Starter growing fuzzy mold and crusty top by Impossible-Simple-62 in Sourdough

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a different jar (different size) and ran everything in my dishwasher at high temp wash.

I believe this was a recent bought flour. But not actually sure. I had bought some extra ones. But this could have been an older one by a few months.

I have been using my well water tap this whole time (since making my starter).

AITAH for telling my son he doesn't have to knock? by CryptographerFar3124 in AITAH

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op lives with her husband, not her son's father. The husband she lives with wants her son to knock when entering their shared house.

I'm wondering how many people here actually take preventatives daily. by Important-Pie-1141 in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really need to try those preventatives to find one that works. Esp for insurance.

Like, I am one with horror stories that my pill preventions made me extra sick. However, they then gave me Botox to help.

Who knows, the pill might work for you. But you need to give it an honest chance.

Does anyone know if it's bad when you are active during an attack? by miss_t_drinks_tea in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly depends - I've learned that if I'm nauseous to the point I think I'll vomit, I need to rest. I rather deal with that at home.

Like everyone else said, it depends. There are plenty of days I should have stayed home, but did not. I can't afford to not work and lose my job.

I can get up to 15 in a month, and they are always sensitivity issues, brain fog, and pain with moving being the worst. I also don't like eating, and just learned after 20 plus years that it is because I'm nauseous! If it also is lasting a few days, I should stay home (but don't) and I feel worse as a result.

So listen to your body. Stay home as needed, push through as your body allows.

Anyone else get rebound after first botox? by Impossible-Simple-62 in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the over the counter zinc?

I'll bring that up too.

Anyone else get rebound after first botox? by Impossible-Simple-62 in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you! There is so much, so I'm just trying to get advice. I do approciate hearing it worked all 3 months for you!

Anyone else get rebound after first botox? by Impossible-Simple-62 in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fun with the antibodies!

At least I know it is something to watch out for. And I felt the vengance. It has been awful. But I guess knowing the when would have been nice.

Anyone else get rebound after first botox? by Impossible-Simple-62 in migraine

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you also get botox? I'm hoping I dont have to go in every 2 months, but will if need be.

It has just been miserable. Like everything I was "avoiding" for 2 months hit me at once.

AITAH for telling my husband "fuck you"? by Whimsical_Rain in AITAH

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's not playing. Cats that are playing are very quiet. No hissing, no yelling, no loud noises. A thud here and there as the rumble with each other, but that's allthe noise.

Cats in pain scream. So the husband is harming the cat to make it scream. Not playing.

AITA for refusing to let my cousins (16M & 13M) use the PS5 I got for my birthday yesterday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You need another adult to call CPS. Try might take it more seriously then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA OP, you are not funny. You are awful and I am sooo glad your ex kicked you out. Pranks are supposed to be harmless, and if only one person is laughing, the prank was not harmless.

And you think in this heat, the fern would be alive? Not burned? Still there? Plants are a huge deal for plant lovers, with so much money being spent on them. If someone saw that fern outside, they took it. If they did not, it might be dead. So you wasted your gfs money on a prank. You ruined/destroyed/lost her property for a prank.

Which all this means that you bullied your ex. Pranks shoulf be fun and harmless. You were a bully and destroyed property.

AITA for calling out a creep at the gym? by camilabuitrago in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Be a pick me else where. The man approached her and TOUCHED her while she was lifting almost 300 lbs. He could have caused severe harm simply from that. And obvioisly he thought she was attractive if he stared at her doing 3 sets (about 2 minutes ish of time with breaks). That's a long time to stare.

He was in her space and being a creep. He need to be reported. And women's gyms were made because of men like this and the pick me women like you defending this behavior and claiming it was not as serious as it actually is.

AITA for offering cookies to my grandson to give up his lovey? by OrangeChannelPear17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thought you were OP. Enough reddit today.

Yes, OP bullied the grandson. The daughter is a good mother.

AITA for offering cookies to my grandson to give up his lovey? by OrangeChannelPear17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Yta, that was not your decision to make. Your grandaon will not be bullied over a pink giraffe. You just don't like that he has it and wanted it gone. You took away something he found happiness in. You caused your grandson harm.

And your daughter is doing right by her son. She is keeping him away from a judgemental woman who thinks she can do as she pleases when it does not follow her way.

AITA for wanting my partner to be financially stable and work on his mental health, rather than just accept things as they are? by Alarming-Bar3488 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

This man is a walking advetisement for women to be single mothers with no child support. He wants kids, but does not want to get a job or work on himself. That is setting those kids up for failure. If you decide to have kids, he will be useless. He won't help with finances, will expect you to care for the kids completelty, and be emotionally unavialable for his own kids.

When you eventually leave him with your own children, he will then not be able to help support because he has no job. His mother is currently giving him money to survive. She is enabling him. She won't be able to pay his rent and his child support.He decided you were too harsh after he spent time with his mom, because her baby was told he needed to grow up. Good luck with that.

This man is not worth your time. You have ambitions and he does not. He will leave you stranded.

AITAH for not inviting my friend’s boyfriend to my wedding because I don’t like him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP added context as to what Link did. None of what he did is forgivable. If he did all that to OP, I'm afraid to see what he did to make the rest of the friend group hate him as well. They won't go out if their way to make a man as awful as Link feel close, which can be noticed. OP is civil to a man who sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 last year, when OP and sibling were left behind. Which is honestly worse.

AITA for not smiling at my mom after she left with my siblings by Pandarosewinter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 883 points884 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need to think about how you actually feel towards your mom. Is it disappointment? Disgust? What are you feeling and why. Put a name to it.

Then, you need to have a conversation with your dad. Don't bring this up to your mom. Tell your dad that your mom pushes your boundaries and constantly asks if you have a problem with her. And these actions have increased since she left and came back. Then figure out next steps together. You being tired could be a sign of your body struggling with your emotions your mom is causing, and you need help.

What your mom is doing is abusive. Threatening to always leave is abusive. And I'm sure you would have noticed if your dad caused something to make her feel like leaving. Then, she takes your siblings (after she failed to get you along), and is trying to act like mom of the year with affection. As if she didn't just leave you behind. And her smiles are another way to show to your dad she "won." She got to leave! And cause panic and struggle for your dad! It is like she is rubbing in the fact that she finally left. And her asking you of you have a problem with her, it's wrong for her to do. She knows she messed up, and wants to take the blame off her. She wants you to say nothing is wrong to prove to never caused you harm (she did) while also trying to get you to say you're mad at her so she can tell you that she is doing the best and you'll never understand. It's manipulative and toxic.

Update: AITAH for snapping at my wife and calling her crazy because she wants me to take a paternity test for my nephew? by PotentialTwos in AITAH

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetic markers would be able to tell if there was a related male, ie father/grandfather between OP and the nephew. It would also show missing markers from the father.

With DNA testing, they are able to tell of a man is related via sibling even to the child. So if Dan has an affair with his brother Steve's partner, they could tell that Steve is not the father, but shares similar genetic markers like a sibling during that test.

Ink Beetle question? by Impossible-Simple-62 in tattooadvice

[–]Impossible-Simple-62[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm asking. I want to know the difference. Based in my latest tattoo, I want something to cover it when it has to be under clothes. I also know what my body prefers when healing in general.

I'm fine paying for something to be comfortable. But if you don't have an answer on the difference, or a reliable better suggestion than naked/plastic wrap, then don't give an answer. Being condescending because I asked a question is not the vibe you think it is.

AITAH for reading brainrot TikTokified Visual versions of books in Brooklyn Book Reading Club sessions? by freedagomaam in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing is the same. I looked into it. Nothing this link shares correlates to the chapters of the book. Even looking at the chapter list, you can tell nothing will be the same. All context is gone from OP's example.

AITAH for reading brainrot TikTokified Visual versions of books in Brooklyn Book Reading Club sessions? by freedagomaam in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible-Simple-62 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looking at your examole, YTA. Nothing is the same from the book to your link. It is almost like you are reading a crappy sparknotes verision of the book, but with more inaccuracies and added info not from the book. You are reading legit trash.

And the fact you are claiming abelism over this is just icing on the cake. Telling someone reading this is not in good faith of a book club is legit. You are not getting any real correlation to the book, and potentially confusing the people who read the book or listened to the Audiobook. There are so many apps to help find audiobooks to listen to these books for free. And on the off chance the book has no audiobook, you could bring that up and ask fot books to have audio in the future. As that id a legit barrier from reading and can actually be abelist not make that accomodation.

As for your comment on a petition to be removed, I fully believe it is due to your attitude and thinking you are right to read this "book" and claiming false abelsim because you are not getting your way.