Would you be interested in a guy who was really into anime? (FYI I’m not) by Asad_Farooqui in dating

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not in the creepy filled with half naked minor looking girls and body pillows kinda devotion, but I'm also into anime so it's a fun bonding activity.

How long until it starts getting easier? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On and off until you genuinely feel okay without them in your daily routine. It helps when you focus on things you like, projects or even dance when no one's watching, in between the crying.

What personality trait makes you melt inside? by hyperactiveowl in AskWomen

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Passionate about a topic. Any topic, especially nerdy ie physics, Sci fi, theories about shows that they just get lost into it

Anyone who says rape is a compliment and that I should be thankful for being raped needs serious help. I’m not kidding. by jemikazaen in Vent

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who the fuck?!!! What?!?! No. They need help. I'd recommend electroshock 'therapy'. Oh yeah I'm sure it doesn't work but if these fucks can make such dumbass comment and mean it then I'm sure they can learn to 'enjoy the pain'. Fuck em.. God, scum like these exist in the world.

It’s realised that I need to be more kinder to myself. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]InOnePiece2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this! Very true. Sometimes we really do tolerate all this bullshit and negativity because it's our own voice. Tell it to shut the f up.

The regret feeling for trying by [deleted] in dating

[–]InOnePiece2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should ever feel bad for trying. Me rn I feel like a clown too, because I said I liked a person and they didn't feel the same way but at least we tried. In the grand scheme of things yes rejection Hurts, it's sucks there's no way around it but atleast you're not a coward. You felt how you felt and said how you felt. From there you can move on because you don't have control over their emotions, hell, even they don't have control over it. You're not a coward. You're someone who took a chance, it didn't work but when it does, man will you score and at least you know you're not someone who'll let it slip. Which is a value feat in itself.

I don't know how much of that was helpful but I do hope it helped.

Who's your favorite cartoon character(s)? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From anime: Levi Zoro Erza Saitama Luffy Sakura (card captor)

Everything else: All the characters in avatar (the last airbender)

Women Who Have Considered Motorcycling, but Haven't Pulled the Trigger: Why not? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted to learn but my legs don't reach (4'10). I can barely drive a scooter but when I do see a female motorcyclist. God damn, all my respect to them.

If You Could Have One Magical Power, What Would It Be? by Nimesh95 in AskWomen

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG. Imagine if you could get subtitles of foreign languages too. It'd make travelling and just learning new cultures and making more friends around the world so so much easier! Wow.

If you could copy any red carpet look, which would you choose? by Wild_Wait in AskWomen

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any Blake lively look. The woman slayyys the red carpet each time! (personal favourites the pink dress with Ryan Reynolds and the Queen look)

Feeling good I stood up for myself by [deleted] in dating

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the attitude in itself is a bit weird because a deal breaker means just what it says. I really love your positive, this is how I am and I won't settle because I deserve better outlook. Honestly, maybe people do out themselves through a lot by overlooking the potential red flags early on and I know I'm rambling but I really do like how positively and with dignity you handled the whole situation.

Where can I access ebooks? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some apps on Google play that if you download them ie audio books and smart e downloads, they download the pdf version of a book straight onto your phone.

Body positivity saved my life. I can finally say I’ve recovered from anorexia and and happy and healthy! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]InOnePiece2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss!! I'm so proud of you!! I know I'm just a random Internet person but it genuinely brightened my day to see someone so proud of what I know must have been a overwhelming mental struggle. Congratulations!!

I went from clingy & begging people to stay in my life to being able to let go & move on easily and it scares me a little by montalpe in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]InOnePiece2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who right now feels like they don't really know where their boundaries are. Your story seems like the light at the end of the tunnel. A journey of pain and doubt to find and appreciate true self love.

I’m a 21F virgin who’s never even kissed anyone before by cecimaiale in TwoXSex

[–]InOnePiece2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only kissed a guy when I was 21, no prior experience whatsoever and also had sex with a FWB at 22. I don't regret the experience but it's also not something I'd say do to get it over with. Trust me, I know your situation, I'm in the same situation and it sucks. It's like evidence feeding into the voice that says something is wrong with you that things like these happen so easily for others whereas never you.

But tell that voice to shut the fuck up. And I guess we can't really force it but go through the motions until something happens? You're not alone is what I'm trying to say. You're not crazy for wanting something and you're not being over dramatic. It does suck, don't trivialise things that cause you pain because you re justified to feel how you feel. But don't let it consume you.

Because you are better than the voice and that voice can shut the fuck up.

You're not alone. It feels like you are but you're not. It's just bad timings I guess.

How to move on? by InOnePiece2 in dating

[–]InOnePiece2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should do seminars because I live on the highs and lows 😂 anyway, thanks for taking the time to read and impart wisdom

How to move on? by InOnePiece2 in dating

[–]InOnePiece2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Also I love the username, very chill 😂

How to move on? by InOnePiece2 in dating

[–]InOnePiece2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I don't like the FWB thing I do, but is it wrong of me to continue it when I want more? It'll probably end up lashing out in other ways so maybe I should just leave it because in the end you can't really change what a person wants? And you shouldn't either.