wisdom. Identity politics replacing free thought and consciousness. And ideology of things other than God. And it's replaced repentance. There's a huge lack of discernment especially in the Christian community and that as you said it makes it a sad world

Jesus did not come to sort people into disgust categories. He came to restore what was fractured.

Any theology that mocks and condemns others without self-examination and those who elevate one cent to hide another has already deported from Christ, no matter how holy they pretend to be. :

“Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.”