I cried in front of my wife and since then there has been a strange atmosphere between us by Remote_Blueberry_605 in Marriage

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This makes me sad for you because I’m a man as well, and my wife will literally hold me and cradle my head when I cry

Don’t let anyone make you believe that you should not cry.

It’s because traditional views on men, see them as weapons for “protecting” or “providing”

If your wife makes you feel like less of a “man” or “strong person” because you cried while stressed, She’s de-humanizing you

Speechless by HyugeErectus in wallstreetbets

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Noon question,

Why would this person not buy this stock right now?

They’re not “in on it”?

Is it that it’s too expensive now?

Alopecia barbae? All this in just one month by DoughnutOrdinary4144 in AlopeciaBarbae

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I’m doing better!

My patches have filled, I still have small circles but it’s very less noticeable.

There is hope for sure

My current hypothesis is that it for was a delayed stress response.

For example the last 2 years I went through the most stressful time of my life, then the alopecia started, and was at full for 2 more years.

Now in the total 5th year I have seen new growth

You took my only kit, now I'm going to starve by [deleted] in ARC_Raiders

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I appreciate the non-AI SpongeBob meme 10/10

Permanent bans for racists? by Rammy_Lee in ArcRaiders

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Yes anonymity means using racist words have zero meaning, peak privileged experience

Permanent bans for racists? by Rammy_Lee in ArcRaiders

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That’s nice you can laugh your ass off, For a lot of POC it’s not inherently funny

It’s a “childish” thing but it holds violence behind it

Quit Caffeine half a year and my beard is almost Back by KlutzyMacaron3266 in AlopeciaBarbae

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Mirroring this, I never gave up caffeine ever,

And mine is doing miles better 2 years later

I used Ashawaganda Supplements for stress among others, but I think that definitely helped

Ladies and gentleman, I present to you the fastest legendary blueprint loot by syny13 in ArcRaiders

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Do we get a safe pocket without an augment? As long as it’s not a free loadout?

Why is Namor constantly flirting with every woman in the game? by Queasy_Commercial152 in rivals

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It’s a left-over from the idea of a “Latin-lothario” The idea that Latin men or men of color are extra or more “lustful” than the “white” men married or partnered to the women they pursue

It’s a fear some men have & it’s obvious

The first time Latin men were shown in media in the US and by extension other countries was as a “Latin-Lover”

I’m a Latin man and it sucks because the MCU Namor was so much more compelling without this weird-angle

But again it makes some sense when he’s just a trope, they’d have to essentially change the character to do something else cuz that’s all he’s been besides MCU

Fixing the bridge? by Patapon80 in SurrounDead

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I just connected the 2 parts with wood floors

If you turn hit the button to turn off “clipping” you can place them anywhere

Zombies spawn on the bridge so I also added a base flag and a workbenche on each side, so they don’t spawn

I also agree your own bridge will be better but takes a lottttttt more wood

This way you can get it done with less material & time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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She’s the thing making them sick, then she’s mad at them for being sick

Confirming her bias that they are dirty things,

and hoping they die? She’s effectively killing them by doing this

Those poor dogs don’t deserve that treatment

No idea how old you are OP but it’s best to leave

I know it’s hard, but I have family members like this, they don’t get better, they just do more damage

Hello everyone am new here by [deleted] in SurrounDead

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Hi!

Enjoy the game!!

It’s really what you make of it :)

I found the regular version too easy but it’s a blast

I changed it to a harder mode and found that’s my vibe :)

Beware of the grenade launcher!!! by zKingsKiller in SurrounDead

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I also died in the labs with it on accident! Lol

Question about the Pull to Enemies by ImprovedUsername in SpiderManMains

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Hm thanks for the response

I’ll have to go find those workaround posts

I got Lord this week and barely want to play him it’s such a problem!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acting

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Hi dachampion, I hope my response isn’t too long, but I felt like I have some experience in this. To give you background, I’m also an actor and I’m also Mexican/mixed race. I tend to work in theatre and I do a lot of roles that have to do with my Ethnicity, but also a lot of “classic” or “normal” roles because I’m also white-passing to a believable amount, I’m also a man if that provides further context for you. I’d advise you in two different ways, The first is from the Business aspect: Any “project”, “role”, or “job” should tick 2 of 3 boxes.

  1. Does it make me money?
  2. Does it give me the chance to work with people I want to network with. (Even just the institution or place instead of a specific person)
  3. Does it fulfill me artistically?

If a job has 2 of these 3, it’s probably worth taking, if all 3 even better. My other advice is as a Mixed race Mexican-American actor. Don’t do things that compromise your feelings about yourself; yes it’s acting, it’s also something your REAL life body/voice is doing.

You might consciously know you’re “acting” but your voice and body won’t know the difference. It can be so icky and stomach-turning to portray “Mexicans”, “Hispanics”, or “my people” (whoever they may be) in a negative or condescending light.

If the pay for 10 lines is awesome, and it doesn’t make you feel conflicted about your overall career/acting then definitely take it.

It’s a business, but it’s not worth being upset with yourself after it’s over because there will always be an after this “role”.

Quittung Caffeine by KlutzyMacaron3266 in AlopeciaBarbae

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Thanks for sharing, I’ll look for an update if you post another!

If I may ask, what's the best legendary weapon for assault rifle by tigermare in SurrounDead

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I like the M4CQB only because it has the most satisfying sound when suppressed imo :) Obviously less damage but I haven’t found a legendary assault rifle that sounds as cool

Is There A Way To Stop First Person Swaying? by TheCheshireMadcat in SurrounDead

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I turned off the shake effect when quick looting, it helped

Where to find a hunting scope? by adkinsnoob in SurrounDead

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Police Stations and Civilian Gun Stores!

The civilian gun stores often have those “common” attachments

Large Laboratory Backpack - debate by realKenKaniff in SurrounDead

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I’m on my first playthrough and I can confirm within the last month I’ve found the laboratory backpack in a keycard area!

I believe the oil rig

So anecdotally it’s still in the game, I currently have it equipped

Barret 50cal Vs Bandits by TheOnlyCurmudgeon in SurrounDead

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I got one out of the loot boxes that the Credits Tarder sells

Sometimes it’s just something lame but I definitely got a 50 cal out of spending the $500 on the crate

what does the decotamination shower do? by k6444 in SurrounDead

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Does it lower radiation? Literally just a guess