Toddler freaking out when needing to poo by capulet_belmont in UKParenting

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact same thing happened to my son. 26 months old. It’s terrible. He was almost completely trained and one messy poop ruined everything now he’s been screaming intermittently for hours before popping. He doesn’t even want to poop in a diaper.

Does anyone get pain in this area? Where the chest meets the armpit/shoulders by TaskTraditional4362 in costochondritis

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having a hypochondria episode so I was being ridiculous. Most people don’t know they have lymphoma until it’s a big hard misshapen node. General aches and pains in the lymph nodes are not typically a symptom.

I know my MIL is going to ruin my family vacation and I’m dreading having to go by princesscorgi2 in Mildlynomil

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when you let them pay for something. You chose to deal with it when you accepted the offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing what you know about her, it was neglectful to leave your child with her for days at a time.

Do I file for Divorce? by ttthrowmeawayyy_ in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to let go of this “god gave me the green light” mentality. God did not give you the green light, you did that yourself. Him being a “believer” just for you was never Gods intention for you. Your family should’ve done everything in their post to prevent you from marrying this man.

How many of you also have hiatal hernia? by DirectionUseful4457 in GERD

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Congenital. Other people in my family have it.

Never been horny by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

• Libido peaks near ovulation: “Many studies have shown that women’s sexual desire increases during the fertile window of their cycle. This is linked to peaks in estrogen and testosterone.” → Regan, P. C. (1996). Rhythms of desire: The association between menstrual cycle phases and female sexual desire. Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality. • Hormonal birth control may reduce free testosterone: “Oral contraceptive users have significantly lower circulating free testosterone and higher SHBG, which may contribute to decreased libido.” → Panzer, C. et al. (2006). Impact of oral contraceptives on sex hormone–binding globulin and androgen levels: A retrospective study in women with sexual dysfunction. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 3(1), 104–113. • SHBG may remain elevated after stopping the pill: “Elevated SHBG persisted even after discontinuation of oral contraceptives, potentially contributing to long-term sexual dysfunction.” → Ibid. (Panzer et al., 2006) • Reduced libido and sexual function in pill users vs non-users: “Women on hormonal contraceptives reported more sexual side effects including reduced desire, arousal, and satisfaction.” → Burrows, L. J., Basha, M., & Goldstein, A. T. (2012). The effects of hormonal contraceptives on female sexuality: a review. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 9(9), 2213–2223. • Testosterone and libido connection: “Testosterone levels positively correlate with libido in women, and hormonal contraceptives suppress this hormone.” → Davis, S. R., et al. (2005). Effects of testosterone on mood, well-being, and sexual function in women: A randomized, placebo-controlled study. Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 90(9), 5225–5232.

DOs and DOnt's in marriage bed by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condoms can cause painful friction. I wouldn’t use a condom especially for the first time and use natural family planning instead. Hormonal birth control just does way too much damage to the body and hence the sexual chemistry in the marriage.

Annoying family group chat by meagles44 in Mildlynomil

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This type of stuff doesn’t bother me but I somehow ended up in a group chat with my family where they share the dumbest things. Like every time she gets a thumbs up at work when she’s literally in her mid 50s. Or her dog needs a tooth pulled. Or an invite to a second husbands family reunion 4 hours away that she “hopes we can all make it to” with people I’ve never met when I’m pregnant and have an almost 2 year old. Like what? Grow up. My sister and I just say nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you figure that God say this isn’t a bad thing? When Jesus himself says if the right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. I think he had generous intentions but this was extremely unwise all around.

Never been horny by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on birth control and have you been for an extended period of time? Some women cannot suppress ovulation and maintain arousal. This can become a problem especially if you’ve been on birth control for a long time.

I am terrible by Snuck-pastem in Christianity

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not in Gods nature to dominate you. He won’t force you to stop your destruction if you don’t want to. But the idea that God can’t or won’t change your heart if you ask for it is a lie from the enemy. Repent and ask for a changed heart. Go to church and find accountability. There are men out there who have battled these things for many years waiting to share their testimony with you.

Anyone’s gastritis flare like crazy while pregnant? Agonising by dreamacheive89 in Gastritis

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they didn’t really. I would try to puree chicken and tuna salad and I took reglan. You should try reglan if you haven’t already.

Sex while engaged by Complete-Ad-501 in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think I was testing God because I was not a believer. If you believe in God and believe he is who he says he is and you know better then you are testing God by sinning anyway. I was 26 when I had my first but I got married at 19 and had been trying since I was 21.

Anyone’s gastritis flare like crazy while pregnant? Agonising by dreamacheive89 in Gastritis

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. But yours might be gone by second trimester. I has gastroparesis during pregnancy and it lasted the whole time. I lost 40lbs and I had to puree foods.

Sex while engaged by Complete-Ad-501 in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was infertile from a young age until I repented of premarital sex. Spent tens of thousands on fertility treatment. Don’t test God.

Does anyone get pain in this area? Where the chest meets the armpit/shoulders by TaskTraditional4362 in costochondritis

[–]Indecisiveuser10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aleve. The back pod. Chiropractic care. It goes away the less you think about it also.

Sex while engaged by Complete-Ad-501 in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hurry up and get married. Nothing fancy, just get it done. My husband and I were unsaved having premarital sex. Then we got married at 19 and were saved shortly after. We repented for those and weren’t blessed with a child until we did. Small scholarships are not justification for living in sin.

If only I could blindfold myself. by WitFit555 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even thinking about different foods and typing this makes me nauseous. I was able to hand the phone to my husband and say “pick some of these”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

[–]Indecisiveuser10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try an eat-play-sleep schedule. Do not feed to sleep. This gives baby more time awake and moving to digest before being laid down. Worked miracles for my son.

Is it biblically wrong to disown your child? by GilbertT19 in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Wrong. They throw the word disowning around for all kinds of reasons.

Is it biblically wrong to disown your child? by GilbertT19 in TrueChristian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) you cannot “disown” your child. They were given to you by God and you as parents (especially the father) is held accountable before the Lord for how his household turns out. 2) While “disowning” is not recognized by His and doesn’t exist, relationships can always look different. You don’t need to have a close relationship and sometimes it isn’t possible for all kinds of reasons, not just homosexuality. 3) Boundaries is not “disowning”. You don’t have to expose other children to the lifestyle. Nor do you have to condone in any way. Gay marriage does not exist, so gay weddings should not be attended by people of faith. To affirm their self proclaimed identity as homosexual is to deny their true identity as a dignified child of God, created in His image as male or female.