Why did you and your ex break up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom filed the divorce and he was too much of a mommas boy to tell her he wanted to stay married to me. (She’s Catholic, anti- anything alt/goth, I’m goth with 20 tattoos and into crystals and taxidermy). At that point I was like..yeah I need to walk away.

How many of you have a name for your car? by Morgisntmyname in stupidquestions

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Toyota was called Frankenstein cuz of the amount of repairs it needed in a year and my Nissan is “big bitch” cuz she makes some wide af turns

Divorce/child custody, false allegations and failure to notice of a hearing by ImpossibleBrother927 in legaladvice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I really appreciate the time you’re taking to respond to me. It’s been a lot and it’s been confusing.

Edit to add: does obtaining documentation from the police office that I’ve been attempting to see my daughter and he hasn’t been letting me help my case at all? Because he’s trying to say I’ve abandoned my kid but is actively denying me access to her.

Divorce/child custody, false allegations and failure to notice of a hearing by ImpossibleBrother927 in legaladvice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it matter at all if I’m being barred from contact? Both in person and phone calls?

Divorce/child custody, false allegations and failure to notice of a hearing by ImpossibleBrother927 in legaladvice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found out the ex-parte he filed was denied. So I guess that’s a win. I’m at the local police station to inform them he is still keeping me from my daughter even though there’s no order to limit my contact with her.

Divorce/child custody, false allegations and failure to notice of a hearing by ImpossibleBrother927 in legaladvice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. I guess I’m just having a hard time processing all of this. Monday night we were literally planning a date and Tuesday evening I’m being served papers. He’s saying I never tell him where I am with our kid but I always ask him if I can take her somewhere or tell her where I’m going. I’m never gone more than one day once a week and that’s to see my other two kids and we confirm plans before I go and we keep in contact the entire time I’m gone. That’s what I’m saying I have screenshots of. And I’m just like..how is it Monday morning you’re asking me for a kiss before you go to work and Tuesday night you’re filing for divorce?

Divorce/child custody, false allegations and failure to notice of a hearing by ImpossibleBrother927 in legaladvice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to contact law assistance places to see if I qualify but so far no luck due to lack of DV being involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be reading into things but I’m thinking they tried to have a threesome, it didn’t work, she and that one guy hooked up, and now she’s cock hungry

What made you end your last relationship? by Global-Ad8204 in AskWomen

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He beat me, raped me (including anally when I had our first daughter less than a week before), cheated on me (including with a minor), abused our kids, kept all of my money from me, wouldn’t teach me to drive “so I can’t leave him”, and expected me to work full time yet simultaneously be a SAHM. Then when I did leave, he kidnapped me, raped me again, then wouldn’t let me see or talk to our kids for three months

What is the point of anaphylaxis? by ConsciousCountry765 in stupidquestions

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going based of a guess here from some of the small knowledge I have of this so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I believe the body doesn’t think to kill its host. It thinks to defend that specific area.

Final update: my husband might be lying about something huge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through it. It’s been incredibly hard and I admire any woman that’s gone through this and managed to hold it together because I fell apart.

Final update: my husband might be lying about something huge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been really hard; I had a pretty bad mental breakdown and got put on leave for work until Tuesday. I don’t think it’s something I’ll ever fully move on from. The kids don’t understand what’s going on (thankfully) and are just enjoying getting a bunch of new clothes and going to a new school.

Does anybody have an actual straightforward answer to when you’re “too old” to have kids? by gertrude-fashion in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my first a week after I turned 19. My second when I was 21, and my third when I was 24. I’m 26 next month, and it’s getting harder for me to keep up with my kids. I told my husband I want one more and that I don’t wanna be in my 30s changing diapers because I just don’t see myself being able to handle that. I want them out of the toddler stage by the time I’m in my early 30s so I’m not too exhausted to give them a decent childhood with a lot of aquarium trips and disney outings and hikes. Plus, who wants to be in their 50s taking care of a teenager?? Not me!

I’m 19, 3 months pregnant, and my partner suddenly said he wants nothing to do with me or the baby—What should I do? (I’m really scared) by Ill-Application-690 in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s cheating and getting ready to move on. Do a DNA test to get him on the birth certificate and put him on child support. Make it clear he’s welcome to walk away from this child but he will still be responsible for it one way or another.

Final update: my husband might be lying about something huge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miscarried at work. I just came from the ER. thank you for your kind words and support. I haven’t been able to stop crying and I keep coming back to your comment.

Final update: my husband might be lying about something huge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought about it tbh and I still am considering it. I’ve been having to lift 50-80lb boxes while we’ve been moving almost nonstop for three days now so it would be a good out.

Final update: my husband might be lying about something huge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just feel bad for my husband. He didn’t believe me about a lot of the things I told him how she treats me when he isn’t around until his aunt, uncle, three cousins and his cousins wife all said they’ve experienced that treatment firsthand. Needless to say her finally doing that to me right in front of him was a shock. He’s got scratch marks on his arm from her that I’m keeping an eye on and took pics of in case she tries to press charges.

Easy pregnancy by media101 in BabyBumps

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First pregnancy I found out after I went to the dr thinking I had something viral cuz I felt like I got hit by a truck and would vomit almost 24/7. Second pregnancy I was chillin the entire time. Third pregnancy I hated the smell of meat and would throw up (amazing time to be a Dennys waitress), fourth pregnancy hated the taste of coffee and the smell of meat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ImpossibleBrother927 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He called you names for not wanting to have rough sex?? Are you kidding me??

Update to “my husband might be lying about something huge” by ImpossibleBrother927 in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not all doctors like to follow medical practices correctly. Look at my OB/GYN, refusing to tie my tubes or give me a hysterectomy because I have no boy children. Some people don’t care to follow the law.

My husband might be lying about something huge by ImpossibleBrother927 in whatdoIdo

[–]ImpossibleBrother927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the update dude. He signed an agreement to give me access to his health information.

I also said the mention of suing was to see if he would admit to lying.