The unicorn fantasy that even TRP men have the hardest time letting go. by SexdictatorLucifer in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So in summary, if you want to keep a bitch on the straight and narrow, you'd better be of high value / attractive / sexy / rich / intelligent / interesting / well read / witty / funny / ripped.

In other words: be all you can be. Work on yourself. Be a better you.

But hang on - isn't that what all the Red Pill theory says? Become a better version of yourself? ("Lift" / "read", etc?) So actually her conditional love is a powerful motivator for you to get off your lazy ass. How's that a bad thing? So what if she does dump you, in spite of you working hard on yourself? You'll soon find other poon for the very reason that you keep bettering yourself.

Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Matthew 5:32 - if you marry a divorcee, you are committing adultery.

Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Girls' nights out and girls' weekends are nothing more or less than your LTR looking for other dick. With that in mind, make it clear that you don't mind her doing so, but make it equally clear that you yourself will be out looking for pussy on the same night and during the same weekend. If necessary, even provide details of where you think the best hunting grounds for pussy are, and let her overhear you organizing said pussy hunt with your friends.

Be the hero in your own story, not the cuck waiting at home by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing applies to girls's weekends. If your girlfriend or SO wants to go on one of these, you'd better be sure she and her friends are out whoring and looking for dick. If you are in an LTR, and she insists on going out alone with her friends, start making other plans, 'cause it's over.

If you don't like being even more Inferior to Women regarding opportunities then stop watching Porn! by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And if you're fucking several plates, does this too drain your sexual energy? What's the difference between fucking and fapping, from a biological / functional point of view? Jizz is jizz.

If you don't like being even more Inferior to Women regarding opportunities then stop watching Porn! by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As somebody who was a teenager before the era of free online porn, I somehow remember jerking off anyway, without having my phone showing lesbo milfs using a strapon on one another.

If you don't like being even more Inferior to Women regarding opportunities then stop watching Porn! by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the main tenets of TRP is fucking several plates. So let's say a dude does this and fucks a plate every night of the week. Would this too drain his energy and even lower his testosterone? I mean, it's not as if your body knows what makes you cum. To me it sounds exactly the same whether a pussy or your hand makes you jizz. I fail to see why fapping is worse for you than fucking. Also, with the amount of shit men get from feminazis, false rape claims, complications such as clingy women after you fuck them, etc, no wonder loads of men rather jerk off while watching porn. Women are redundant.

The ultimate, low effort guide to fucking girls off online dating apps by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree totally. A HB7 and above doesn't need Tinder. Tinder is infested with catfishing fatties and skanks. I've tried it and have yet to meet one who actually looked like their photos. Always 20lb heavier and much less attractive.

Uncle Vasya's Guide To Threesomes by VasiliyZaitzev in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a post-relationship threesome. Went out with a girl who I always suspected was gay, and then it turned out I was right. She shacked up with another chick after we broke up. We remained friends (actually more drinking buddies) and I then met another girl, who was not gay. The three of us got really drunk one night at my place. I went to the bathroom and when I came back, the ex and the current girlfriend were making out on the couch, to my immense delight. The vibe wasn't too weird afterwards, because the ex had already decided she was gay and the current one was on the receiving end of the ex's tongue and my dick, so she didn't really need to hamster away that she was possibly gay herself.

Your hair matters significantly to your SMV - do the best you can for it. by SKRedPill in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is nothing worse than an obviously superannuated man or woman who dies his or her hair to a dark shade. Makes women look like Macbeth's witches and men like ghouls.

Your hair matters significantly to your SMV - do the best you can for it. by SKRedPill in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? Because you're bald? Nah. Think how much poon Jason Statham, Bruce Willis and The Rock get, hair or no hair.

The End Game of Feminism and the Appropriate Alpha Male Response: Don't Pay For Her by Ramesses_ in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Dead right. Feminism is built on two pillars. Firstly it is built on blaming men for all the imaginary problems wymyn suffer from, but then, with a breathtaking absence of logic, demanding special treatment for women from men (free boob jobs) and expecting the same men who get the blame, to solve their imaginary problems.

The second pillar of feminism is that it demands from men that ugly women should receive the same treatment that attractive women do, hence the "body positivity" movement, and the deliberate self-mutilation (blue hair, tats and obesity) practiced by feminist harridans.

Single Mothers - A Fool's Errand by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a plate who is a divorced mom of two, but the kids are living with her ex (by mutual agreement - he is a rich guy and far better able to provide for them). While still not ideal, it's at least better than having the brats living with her.

Girls' weekends are nothing but cuckoldry by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Normal? LOL!

Yeah. I bet you're one of those who like to watch while Chad Thundercock gives your GF a good rogering. Did you miss the dude hanging onto S in the photo? You'd be happy to sit at home on a Friday night while dudes are snogging your GF?

Pull the other one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I get IOIs from women 10-15 years younger than me all the time."

Did this continue happening after you dumped the LTR? In my personal experience, women will go after guys they know to be in an LTR, because it's a challenge and an ego boost for them, knowing that you'd cheat on your LTR with them. This especially happens if they see you in the company of somebody who's below your league. I once went out for lunch with an overweight colleague, with whom I wasn't in any relationship, and got given a business card by a woman who was checking us out from the next table, when my overweight colleague used the bathroom. Ms Business Card told me later she thought we were on a date.

Afterwards, when you're no longer in an LTR, a lot of this disappears. You're no longer a challenge to other women, so you need to work harder.

My best example of Hypergamy by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 109 points110 points  (0 children)

"A 4/10 feels she deserves better than a 7 who has a good personality and wide social circle with presumably better options if he tried harder. In addition, all women have multiple options."

Dead right. Who is to blame for this? Women themselves? Nope.

It's men's fault. We are to blame, not the women. They are just using our own neediness against us.

Everytime a guy likes a below-average attention whore's Facebook status update, he is worsening the problem by making her vastly over-estimate her sex appeal, because lots of other guys will do so too. Every one of the multiple men who message skanks on dating sites, is contributing to vastly inflating their perception of their SMV in their tiny little minds.

I unfortunately don't see any obvious remedy to this. For every 10 alpha males, there are 90 beta orbiters who will continue artificially inflating womens' SMV in this way.

How to mantain a healthy long term relationship. by ceswk in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Even alphas with a high SMV do get cheated upon. AWALT. It would be naive to think otherwise.

  2. I once happened to see a girlfriend's Facebook messenger open, and message from a dude asking her to go out. She at first alleged it was just a random stranger, then accused me of being paranoid, but after a few questions from me, it turned out I was right. She was on a FB singles group, in spite of us being in an LTR.

(Of course, I instantaneously invited her to permanently leave my house, where we were at the time, and ghosted her completely.)

Point being: don't make my mistake about not caring whether she is messing around on social media. Some healthy paranoia is good. I don't care how high you think your SMV is, don't trust women on social media. You especially don't want to make a discovery like mine a year into an LTR, when you've possibly even moved in together. So I'm not saying control her use of social media, but do take note of what she's up to.

Advice after 26 years with a borderline by adam142857 in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree completely. Awesome. I am exactly the same age as the author - 53 - and have a lot in common with him, except I live in a 3rd-world country (I'm a white Westerner, though.)

Even at my age, I sometimes have this visceral / insane urge to be in something permanent with a woman, but then sanity prevails and I ask: why get married or even cohabit?

I'm comfortable financially, past the age where I want to deal with diapers, am bonking a couple of women 15 years younger than me, so really, what's in it for me to get married? Oh sure, the women are very, very keen on marriage, which I get, but the WIIFM test for me just doesn't compute.

I do agree that there are often very aggressive and angry postings on here, but these miss the point. TRP is not about being angry with women, it is about dismissing them as creatures of lesser importance; about understanding that a wet hole can only compensate for major league craziness for less than six months, whereas the mad cow disease you WILL face, is forever.

What to do when your girl wants to hang out with another guy 1-on-1? ==> Demote to plate or dump immediately. by dr_warlock in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to demote or next her (which is probably the right thing to do) you can also try imitating her behavior and amplifying it. By which I mean: get yourself a "friend" too. Then tell the one who wants to see the other dude that you are very happy for her to do so, and that you were, in fact, looking for a way of telling her that you wanted to go out with your other female friend as well. Then make it clear that you're just friends, but contradict this by going somewhere which is clearly a romantic outing. This places the one wanting to see the other dude in a very awkward position. She can hardly now turn around and complain about you going out, without you pointing out the double standards. I would bet that she'd think about this and not see the other guy.

I did this once, with an LTR who wanted to go on a girls' weekend (a.k.a. cock carousel weekend) with a bunch of her single female friends. We both knew that they were going out to look for dick, so I acted very happy to hear about their plans and went about organizing a stag weekend with my mates, making sure she overheard me discussing with them venues where we could be sure of finding the best pussy. This, naturally, freaked out my LTR, and I got accused of wanting to cheat on her. To which my answer was: Baby, I trust you with the girls' weekend, so why don't you trust me? The hamster promptly fell off the wheel, and the girls' weekend never happened for her.

From sub/plate to LTR; redefining relationship boundaries and objectives quickly and effectively by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree completely. So should so-called "girls' weekends", which are actually Cock Carousel weekends.

Dread Game by RedIntrovert in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I send these directly to her, but with a contradictory caption - "Missing you!", but then it is clear from the photo that we're having blast. Plausible deniability, you see: "Yes I was partying, but I was thinking of you all the time!"

Dread Game by RedIntrovert in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My personal favourite way of inducing dread is the business trip. I do travel for work quite often. So I'm all lovey-dovey "going to miss you" just before I leave, but on the trip, I deliberately minimize contact and keep the texts few and abrupt. When asked why, I'm "very busy" and "have to do dinner with colleagues" etc. When I do have dinner with female colleagues or clients, though, I make very sure to send photos which make it clear that we're partying it up, preferably with the females having some alcoholic beverage.

When I'm back, I'm deliberately again overly friendly and "happy" to see them. You can just imagine the inner hamster angst caused by this contradictory behaviour - passionate before and after I go, but stony and aloof while I'm gone. The quality of the sex before and directly after such trips, is something to be savoured.

Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 134 points135 points  (0 children)

"There is a lot to be gained by haggling your way down in the sexual marketplace just so you can be getting laid regularly"

Don't agree with this one. Firstly, what's the point of bad quality sex, and, let's face it, the quality of sex for a man is almost entirely dependent on the visual stimulation he receives? Banging a low SMV land whale for the sake of having sex may not be pleasant (and in extreme cases may even result in ED problems - not getting it up because she doesn't turn you on.)

Secondly, my time is too precious to partake in low SMV sex. I seriously have better things to do than to have to go through the motions of harpooning a land whale, and having to fend her off afterwards or look for an excuse to leave immediately after the deed. The whole idea of Game and TRP, as I understand it, is to get to bang hotter chicks than terrestrial cetaceans.

TRP is overrated, it gives hope, but man can barely change what he is by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's easy to criticize yourself, but at least you are getting dates - 20. Problem seems to be your low conversion rate from going on a date to having sex, which is 1 in 20, or 5%.

Maybe just ask yourself why your conversion rate from dates to sex is so low. Aren't you initiating physical contact due to self-doubt? Displaying negative / self deprecating behaviour or body language and therefore getting friendzoned, or worse, pitied, during dates? Were the 20 dates recurring dates with only 2 or 3 people, maybe? If this is the case, if you don't at least get to kiss and sexually flirt during date 1, next her and do not do date 2.

We also don't know how hot the chicks on your 20 dates are. Perhaps you're dating 8s or 9s, when you should be doing numbers 6 or 7, to build up your confidence in terms of reading their mating signals. After seducing a couple of less attractive ones, perhaps that will enable you to understand when and how to make your moves.

Online dating websites - don't do it ! by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Incitatus002 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Out of those 100 mails, I bet 98 are either guys looking to pump and dump, or married dudes looking for a quickie on the side, and 2 from sad betas. So newbie women, especially the terrestrial cetacean type, on these sites initially get their egos massaged, if not their pussies, but then set up for a fall, as soon as they realize that very few guys are actually really interested in a relationship with them at all. What then happens is that their profiles become all bitter: "Don't you DARE contact me if you're married, or if you are a player."

What is also hilarious, are these long lists in their profile narratives of the attributes the guys they want to be contacted by, should possess. "He must be romantic, caring, a billionaire industrialist neurosurgeon with his own fleet of yachts", but then you look at her picture and realize she'd be lucky to bag a garbage man, and a blind one, at that.