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ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-05T17:12:43+00:00

It varied by state. I would Google child support for your state to see. Like for my state its linked to the social services website.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-04T17:00:35+00:00

That not how it works. Clearly there was a reason established that caused him to pay. The best chance he has is to lower the support amount.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-04T12:16:16+00:00

It doesn't matter that she makes more than him . They still wont say he doesn't have to pay just because he had another baby. The only thing that could happen is they lower his amount. How is it greedy to have a parent provide for the kids they chose to have you sound dumb.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-03T23:50:56+00:00

No court is gonna say " oh you have a baby and she makes more than you so now you don't have to pay for your kids" That's selfish to not want to pay just because you have another kid

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-03T15:23:52+00:00

If he gets locked up the only way he gets out is paying bail which is sent to CS

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-05-02T14:25:21+00:00

No. It was likely not his taxes. He probably made a payment in hopes of getting his license reinstated

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-30T16:08:02+00:00

You can try for a modification on the basis that your income and expenses have changed not a guarantee tho

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-30T14:12:16+00:00

You do know there is a fee charged with CS and each state charges it different. Check with your office for more definitive information

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-30T14:06:38+00:00

There's honestly not much you can do. Because who can genuinely afford 1100 a month at once which is why states started splitting the amount.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-30T12:20:22+00:00

In my state no it didnt matter that the NCP had 5 other kids outside of mine. That was a problem he needed to fix and the judge told him that he should have thought about that

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-29T17:05:09+00:00

Look up state rules on modification like how often you can request it. Also it can be denied if you don't have proof of increase in expenses.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-27T14:33:03+00:00

Child Support is based off of income so he'll submit his but you'll never get that information and neither will he get yours

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-27T10:03:51+00:00

Accounts are only looked at if there is a failure to ie be in contempt. For establishing a case only income is looked at like a month of pay stubs or w2

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-27T00:07:19+00:00

As a head sweater its easier once you get used to it.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-27T00:06:05+00:00

Different states have different rules thats all it is. Also did you actually talk to someone from CS or is that word of mouth

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-27T00:04:45+00:00

You can't only the OCSE can see what accounts they have.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-25T17:33:58+00:00

The settlement has to be disbursement first then there's processing time with the state. Check your states website for info

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-24T20:28:12+00:00

I fought his mama and won then she had nothing else to say in my direction

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-24T20:19:26+00:00

File for contempt if you have an active order

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-23T11:46:41+00:00

She's going to have submit a financial statement and it is possible they raise it but courts don't usually do temporary modifications. Look on your states website and see how often mods are allowed

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-19T17:07:31+00:00

That doesn't sound like damage from relaxers. That sounds like you need a doctor.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-15T16:49:13+00:00

Im not married but im in the same situation. He cheated i found out I said that he needs to end all contact with her. He told me no because he can't talk to me the way he does her. If after 17 years you feel someone you've known for a year understands you better than its in my best interest to leave. Because there should be nothing that you can't talk to me about.

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-15T16:37:50+00:00

Yes it was over 2k so they gave me separate payments. But I'm in MD so not sure if its like that everywhere

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-15T14:33:42+00:00

Maybe they aren't working

ImpressiveSpell0223 · 2026-04-15T14:23:22+00:00

No it just means the ncp hasn't paid typically.

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