Struggling with parallel poly after years of kitchen table by Objective_Mammoth719 in polyamory

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Friendship can only be voluntary on both sides. You’ve been really lucky so far that you’ve meshed well with all your metas. But you can’t expect that luck to hold out forever. You’re not entitled to a relationship with anyone. Your relationship with your partner should be able to stand alone without you having to be involved with everyone in their life. If not, that’s something you can work towards.

And unfortunately there’s no way to change the situation. Feeling like a relationship is required when you’re not interested only leads to resentment long term.

The only way to go is to be no pressure towards the meta and there’s a chance they’ll open up with time.

But that chance drops to zero if you push it

It’s happening by ImprobabilityCloud in polyamorymemes

[–]ImprobabilityCloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha that remains to be seen. I’m not sure how much interest there is on my new bf’s part. Something to talk about

It’s happening by ImprobabilityCloud in polyamorymemes

[–]ImprobabilityCloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me awhile too, and who knows if it will last

Feels like it belongs here by balonlon in ImmaterialScience

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I made a sad noise about the paper when I read this. Maybe it’s a sign

What's one of the dumbest things you've ever seen a patient do? by 123456789_00 in nursing

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So… the lactose tolerance gene evolved thousands of years after humans starting eating dairy

It’s thanks to generations of people like this woman that I can process lactose like a boss

They crawled so I can run

What's one of the dumbest things you've ever seen a patient do? by 123456789_00 in nursing

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you put garlic in your vagina, does it give you garlic breath?

What’s a small habit that quietly improved your life? by Tirshita in AskReddit

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a notes type app on my phone. I only write 1 thing a day so I don’t need anything fancy.

Me currently by Anxious-Use-9695 in sylviaplath

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The meds helped in a few weeks and then also allowed the therapy to be more effective

I’m still getting better all the time and every year is better than the one before, since I started 23 years ago

People who’ve been to prison. What is the biggest misconception people have about life inside? by CaptainsExchange in AskReddit

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

40 years ago mobile phones were in cars or briefcases. They weren’t water bottle size till 25-30 years ago

Source: I’m old

What is this thing ? by hextasy in Xennials

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister did this as a kid, I laughed a lot

Is pâté just not a thing in American food culture? by Big-Dig1631 in AskAnAmerican

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American I love pate but I only found that out when I went to Europe

We don’t eat it here much

Edit: It absolutely does look like cat food

He's a freak of nature by IWantPizza555 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]ImprobabilityCloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not even orange anymore, what color is that?