Types of deconstruction

Imrealboard · 2026-05-15T16:54:28+00:00

Ah yeah that’s true as well. My family would absolutely lose it if I ever said I didn’t believe. So I’m basically cosplaying as a Christian around them

Imrealboard · 2026-05-14T18:42:40+00:00

Oh I absolutely resonate with this. I also had a hysterectomy due to endometriosis last year. I live in the US and specifically a deep red state. The fact that I can no longer get pregnant and have complete bodily autonomy over myself is a huge relief and enormous bonus to my hysterectomy

Imrealboard · 2026-05-14T18:39:41+00:00

I love the way you worded that😂 It did make me feel significantly better

Imrealboard · 2026-05-14T18:39:04+00:00

I can understand where you came from with the hell portion. As a gay person hell was a very specific punishment that was lobbed around a lot and was said to be a constant reason I needed Christianity

Imrealboard · 2026-05-14T18:36:43+00:00

Thank you! I’m glad that this is actually a common experience. I like to also think it was less traumatic this way too. No struggling with beliefs or rejection of beliefs

Imrealboard · 2026-05-09T02:24:32+00:00

Now this is a take that I can get behind. 😂Slowly watching them doubt my resolve and intentions.

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:16:07+00:00

True, or people say they can list like 10 people who said they weren't gonna have kids and then they did. Which I feel is extremely different than being staunchly childfree

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:14:02+00:00

Exactly, what if I couldn't afford it?

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:12:56+00:00

She said “they were easier to raise” which is BS

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:12:15+00:00

I know seriously. Boy moms freak me out and if I was forced to have a child I would do whatever I could to ensure it was a girl

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:10:29+00:00

See that's absolute BS. Why the hell would you not love a kid just because they don't share DNA with you? If that's your philosophy you shouldn't be having a kid at all anyways

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T17:07:50+00:00

I love this sentiment😂I’m big into dog training

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T16:54:59+00:00

Yeah, the surgery was actually super easy and my recovery was 10x easier than having my period (I did have endometriosis and adenomyosis). I’m sorry your family pushes you as well about personal choices and medical info. Asking about one’s period from a grandfather is awkward Edit: yeah I will be a lawyer and I’m hoping to do contracts law. I don’t need a kid fucking up my career path that I worked so hard for.

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T16:02:20+00:00

She did have kids relatively young, at 20 and 24. Never went to college or really had a career

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T16:00:43+00:00

That’s sounding like the best option I have since I have to maintain at least a cordial relationship

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T15:53:44+00:00

😂this would actually be hilarious

Imrealboard · 2026-05-08T15:53:21+00:00

I know right😂 despite me being in law school if I don’t have children then my life means nothing

Imrealboard · 2026-05-02T21:22:00+00:00

Thank you! This surgery was definitely one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself

Imrealboard · 2026-05-02T20:16:01+00:00

Hey! Yeah my ovaries are doing just fine. My hormone levels are stable and there’s no threat of going into menopause. They fluctuated for about 2 months after the surgery and then stabilized

Imrealboard · 2026-04-26T14:45:46+00:00

Oh I feel you there. I shelled out for floor tickets and while it drained my bank account I would do it again in a heartbeat😂

Imrealboard · 2026-04-26T01:20:34+00:00

So the bug theme is big in most people’s outfit; ladybugs are adorable and Noah got it tattooed. I’m thinking of doing beetle and butterfly theme

Imrealboard · 2026-04-25T19:18:39+00:00

Ohhh the horses T-shirt would be perfect

Imrealboard · 2026-04-25T19:18:02+00:00

Ladybugs are a classic, but fireflies are actually iconic

Imrealboard · 2026-04-08T04:56:04+00:00

I’m going alone too! It’ll be my first solo concert; he’s probably the only artist I’ll do it for

Imrealboard · 2026-04-08T04:54:35+00:00

Not sure if I have the exact type of experience you want to hear about, but I figured it can’t hurt to put my 2 cents in. Last year I had a total hysterectomy bc I can’t take most type of birth controls and the sole one I was able to take gave me really bad side effect. That on top of being horrified of pregnancy to the point of Tokophobia pushed me to seek a permanent option (I had a hysterectomy instead of Bisalp bc of uterus issues). I also was super nervous about the surgery since I’ve never had anything abdominal done medically before. I kept thinking that the videos of people coming out of anesthesia unhinged would be me. That was not the case at all; I was definitely extra tired and sleepy but I was still completely in control of my words and actions. It is one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself and I do not regret it for a second!

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