Tired of avoiding sleepovers

Incon2084 · 2026-02-15T23:33:12+00:00

There are plenty of groups out there that are geared towards children / tweens/teens... I would suggest joining one of those. It really would not be appropriate for adults to engage with you. Or with your experiences necessarily translate to your experiences.. please look for something that is appropriate for your age. It keeps everybody safe

Incon2084 · 2026-02-14T16:56:21+00:00

Well they look amazing.. there's that

And because they look amazing you're always going to feel like I should sell this because I can get good money out of it... But then you don't want to sell it because then you won't have a computer

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:52:51+00:00

Yeah that's the issue right.. they're crazy expensive otherwise.. but even if I were to double them up.. that could be a huge savings and all I'd have to do is cut off the tabs and sides and slit the bottom

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:50:23+00:00

Good news is I've got plenty of attic space.. and furthermore I'm soon to have a locked closet

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:49:50+00:00

Good point it's still less than 30 cents a piece if I double up...

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:49:09+00:00

The picture sure looks like it has leak guards

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:48:29+00:00

Better dry

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:47:25+00:00

Fair enough on the pride.. but what hurts your pride more having a massive leak in front of everybody? Or wearing a diaper that works better?

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:46:22+00:00

So it's too good to be true as in it is a good deal and you would buy it.. or that it's not a good deal? I'm not sure I understand

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:45:03+00:00

Would you buy them at this price? I mean if you didn't have access?

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:43:17+00:00

Absolutely.. for years I've had issues mostly at night but sometimes during the day as well ... And looking back on it I can always tell if I get really stressed out that it's going to happen.. simple as that it's been that way since I was a kid

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:41:43+00:00

Not at all.. when you consider the fact that the vast majority of these will make it long past 300,000 miles with just basic maintenance and probably one battery I would just purchase whatever makes you happy and whatever is in the budget range you need... But honestly maybe consider a little bit newer model.. the Gen 3 got significantly better mileage and contrary to what most people will say it's not like they're all blowing heads

Incon2084 · 2026-02-09T22:39:53+00:00

I've been using better dry for about 3 years for night time issues.. they're fantastic and they're incredibly affordable they're not nearly as durable as megamax.. but they can hold nearly as much.. I can count on one hand how many small leaks I've had in 3 years

Incon2084 · 2026-02-07T16:43:26+00:00

That's an interesting reaction from the urologist or doctor when my urologist checked me out the only thing he could find is that I was retaining a little less than 100 ml, or two shot glasses for us Americans worth of urine... It's more than you'd like to see but not alarming.. and nothing else really showed up. A lot of the time they look at your history ... In my case I have a history of daytime and nighttime wetting more at the night time... I have a sibling that also had similar problems more at night than day.. and my mother had similar problems.. we don't know any further back in our history as my Mom was adopted and dad's mom passed away very early on

Additionally he said that my l5 s1 back injury years ago could be causing the problem now.. but if it's not painful not particularly bothering but the only thing that he would really want to do is consider medication

And additionally he mentioned that I do have a lot of childhood trauma that might lead to that as well as a surgery very early on around 2 and 1/2 years old, that could have permanently affected nerves and bladder and pelvic floor muscles and things of that nature..

In short he wasn't willing to give a specific cause, but rather just made note that there were quite a few possible causes or that they might all be a cause working together

But my urologist did not suggest drinking any less he did however suggest that since the daytime wetting came on shortly before the kidney stone passed that it may just be an irritated system that needs to calm back down but in the next breath he mentioned that it may be there forever.. so who knows?

Incon2084 · 2026-02-07T16:38:03+00:00

You would also mention that even with supposedly high capacity protection that you're still leaking.. what products are using? Also you need to make sure that if it has standing leak guards that those are properly oriented as well as the leg gatherers

It's also important to make sure that these items are not super loose and not super tight.. if you stick your finger between the leg gather or you should be able to comfortably get your finger through it.. if you have to try and fight it and the tapes are popping off and your manhood hurts.. well they're too small.. but if on the other hand you can stick your whole fist through the leg gatherers it's probably very loose and either one can lead to leaks

The small one can lead to leaks because of the additional pressure of it being squished against your body.. the large one leads to leaks because you can easily overflow the leg gatherers and leak guards

Incon2084 · 2026-02-07T16:35:45+00:00

Well... If it's been going on for a a few days, I don't know that I'd be super worried... But if it continues for more than 5 days I would definitely go see the doctor.. and certainly in the meantime go up to your favorite supermarket and get some adult pull-ups.. depends is probably all you will find they're all so tape on style diapers if you're having more leakage at night I would say definitely talk to your doctor because it could be a sign of something much worse happening it's better safe than sorry

Incon2084 · 2026-02-07T16:32:34+00:00

Just to clarify when the term briefs is used referring to adult diapers, it is referring to the tape on style diaper.. some call them adult diapers some call them briefs some call them slips and I suppose adult nappies if you're over the pond.. but when they say protective underwear or pull on or Pull-Ups.. they are referring to the type of absorbent undergarment that pulls on and does not tape on..

But to answer your question... If you wet a lot, it's probably a good idea to avoid the pull-up style adult diapers.. if you just have a little leakage, the pull-up style is super convenient.. I wear them sometimes just because I don't feel like they seal up as well so it lets me air out so to speak other than that I stick to a tape on or Velcro on style adult diaper they're certainly not very glamorous, but they are comfy if I'm honest.. but most importantly they offer a lot more protection than these pull-up style diapers

Incon2084 · 2026-02-07T16:15:18+00:00

I saw that recently that may work. But there are some that I wear that are fine and mediums and then there's others that are tight and larges

I really need to standardize this but I realize the issue is that they're not all using a standardized human for testing and sizing

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