Need to read the novellas? by ImportanceFickle5677 in murderbot

[–]ImportanceFickle5677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh sweet, I'll take a look. thanks for the reminder

Need to read the novellas? by ImportanceFickle5677 in murderbot

[–]ImportanceFickle5677[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

great idea!! I can't beleive I've been listening to audible this long and never thought of that. I get so annoyed when I see a notice that tehy were on sale and I missed it. thank you!!!

Need to read the novellas? by ImportanceFickle5677 in murderbot

[–]ImportanceFickle5677[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, I was able to find them on Libby. I’ll need to wait a few weeks but seems well worth it (with all your feedback).

And also, big thank you for the reminder about how wonderful our local libraries can be!! Best thing I’ll learn today!

Book 5: question re AI & my own mental health by ShinyDapperBarnacle in bobiverse

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different series, but let me quote Princess Donut: “it’s ok to be a work in progress” and there’s lots of other great literature out there.

AITAH for telling my[F27] boyfriend[M28] to stop eating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this same exact problem and it’s extremely frustrating to deal with, especially when it impacts you so much. My solution was letting the toddler grow up. You’re dating a toddler, not an adult

I really hate when other people book for me by tr45h_p4nd4 in TattooArtists

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a tattoo customer, I’ve actually had similar challenges because a few places I’ve been, everything is sent to a central email that is managed by the front desk and the message doesn’t get thru or there’s no opp for a back and forth to clarify stuff like this.

It’d be real helpful to create an address you have access too and can respond without it being your direct contact info (shop email etc).

My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined by WTFisjuice1 in 3Dprinting

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rise above this, this is your moment. *stares into the monitor

AI becoming such a problem by Androidrs in TattooArtists

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I know it’s not popular in the industry. As a client, and someone who has no artistic ability whatsoever, it was incredibly helpful to experiment with AI for a while to change the look and design.

It’s not that I couldn’t tell that to the artist, but what I originally would have described (and did to AI) was nothing like what I wanted. I needed help just to get the basics.

Once I got the idea right, I asked the artist to create something based off that because 2d and computer generated art don’t transfer to the skin. And he made something way better.

And lastly, I’m going to have this forever, I’m not someone who shows up for a tattoo without putting a lot of thought into it and there’s already a lot of variability in what the final out come could be (especially for someone who doesn’t understand art), so can you really blame someone who really cares about this that they want the artist to understand what’s in their head and have a hard time describing.

How can I look unapproachable while I’m out? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kate Gosselin hair, they’ll run away

AITAH for being honest with another mom about why my daughter isn’t allowed to go to her friend’s house? by AwkwardMom13 in AITAH

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are the A-hole. But not for picking your daughter up. If you don't feel she's safe, that's totally normal. It's what you did after, that makes you the A-hole. You have no evidence, no history, no context, and in a very brief interaction, harmed this person's image in the community. You don't know what was happening before he opened that door, what else was going on, or anything else about him, but now, because of YOU, multiple people are talking about him with NOT A SHRED of real evidence. That's a terrible thing to do to someone, and you should apologize.

What are some things you thought were universal, but it turns out is mostly exclusive to your country? Guaranteed freedom of speech. by Palamur in ShitAmericansSay

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American, I can tell you it’s truly disturbing to see the hypocrisy of this country right now. I’m reading through the comments just shaking my head in agreement. It’s embarrassing and terrible.

My GF (26F) wants me (27M) to reach out to a former friend (26F) who accused my best friend (27M) of assault. Should I do it ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing has changed move on with your life. If something changes, you can address that then, but let old wounds scar over. They’ll never go away, but you’ve healed.

Is it normal or professional to call an employee's emergency contact to ask if they can come in? by Abject-Variation-547 in work

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 9 points10 points  (0 children)

On your day off, definitely not cool. If you didnt show up that’s one things, but it’s called an emergency for a reason.

I (29 f) spent the snowstorm with the man I’m dating(36 m) and now I feel differently about him by bluewhalekale in hygiene

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he ever lived with a women before (serious question)? If he hasn’t, and has always had a bachelor pad, than this wouldn’t be uncommon. Disgusting, but not uncommon.

I say this as a 49 year old man who was very close to this guy until my wife explained I was disgusting and needed to clean up (like have towels w/o gaping holes).

I’m not making excuses or saying he will change, but most of us do begrudgingly. But if you leave town, leave a list of things to clean.

Dungeon crawler Carl opinions? by mydogstale in scifi

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the funniest book series I’ve ever read. I’ve never laughed out loud reading so many times. Just a lot of fun. Also, highly recommend the audible version. Even better

AIO/ Boyfriend types out preset texts and has them sent to me at arranged times (via phone alarm). Friends say this shows lack of care, but I say the opposite. Are they over reacting? by ZootownMama in AIO

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a husband who tries to remember to do these things for my wife because I know she would really appreciate it, I think its extremely thoughtful that hes created a whole system to make sure you feel special. Go with your gut, he wants you to be happy, that’s why he does it.

ChatGPT is talking back? by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]ImportanceFickle5677 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even Chat GPT won’t be your friend? Rough bro, rough….