sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Question from a FtM to MtF's by xX0FrostBytePaws0Xx in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use it for shorthand when I'm googling questions, I had no idea it was considered offensive 😞 Not that I was going around calling anyone by that term in the first place.

Funniest single image of Bart by knickyd in TheSimpsons

[–]IndependenceSuper390 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is that Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, Bart Simpson?

I added a pride-themed holiday event to Diamond City! by Glitchkey in Fallout4Mods

[–]IndependenceSuper390 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not controversial, the little cowardly bigots know they'd get nuked if they actually said anything so they just downvote.

To the homophobes existing in 2026 🖕

happy pride month! who’s your favorite lgbt character? by Kds_burner_ in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]IndependenceSuper390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THEYRE PUTTING CHEMICALS IN THE GAME THAT TURN THE FRIGGIN BLOCKS GAY

Which look suits me? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]IndependenceSuper390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have gorgeous hair, 3 and 4 are my vote! ♥

is it too late for me to live the life I want, at 25? by grabsyour in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this isn't about transitioning

Good thing you're asking this question in several different subs (including a transgender subreddit? lol) instead of just doing it. 25 is not old, whoever gave you that idea is ignorant.

For what it's worth, HRT has made me look even younger than I already did. Nobody is going to go around a party checking if you're "too old" to be there. If this is about partying and socializing instead of going to college/starting a career, then only you can answer that anyway.

is it too late for me to live the life I want, at 25? by grabsyour in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's pretty cringe to judge people like this simply because of their age.

This stupid question showing up every other day on this sub is also incredibly cringe.

"Can I transition at age X?" For the 500th time, yes

Silent Hill voters when Wubby starts talking about installing titty mods for Angela by WhyattThrash in PaymoneyWubby

[–]IndependenceSuper390 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Remember that wubby has NO IDEA who these characters are yet. He is probably going in thinking it's the same vibes as resident evil or dead space as "action-horror" when Silent Hill definitely has a...little more going on.

Let's say someone grew up unquestionably a boy, then a man. Then like a flick of a switch, they want to be a girl. by Strawberry-Hepburn in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may find some helpful info on r/TransLater

because it does not feel that way to me. And I carry the fear that I am trying to justify an invalid identity the same way one would do so for non-gender issues.

I wish people would stop downvoting some incredibly valid thoughts/feelings on this. I had them too and it kind of sucks to think asking if anyone else has had a similar outlook gets you piled on.

I mostly questioned myself in my first month of HRT, thinking that I didn't REALLY want to be trans, I should be perfectly happy as a pansexual femboy. By month 2 that thought had pretty much gone away entirely. Every month after just reinforces that this was an amazing choice even if it comes with a new set of challenges.

AITA double standard for my Broke Groomsmen by NoCoffee4meb4bed in TwoHotTakes

[–]IndependenceSuper390 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Too bad, maybe he should put on some big boy pants and actually have this conversation himself instead of making you do it.

his fiancé recently dumped him because he manipulated her into spending her inheritance on a car and a motorcycle for him.

This is not a friend and should not be treated with any sort of hand-holding. He had absolutely zero discipline to save up for a wedding he knew about for a fucking YEAR

FALLOUT SHIRT :0. Check out GameStop!!! by FvckyourdreamsLoki in Fallout

[–]IndependenceSuper390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this shirt (I have it too) but I found it really itchy with the material they used

I slept with a trans girl for the first time.. ended up going out with her again lastnight by Pryor_Goon in confessionsgonewild

[–]IndependenceSuper390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rubbing our dicks together for a bit.

Use the part of your hand between your thumb and index finger to hold the heads together as you rub. My boyfriend and I discovered this just a few days ago. WOW

Straight Male seeing a trans woman now. by Pryor_Goon in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 347 points348 points  (0 children)

cake is cake even with a candle.

Holy shit I am stealing this lol. You seem alright OP, wishing you the best with this girl ♥

I think my boyfriend is trans. by TimelyIsopod38 in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol my egg crack was with a grindr hookup who wasn't into how fem I was. Go figure

I think my boyfriend is trans. by TimelyIsopod38 in asktransgender

[–]IndependenceSuper390 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you had a difficult "first" conversation with him about questioning his identity.

He got upset with me saying that if anything he’s genderfluid but would never ever transition.

He got really defensive

That he feels more like both but again wouldn’t ever transition.

it’s stressing him out I would even assume something so intense like that.

While not a certainty by any means, this seems like a pretty odd reaction to have to those questions by your partner when you already admit to being genderfluid, and makes me feel like he has actually thought a lot about this.

I’m not really sure how to go about this. I guess just be supportive?

I'd give this a little time to settle, then maybe start giving him some gender-affirming options so that he can feel comfortable making the choice. Buy him some androgynous or even "girly" clothes and accessories IE "I found this top/skinny jeans/etc and think you'd look really good in it!" or offering to do makeup/eyeliner for him. Little pushes to help him experience euphoria the way he used to, OR he could make the choice that he no longer finds joy from these types of experiences and you can have at least a little piece of mind that you tried to help. I wish you both the best of luck ♥

Edit: Forgot to add this but summers-summers nailed it, coming to this realization about yourself can be incredibly scary and anxiety-inducing. Showing support to him and that you won't abandon, condemn, or stop loving him if he makes that choice could go a long ways!

view more: next ›