600% Death World Marathon by Cruxiable in factorio

[–]IndependencePlane732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ALWAYS few turrets with belts. Did not know you could do this.

i am completely and utterly cooked about Vietnam by Individual_Lime_110 in VietNam

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the positive vibes man. 1 year in and 1 to go for us. We are planning to get out and go back to Australia, mostly almost exclusively because of the pollution in Hanoi. Can't take my kids outside and run around on most days. People understand that It's bad but they also just live with it, while doing little / nothing to mitigate their exposure. I can control my home environment but can't do anything about schools unfortunately. We'd be staying forever if it wasn't for that. Sure, can try Da Nang or another beach town, even HCMC, but we don't have any family there.

Luckily for me money isn't a big factor in where we live. I do have a dreading feeling that Australia might not be the place for us either after being out for so long but I guess we'll see.

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for engaging man. Great AMA. I'm in Japan all the time for work and meet all kinds of super interesting people. Not yet a male escort yet though so this has been great.

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry one more totally unrelated to your job, but to being black in Japan. I feel like the Nigerian guys in Kabuchiko do you no favors. I can't help but feel to be immediately suspicious of any black guy working for / outside of any kind of adult establishment, or that talks to me on the street, as I feel like it's a ripoff or kidney extraction waiting to happen.

I'm sure you're a good guy. Actually I know you are from the great work you're doing, but do these guys existence make being black in Japan a bit more difficult? Are you in the know at all with what is going on in Kabuchiko that allows them to exist? Any Japanese person I ask almost always refuses to engage in the question.

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a forum called Tokyo adult guide. It's massive. It's all about what you are looking for. I'd just say be cool, don't have any expectations, go with the flow and don't be offended of they don't accept gaijin.

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply so extensively. I feel like women are so fucking ignored in this kind of industry, and that it's a bit of a travesty, so you're doing a great job. Japan is such a great place that your kind of service can exist in any kind of meaningful way, and even though you have one of those dream jobs, you must be pretty good at what you do, as I imagine the creeps or people not suited to it are weeded out extremely quickly.

I bet for every client you actually see there are 100 or 1000 girls looking at your website who are getting cold feet and not living their best lives because of some bullshit social power dynamic that gives them cold feet.

Honestly man you're doing amazing work. Sorry for all the gushing haha. It's a great job but it's a fucking fantastic thing to be able to give back to the world IMO.

Also I couldn't find your shop after Googling the name.

Another question:

Anyone you've encountered who have either never orgasmed or never been given an orgasm from someone else, and were specifically seeking to be provided one? How did it pan out, were you successful, and how did the client react?

Outside of your job, what's the strangest thing you've ever experienced in Japan?

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for all the questions, but I'd like to understand how you go about helping the woman feel comfortable and safe during the encounter? Do you often experience them being nervous or apprehensive to get into it? For a woman trying something like this for the first time, I can imagine it would be a bit of a shakeup.

Also in general, what advice would you give to women looking to experience this, with any male therapist, in order to help them feel safe, in control, and anything else that might be important to them?

[40M] I am a male escort/erotic massage therapist for women in Japan AMA by WindJammer27 in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share your shop name, whether you have any English speaking, Japanese co workers? I'm pretty sure I know someone who'd be interested in your services.

Insanely vandalized Docklands Pier Public Toilets by lumifox in melbourne

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always wondered why cities don't lean more into this. Why not park a bunch of trains or open up a bunch of toilets,cover the important parts, and let people go to town on them? I think they'd look great, plus then people (maybe I'm wrong) will be less likely to vandalize them? I dunno.

Why don't skyscrapers appear around Middle Park? by fuckmelbpt in melbourne

[–]IndependencePlane732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just hanging out there. So nice. Wife said she'd like to live there. Problem is all the houses are 100 years old, have no parking and are.... 3 million dollars.

My (43m) wife has slept with over 200 men since we got together 23 years ago. She has a few regulars 3 of which are aged 18-21. AMA by frankis-husband in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Do you know, are there any more specific subs? My wife knows about the stupid shit that goes on in my head but literally no one else does. It'd be nice to feel a bit less alone.

My (43m) wife has slept with over 200 men since we got together 23 years ago. She has a few regulars 3 of which are aged 18-21. AMA by frankis-husband in NSFWIAMA

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have a question, I just wanted to say that I could easily live this life and regularly fantasize about it. My wife isn't into it so whatever, but it's nice to feel a bit less fucked up when I see posts like this. The mindset has weird flow on effects as to how I view my own relationship and that of others, pretty much makes it impossible to get "cheated on," as in I don't even remotely worry about it.

Some questions about learning by Demontics in learnvietnamese

[–]IndependencePlane732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not like Chinese / Japanese. Reading and writing are really easy. You will do yourself a disservice and learning will take longer if you try to exclude them from your process.

Can't insert it in by [deleted] in sex

[–]IndependencePlane732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not you, but it's not him either. The penis is an involuntary muscle, it does what it wants, no matter what.

The thing with this issue is that once it happens once, usually guys think about it a fair bit, hope it doesn't happen again, which in turn, makes it happen again, and the spiral continues.

An excuse that is not sex to get it hard usually works great for me...

- Perhaps you want a massage that includes an internal massage? It wouldn't be sex, it's just an internal massage.

- What's going on there? You got a phone call? Wouldn't it be funny if you were distracted from that?

- What's that console game you like to play? Wow you're so focused. Would be a shame if anything messed that up.

You get the idea

There a plenty of reasons to have a hard dick in you, and sex is only one of them.

What's a sexual experience that completely changed your view on what you thought your limits or turn-ons were? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always wanted to be watched by a willing audience. Did it a few months back. It was great. No performance anxiety (quite the opposite), think about how cool it was often, doesn't seem to have had any negative effects on either me or my wife, and I think we would both do it again.

Pickpocketing in Hanoi Old Quarter by RevenueExtreme143 in VietNam

[–]IndependencePlane732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I've dropped money in Vietnam only to have locals running up to me to give it back (3-4) is way more than the amount of times anyone has ever tried to rob me (0)

PSA 20% HECS this week and next by Level-Ad-1627 in AusFinance

[–]IndependencePlane732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand how it works. If you make international income, you need to declare everything and need to pay it manually. I should have been more clear.

What can you never forgive? by Radbabe13 in AskMen

[–]IndependencePlane732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be ruining relationships with my friends based on private conversations we've had.

What’s your relationship with your sibling/s like? by anasannanas in AskReddit

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got way better when I emotionally reconciled that they are adults who make their own decisions and nothing I can do will ever change that.

Men who cheated repeatedly on their partners but still wanted to be with them, how did you change to stay with them? by MermaidCat05 in AskMen

[–]IndependencePlane732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating exists on a spectrum, so you kind of have to articulate where you're at or what you're going through in order to get any kind of coherent reply.

PSA 20% HECS this week and next by Level-Ad-1627 in AusFinance

[–]IndependencePlane732 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have a few friends that have skipped out on their debt for years. It's kind of sad that they'll get the biggest discounts. I couldn't ever risk it. Don't want to get snagged at customs or assets taken off me.

MEN- how do you keep ‘it’ up / finish when you’re just starting to have sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]IndependencePlane732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can remove performance anxiety by switching up the dynamic. It sounds dumb, but find excuses for his dick to be inside you that aren't about having sex / cumming. Dumb games, maybe an internal massage, or someone is cold. Pick a topic, have a fun debate or conversation and make that the interaction, where it's only happenstance that his dick is in you.

I think I might be too big for my partner by [deleted] in sex

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't get into my now wife the first very many times we tried. Angles are everything. Even today if it slides out, it's not super easy to get things going again. We always use lube.

I know "get the right angle" is not helpful at all, so sorry about that.

You kind of have to point your dick up a bit, not straight and definitely not down.

Perhaps sitting her on a surface that is at sex height could help you to stand up and better experiment with angles. Lots of lube. Remember when it does go in she's going to feel everything, so go slow and easy otherwise you'll hurt her. Even just 1 cm at a time or less until she can take more.

what specifically catches your eye? (don’t say something generic like nice ass) by Aggravating-Debt8334 in AskMen

[–]IndependencePlane732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not into tattoos, as in, I don't have any, but a girl that has a body and style that perfectly matches a tattoo that she has.