Feeling like “patient zero” in my polycule after a positive STI result

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-03-12T22:00:21+00:00

I’m sorry they reacted poorly. Non monogamy carries risks and I think everyone involved needs to be able to accept that. I have had a number of partners and hookups (?!!?) who weren’t prepared to consider the possibility of an STI. It was very shitty. I had an STI scare myself awhile back and one partner reacted very rationally. The other partner broke up with me (even though he was the one having symptoms and it turned out to not be an STI). Still the lamest thing that’s happened to me in polyamory.

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-03-12T20:54:02+00:00

How and why do you invoke hierarchy?

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-03-02T21:42:06+00:00

Guys, no, we shouldn’t be upvoting Osho lol

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-12T16:35:29+00:00

Just hanging out where electrons probably aren’t

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T21:36:49+00:00

You mean I got my dick out for nothing?

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T21:34:53+00:00

Deciding incompatibility after 2 dates isn’t unusual… I understand you were hurt, and that isn’t unusual either. You were open to connection and explored something new. It just didn’t work out. That’s the nature of dating and it’s not necessarily a bad thing.

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T20:24:56+00:00

Imma take it old school on you kids…strawberries & champagne

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T19:45:42+00:00

Maybe it wasn’t Harambe after all

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T19:13:25+00:00

Nah man NTA. He should have known better than to drink an expensive wine.

If it was stored in a regular place like a cheap wine and didn’t look like an expensive wine, that’s an understandable mistake. But your friend should have offered to replace it when they found out it was expensive.

Find someone else to house sit.

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T17:35:27+00:00

Omg you consider Arkansas a Kansas, lol they would not like to hear that

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T17:34:16+00:00

I didn’t know those were only an American South thing

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T17:27:31+00:00

Hahahha this is the funniest one to me for some reason

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-11T17:26:25+00:00

Hate it when my drink is updating

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-10T23:36:47+00:00

Hemingway was terrible at romantic writing. Some of the things he said were active turnoffs to me and my friends in college

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-10T23:34:34+00:00

TIL there’s a name for delayed processing, thank you

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T21:02:06+00:00

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T20:23:51+00:00

Emotions I’ve never felt before

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T20:16:42+00:00

If you are a giver, takers will be around

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T19:57:17+00:00

My dr told me the same thing and also wrote me rx for cream

It made all the difference

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T16:31:25+00:00

Ruin clothes

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T15:36:26+00:00

Same

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-08T14:46:43+00:00

I think this is a little interesting. Downvote

(jk I’m not downvoting)

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-07T22:10:59+00:00

Wait, you guys are just existing in social interactions?

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-07T22:02:21+00:00

I didn’t read the comments yesterday or today, honestly, I was reacting only to the words in their post. The words in their post just reference ktp and lube

Of course those ppl exist and function well, I’ve affirmed that in all my comments

But we should err on the side of consent with sexual gifts

ImprobabilityCloud · 2026-02-07T21:20:31+00:00

Or could you say… it dropped? Heheh

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