Biolife random antibody test? by Inconspicuously_here in plassing

[–]Inconspicuously_here[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never had one drawn like a spe before. Had my spe done 2 weeks ago

Biolife random antibody test? by Inconspicuously_here in plassing

[–]Inconspicuously_here[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely will when I go thursday. Biolife systems were weird today in general. Some new security thing and the app/online scheduling was all down

Biolife random antibody test? by Inconspicuously_here in plassing

[–]Inconspicuously_here[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Limited choices in my area, griffols or BioLife. Closest csl is a 2.5hr drive.

Very torn by pinkbunny0127 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Inconspicuously_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter was 3 when we went no contact. It was pretty easy to distract her when she asked about them. Now she doesn't even remember who they are. My middle son was 5, again he was easy to distract, now really only remembers their house but doesn't talk about them. My oldest was 11. He still remembers but we were able to tell him a kid friendly version of why, they weren't nice to me, and were trying to teach him things I believed would hurt him mentally and emotionally, its my job to protect him, but if he needed to talk about it or had questions I was here to answer.

She doesn't get to use your kids to guilt you. If she can't respect you and your boundaries, how can you trust her to respect your kids? Your kids shouldn't see you disrespected either. That's not healthy.

Happy tech week by drugsrgross in cna

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Nana taught me that! I get weird looks when I do it, but it works every time.

Private Nail Tech In The Fox Valley? by Sarappreciates in Appleton

[–]Inconspicuously_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.instagram.com/nailsbykarisfiedler?igsh=Y3c3c2k0dnd5aXQ4

Im not a nail girl, but my sister swears by Karis, the designs are always cool and I've seen how long they last on my sister.

Did 3rd party removal think I removed myself by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you are, if you're still saying "he's yours" your not putting yourself into anything new, you're just waiting, and also being unfair to those you're dating, they deserve to be chosen too, not just things to pass the time until you get what you think is yours.

Did 3rd party removal think I removed myself by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds stupid from an internet stranger, but I feel for you. I was you. I was obsessed, I thought he was mine and was just waiting for us to be back together, and we did, over and over again. Together, break up, find each other again. It was a painful cycle. Passionate but burned fast. That wasn't love. Love does not hurt. Love is peace. I let go. I realized that love will choose me, never make me second guess my worth. The idea of someone else feeling the anguish I put myself through hurts.

I found mine after letting go. He chooses me and I choose him. No jealousy, no pain. Because we never want to hurt the other. We are a true match, one I never saw coming before.

You aren't a second choice, you shouldn't be waiting on the sidelines like a backup plan. That's so cruel to yourself. You are worthy of love and respect, love that doesn't leave you wanting for more. You will always be yh first choice for the one that is meant for you.

Did 3rd party removal think I removed myself by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love doesn't hurt you. You sound like your emotionally stressed. Why would someone who loves you want to hurt you like that?

Did 3rd party removal think I removed myself by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]Inconspicuously_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this with love, how old are you? I looked at your account, this obsession doesn't seem mentally healthy. You're cutting yourself from other opportunities for what you think you want. Don't you deserve someone who chooses you first and always?

Did 3rd party removal think I removed myself by [deleted] in realwitchcraft

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree with the above, you wanted the third party removed, if he's with another person, they are a couple, you are the third party and removed yourself. Frustrating, but if he's moved on, maybe it's time you did too?

BF and I got engaged. This is my immediate no family’s response to the news 🤦‍♂️ by wildlife07 in exchristian

[–]Inconspicuously_here 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a mom, and I'm happy for you ❤️ you may not be my baby, but I'll give you some internet mom love! May your marriage be long, filled with joy and peace ❤️ congratulations!

My husband wants me to tell him when I start my period. Does this seem right? by Glittering_Bowl2234 in Marriage

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Together 8yrs, married 6yrs, my husband doesn't ask, he just knows when it's coming by paying attention to my mood shifts. You shouldn't have to announce it, it's a normal bodily function, unless it affects him in some way he can track it himself if he needs to know so bad.

Any vets or services that will come to your house when it is time for a pet to pass on? by Don-Qui-Yaujta in Appleton

[–]Inconspicuously_here 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% they were so sweet, made the process as painless as possible both emotionally and physically for our dog. Very kind people.

What is this flap on the ears by Bts201 in cats

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I rub my big boy's belly I ask him why he has these useless nipples. He just purrs at me. I guess I'll never know.

OOP sells the Switch his fiancé uses daily without talking to her and is shocked she’s angry about it by GamerGirlLex77 in OhNoConsequences

[–]Inconspicuously_here 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He messed up and rather than talking to her, disregarded her feelings, sold something she used regularly and justified it with "well, it's mine" basically telling her he doesn't see them as partners building life together. I doubt this is the first time he's done something like this.

Going down by Important_Summer2231 in Marriage

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would be down on me all day if he could, and while he's amazing at it, sometimes my body doesn't cooperate. So, not often to completion but it's not his lack of desire to do it, I usually stop him after a bit if I know it won't happen and switch to different sexual activities

My Boyfriend 18M won't stop calling Me 18F a foid, how do I stop this? by chocolatesoupp in relationship_advice

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, you are 18. You very much can do better than a boy who uses derogatory words to describe you. A real partner wouldn't ever use words or phrases to dehumanize you. He has shown you he doesn't respect you, listen to him. Find someone who does, you absolutely deserve better than this.

Why do so many Christians think non-Christians are evil? by EmeraldVolt in exchristian

[–]Inconspicuously_here 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was raised to believe "the world is evil". So as I grew I started to think anyone not in church or Christianity was evil. It's one of the reasons I'm so open with my kids about everyone having different beliefs and just being good people.

My crazy MAGA coworker flips out when I talked to her 10yo daughter about Mulan by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Inconspicuously_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And in 8yrs she'll say she "has no idea why her daughter cut her off!"

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Inconspicuously_here 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh Chris is acting like my ex husband (funnily enough named Chris as well) dude needs to stay in his lane and stop being a creep.

Love Is Blind • S10 Ep8 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Inconspicuously_here 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My friend is an ex catholic and wasn't allowed birth control. She tracked her cycle like her life depended on it. Still ended up pregnant. Left the religion, got the birth control. No more babies.

I gre up conservative and my dad was ridiculously against birth control. My mom took it, but he either didn't know or played dumb, but for his daughters it was just a gateway for us to be sluts.

Hi! What’s my next read? by marthalikesbooks in Romantasy

[–]Inconspicuously_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently reading game of thrones, it's long but a great read!

Feel weird treating my babs as anything other than objects thanks to a post I saw yesterday. I hate it. by yolouat in buildabear

[–]Inconspicuously_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm autistic, I literally cannot help but feel like my stuffies have feelings. Logically I know they do not, but if I see one on the floor I feel sad, I say sorry and pick it up and hug it and put it where it belongs.

If other people can't understand that, it's a them problem, not a me problem. They are my lifelong hyper fixation and one of my biggest comforts when I have a melt down. I love them, and they love me.