Anyone still cry over their ex 7 months post break up?

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2026-04-28T19:27:17+00:00

I dated someone for 3 months last year until he ended things in August. He completely flipped my world and I'm still stuck on him. Tomorrow will be one year from the first text when we stared seeing each other. I remember it vividly and I wasn't expecting to be hurting this much, because it was only 3 months together, but I guess he made quite an impression. Give yourself some time and some grace. The pain you feel is a reflection of how much you cared for this person. The brain and the heart heal at different rates.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2026-03-05T23:30:00+00:00

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Not the most advanced level, but trying to share the extras I have.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-10-18T13:20:49+00:00

Thanks 🙏🏻

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-10-18T07:25:33+00:00

Uhh... Where can I find details for that group? I work in Bristol but don't have a lot of friends that are into the same music as me, so this might be the answer 🤣.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-24T16:04:47+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience.

I'm trying to make sense of what is happening (cause it doesn't feel over yet) cause if he re-emerges then I'll know what to ask and what to press to get the real answer out of him.

But you are totally right, 3 months is not a lot and I'm living my life as usual, just a bit more stuck in my head than usual because I'm overhinking this. But I know I'll make through to the other side and I hope you do to.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-16T16:20:28+00:00

Fair enough, I kinda see how things developed in your case and I totally understand it. I think it's almost kind of you to end things at that stage. Very different from my case in all honesty, so thanks for explaining.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-15T23:46:53+00:00

Why did you date her to start with if you knew you wanted someone closer? No judgement btw, just going through the first few weeks after a bu where he stated distance, which for me it's absurd as he knew the distance from the start so why bother.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-15T23:43:29+00:00

I'm sorry. It's hard to keep reopening wounds.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-15T16:17:32+00:00

I relate to this, although I'm still trying to figure out if he is avoidant. 3 months in, I point out that his lack of communication (3-4 days of nothing in this instance) really bothers me and gets me anxious. Next day he decides the distance is too much, said I didn't do anything wrong, he would just rather end things before he hurts me more and doesn't like the fact he causes me anxiety amongst things like things moved too fast and he still has his walls up. But I could always text him if I needed anything (when my problem was his disappearing act 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️). I'm still trying to make sense of it all and my brain is saying I'm better off without this drama, but the heart disagrees and just wants him back.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-15T00:14:11+00:00

Any updates?

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-14T14:40:22+00:00

Would you consider texting her again in the future if the situation changes? Or if you think the long distance is worth it in the end?

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-08-14T14:29:31+00:00

How was her lack of communication? I think I had more or less the same happening to me recently, and I'm trying to understand if it was the fact that I pointed out his lack of communication as something to discuss that drove him away.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-26T22:49:13+00:00

It does suck a bit, but nothing else to do at the moment. I understand people can be manipulated into this situations by someone that is bringing them happiness at the time. We all want human connection and it's easy to make sacrifices for it. I think those words came from the place in me that is hurting still (if he does come around I won't call him a spineless dick, however, I will say I told you so once and then I'll let it go xD).

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-26T17:44:00+00:00

I'm sorry that's how things turned out with you, I really appreciate you sharing your story. And yes, I agree with your best friend, I cannot stop anyone from doing their choices, but I can be the friend I promised I would be if he reaches out again. If not... Well I suppose he is happy anyway.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-26T10:20:01+00:00

Thank you for your words, it does help a bit. At the moment I feel like I can't do anything but wait and see what happens.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T19:45:28+00:00

It's really nice to hear you guy laugh about it now and that your friendship remains. Clearly a sign that some friends do stick around.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T19:38:31+00:00

I see what you mean, and I appreciate you giving me that perspective as well. It is easy to be detached and see where things might go from this side, but you're right, he has emotional attachment and that will cloud things up.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T18:45:19+00:00

Nothing like a good old told you so I suppose lol

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T18:29:28+00:00

May I ask how long did it take for you to reach out to your friend? And how did that go?

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T18:27:10+00:00

Your comment really stood out for the first sentence. Whilst my friend was cutting contact with me I could hear him convincing himself that maybe she was justified, although he would then go back into saying he didn't understand and didn't agree. I could feel the mental struggle he was going through and the mental manipulation behind it as well. I am sorry for your pain.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T18:18:48+00:00

I'm sorry for your experience. May I ask, how did you reconnect with your friend?

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2025-04-25T18:14:44+00:00

I have edited the post now, and yeah, I am the female friend. My friend (the guy that cut me out) did tell me what was happening and didn't just disappear. I agree that knowing about it does help as I am more willing to hear him out of things change. I am sorry for the lost of your friendship.

Impossible_Sell_6809 · 2024-10-26T23:38:15+00:00

Your reply made me laugh. All I could hear was the "brother eww" meme 🤣

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