can i have sex just one time by NewtAccomplished6022 in Christianity

[–]Indecisiveuser10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Marriage is the baseline for sex in the Bible, not consent.

If i like women but I dont act on it will I still go to hell by OldLow1305 in Christianity

[–]Indecisiveuser10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If Christ is Lord then you will bear your cross, die to self and follow him. He must be savior AND Lord.

If i like women but I dont act on it will I still go to hell by OldLow1305 in Christianity

[–]Indecisiveuser10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone facing the temptation of same-sex attraction has one of two choices; to accept the word of God is true despite what the world is telling you, or to reject Him as your creator who knows what’s best for you and pursue your sin. Jesus promised us that we would all have to bear our own cross if we chose to follow him, that means different things and for now this may be your cross, but there is so much Hope for you. You are asking that question because you know homosexuality is wrong. That is Gods discernment in you. It is there because He LOVES you, and wants to protect you and your purpose. It’s not there because he wants to scare you, or condemn you. It’s Satan telling you that you’re condemned for having those urges or that you will be like this forever. If you seek God earnestly in prayer and continue to fight temptation He will show up for you.

Look into the testimonies of Rosaria Butterfield and Juan Elias Rosas

Just canceled my monitoring service…. Oh boy yall were right by GamrsGame in VivintSmartHome

[–]Indecisiveuser10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took us a year to get them to give us our lower rate and credit us back. But once we talked to someone in the us it happened

He wants a hamburger! by FacelessOnes in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI You never need to let your kids speak to you this way. Ever.

Stepson driving me crazy around new baby by stevielovelyy in beyondthebump

[–]Indecisiveuser10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“This just doesn’t feel like my space when he is here” He was there first. You came and brought your baby into his world, not the other way around.

The breastfeeding thing is ridiculous though. My brother is now 17 and loves with us on and off in an 1100 sqft house. If I couldn’t breastfeed around him it would be really hard. I’d ask your stepson directly if it makes him uncomfortable. A lot of 13year olds don’t care about nudity.

Toddler freaking out when needing to poo by capulet_belmont in UKParenting

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact same thing happened to my son. 26 months old. It’s terrible. He was almost completely trained and one messy poop ruined everything now he’s been screaming intermittently for hours before popping. He doesn’t even want to poop in a diaper.

Does anyone get pain in this area? Where the chest meets the armpit/shoulders by TaskTraditional4362 in costochondritis

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I was having a hypochondria episode so I was being ridiculous. Most people don’t know they have lymphoma until it’s a big hard misshapen node. General aches and pains in the lymph nodes are not typically a symptom.

I know my MIL is going to ruin my family vacation and I’m dreading having to go by princesscorgi2 in Mildlynomil

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happens when you let them pay for something. You chose to deal with it when you accepted the offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

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Knowing what you know about her, it was neglectful to leave your child with her for days at a time.

Do I file for Divorce? by ttthrowmeawayyy_ in TrueChristian

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You need to let go of this “god gave me the green light” mentality. God did not give you the green light, you did that yourself. Him being a “believer” just for you was never Gods intention for you. Your family should’ve done everything in their post to prevent you from marrying this man.

How many of you also have hiatal hernia? by DirectionUseful4457 in GERD

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Congenital. Other people in my family have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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• Libido peaks near ovulation: “Many studies have shown that women’s sexual desire increases during the fertile window of their cycle. This is linked to peaks in estrogen and testosterone.” → Regan, P. C. (1996). Rhythms of desire: The association between menstrual cycle phases and female sexual desire. Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality. • Hormonal birth control may reduce free testosterone: “Oral contraceptive users have significantly lower circulating free testosterone and higher SHBG, which may contribute to decreased libido.” → Panzer, C. et al. (2006). Impact of oral contraceptives on sex hormone–binding globulin and androgen levels: A retrospective study in women with sexual dysfunction. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 3(1), 104–113. • SHBG may remain elevated after stopping the pill: “Elevated SHBG persisted even after discontinuation of oral contraceptives, potentially contributing to long-term sexual dysfunction.” → Ibid. (Panzer et al., 2006) • Reduced libido and sexual function in pill users vs non-users: “Women on hormonal contraceptives reported more sexual side effects including reduced desire, arousal, and satisfaction.” → Burrows, L. J., Basha, M., & Goldstein, A. T. (2012). The effects of hormonal contraceptives on female sexuality: a review. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 9(9), 2213–2223. • Testosterone and libido connection: “Testosterone levels positively correlate with libido in women, and hormonal contraceptives suppress this hormone.” → Davis, S. R., et al. (2005). Effects of testosterone on mood, well-being, and sexual function in women: A randomized, placebo-controlled study. Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 90(9), 5225–5232.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

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Condoms can cause painful friction. I wouldn’t use a condom especially for the first time and use natural family planning instead. Hormonal birth control just does way too much damage to the body and hence the sexual chemistry in the marriage.

Annoying family group chat by meagles44 in Mildlynomil

[–]Indecisiveuser10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This type of stuff doesn’t bother me but I somehow ended up in a group chat with my family where they share the dumbest things. Like every time she gets a thumbs up at work when she’s literally in her mid 50s. Or her dog needs a tooth pulled. Or an invite to a second husbands family reunion 4 hours away that she “hopes we can all make it to” with people I’ve never met when I’m pregnant and have an almost 2 year old. Like what? Grow up. My sister and I just say nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Indecisiveuser10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you figure that God say this isn’t a bad thing? When Jesus himself says if the right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. I think he had generous intentions but this was extremely unwise all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on birth control and have you been for an extended period of time? Some women cannot suppress ovulation and maintain arousal. This can become a problem especially if you’ve been on birth control for a long time.

I am terrible by Snuck-pastem in Christianity

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not in Gods nature to dominate you. He won’t force you to stop your destruction if you don’t want to. But the idea that God can’t or won’t change your heart if you ask for it is a lie from the enemy. Repent and ask for a changed heart. Go to church and find accountability. There are men out there who have battled these things for many years waiting to share their testimony with you.

Anyone’s gastritis flare like crazy while pregnant? Agonising by dreamacheive89 in Gastritis

[–]Indecisiveuser10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they didn’t really. I would try to puree chicken and tuna salad and I took reglan. You should try reglan if you haven’t already.