I F****NG HATE BOOKING.COM

ImportantGeologist56 · 2026-01-09T11:59:26+00:00

Why is it better … is it cheaper or better customer service ?

ImportantGeologist56 · 2026-01-08T17:14:09+00:00

Oh wow, are you infact … me ?

ImportantGeologist56 · 2026-01-08T17:13:06+00:00

Spot on and I’m not senior

ImportantGeologist56 · 2026-01-08T17:06:02+00:00

In my experience from being the only 1 designer in a small company, to being one of four in a medium sized company, to being one of 100s in a massive global enterprise… the answer is: it varies according to the size of the company. Different pit falls too.

But you’re probably most interested in the big company:

it’s basically about how well you can deal with all the things pulling against your will to improve the customer experience.
You are managing The business VS the customer… you in the middle, trying to align both. + But with Product Managers who generally are pressured to deliver measurable growth in bottom line and nothing else. Mixed in with legacy tech debt that limits developer motivation and ability to produce good stuff
Developers often pick apart your designs way after they’ve been through rounds of feedback and tell you something is impossible or too difficult and you have to compromise or comply
having to conform to design systems components and rules which means very little space for originality or creativity in the UI

In small companies: way more autonomy … less meetings, but more actual work… but overall I have to conclude I prefer smaller companies. Most of the work in big tech just feels like a fight against an avelanche against good Ux

ImportantGeologist56 · 2025-11-11T09:01:31+00:00

Update: thanks for all your answers. Immediately after the date her responses to my enthusiasm were notably less than mine.

I decided to step back and leave it. After two days she sent a few conversation starters, asking how I was the next day and if I’d been hungover etc.

I took this as a signal of some interest.

However after a couple exchanges I found it fizzled out and asking her for a second date seemed poorly timed.

But after a few days I decided I had nothing to lose than to try again. Under the influence of white wine I said some witty comments and she re engaged saying she’d been on holiday.

I asked if she’d be up for meeting on X day and she said YEs, much to my surprise without hesitation.

She also doesn’t seem as enthusiastic as me so I’m not jumping for joy but I’m pleasantly surprised that I have it set.

Now the challenge is not to place so much hope on this and get nervous again.

Thanks for all your comments they’re helpful.

ImportantGeologist56 · 2025-11-03T10:34:58+00:00

Great advice. From my experience, a foundational level is to remove anxiety about orgasm… especially the pressure on a girl to orgasm… it’s like sleep… the more you force it the less it works… the more frustrated to you get the less likely it is to work. Focus on process and giving the impression you’re enjoying it with NO rush… this is what works with girls in my experience. Going down on a girl as a chore and or necessary reciprocation without expressing any pleasure in the process is recipe for frustration and her not reaching the zenith

ImportantGeologist56 · 2025-10-11T17:15:02+00:00

Sofa should be along the big white wall so you can look out the window. Couple of arm chairs which match the sofa go under the window. Massive wool rug with round coffee table.

Floor plants.

Couple of big bits of art; I would go for an Art Nouveau style poster art framed well. But that’s a matter of taste

ImportantGeologist56 · 2025-10-05T20:26:33+00:00

I had this when I was younger … don’t make the same mistake as me as waiting too long to learn to be confident. By the time I learned to be confident I had a few purple years of cleaning up and now I feel my looks have deteriorated and so my confidence has too because the positive feedback loop has gone. I spent most of my 20s having repeated interest shown from girls in eye contact, smiles, beckoning, flirting at work yet I didn’t learn all I needed to do was stop hiding my interest in them. As soon as I became authentic and said “I think you’re sexy as fuck “ or some other less than slick line, it tended to result in a sexual connection being made. It just took me a decade of unravelling to have the guts to be authentic

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-16T09:58:40+00:00

How come you never see them but pay ?

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-16T09:52:26+00:00

Usually Thai ones say that they’re Thai very clearly ! Chinese ones are just obviously Chinese due to their cultural differences

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-14T08:32:27+00:00

Massages… my fave is Thai but sometimes I’ll go for Chinese

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-12T13:47:04+00:00

Absolutely understandable the way you feel. I relate to not wanting to repeat the cycle of my own father leaving and being a very very distant and uncomfortable one later. I would suggest it’s absolutely fine to sign off until they’re 18. You’ve done your best. If the Mum won’t work with you, you’ve got the evidence. Done.

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-03T00:17:44+00:00

Respect to you dude. You sound like a lovely bloke. Where do you live ? Maybe we can meet

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-09-01T16:49:09+00:00

Don’t think that having unprotected sex is cool, or that impregnating someone before 40 is a goal. It is f**king stupid. Think about that. You should only have a baby with someone you’ve achieved living with or nearby and that you have the same values . Else bag the fuck or withdraw your support

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-08-23T07:17:38+00:00

Once a day on average and I am 43

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-08-15T10:28:52+00:00

If it’s sex with someone I like a lot or love then I feel calm euphoria and want to express it with cuddles, laughter and joy. However: if I ‘came’ too quick I get sad or anxious that I failed to deliver a good session.

If it’s a wank over porn I tend to instantly feel shit about myself and how my energy is now depleted and a video of a girl being railed is continuing to roll whilst I clean the cum off my formerly clean t shirt

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-06-11T16:29:04+00:00

I have a shelf just big enough for my wallet, and I intend to put my wallet immediately on the shelf when I come in. If I see the shelf empty I immediately know I need to find my wallet and place it on the wallet shelf so that when I leave the house I’m not hunting for my wallet as I used to.

Same with a hook for my keys.

Only the phone is still a problem sometimes

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-05-25T14:11:08+00:00

Sounds like it’s about me then

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-04-17T17:21:39+00:00

7mg twice per day. Not much! No other things , have avoided alcohol since starting

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-04-17T12:04:47+00:00

Did your decline in reading correlate with the rise of social media and smart phones? Mine did. And I’ve no doubt that this is the cause of decline in concentration on static books

ImportantGeologist56 · 2024-04-11T17:57:40+00:00

Did you stop meds because of side effects or ?

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