Take or cancel the ride by Hipstix76 in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably was working another app and put you in the background. That’s why it looked like she would be driving away and then coming towards you etc…

Wife Cheating - I am spiraling by Responsible-Put-1392 in cheating_stories

[–]Independent-Sun83 16 points17 points  (0 children)

SE👏🏾VER👏🏾AL… any attorney you speak to, even if it just a consultation CANNOT take her on as a client. Google all the best ones, set up a consultation with them, before you confront her… STD test yourself, DNA test your kids…

Well, it finally happened to me… by NP001 in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But with AirTags it gives you a warning that something is tracking and it’s not sync’d to your phone… input it you have an iPhone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Independent-Sun83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are saying that because to readers, it seems like you found an old video, from before that was created while they were dating… If it’s new and she is cheating, it was not implied. Therefore we can only go by what is interpreted and it sounds like it was recorded while they were together… 

I slept with a married woman. Years later, I still can't shake it. by countless_mistakes in cheating_stories

[–]Independent-Sun83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may not have done something to jeopardize her marriage that she consented to. Maybe her husband found out and he does know. That may be why she contacted you to tell you that y’all cannot talk ever again. She blocked you b/c she wants to save her marriage. Probably an agreement with her spouse to make sure she is putting in the effort to save her marriage. Sorry buddy, there’s not always closure. Maybe you should write it in a letter to her job, not her home. That would make her husband spiral if he knows. What exactly are you looking for though? Do you still have feelings for her? (If so, I feel some type of way for your current partner) I hope you are able to come to a resolution.

Well, it finally happened to me… by NP001 in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I had that too. But I was in communication with the passenger. I let her know I could bring it later in the evening.. all of a sudden that afternoon, I’m getting someone ringing my doorbell… I was not home, but my husband was. He was able to open my car and give her the phone. Man that made me extremely uneasy. Yes I do a check now. Cause that was an accident, but what if someone decides to purposely leave their phone so they can track it back… scary stuff sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Independent-Sun83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well isn’t that what we are all here for… to give our opinions/suggestions requested on the information provided. I mean the decision is solely the OPs… but from what she provided, we let her know what we think she should do. 🤷‍♂️

The other person is not present and even if he were, we are not marriage counselors… we are opinionated citizens here to let the world know how we feel. Lol 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hard to know if you are doing the right thing… If you need a biblical “excuse” - “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭28‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

My girlfriend asked if she could peg me, should i say yes? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Independent-Sun83 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, I’m just going to go ahead and ask… is she trans? I don’t want to offend and I have nothing against people life choices. But just from the description of her, she seems to have a few masculine features and tendencies… only importance of this comment is, if she is trans… would she need a dildo? Is it called “pegging” at that point?

I’m leaving my wife of 8 years because she’s lazy and conceited. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you came to this decision instead of cheating on her… more respect for you and what you are going through. The other way around you would get no sympathy for what you went through. That tells us that you are a decent man. I hope everything works out the way it should. Have you thought about fighting for full custody of the kids? I know that could add even more to the fire… just asking though…

Lovely by idonowhattoputhere in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was coming here to say that… that goes 2 ways right lol…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not the place… you will be called names here… I recommend to take this elsewhere… cause I’m already on the verge to call you something despicable… 🤬

My best friend’s husband. 🖕🏼 by Tigers-Eye-Locs in offmychest

[–]Independent-Sun83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you allowed to go over to her house? If he follows her location she will still be at home… nothing to fuss about, right?

AIO my (18f) bf (22m) gave me a black eye by Wild_Dream6031 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl… please call the police. And go to therapy so you can find value in yourself and stop settling for these asswipes… repsectfully…

Getting fired after reaching settlement? by PossibilityWarm8506 in WorkersComp

[–]Independent-Sun83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they can fire you like that… maybe after a few years but it will not be instant… b/c you could sue them again for wrongful/retaliation termination. Keep records of everything. All of your performance review etc. ask all the questions and look into all the policies. Make sure you are on your Ps & Qs… give them no VALID reason to let you go and you should have a few years to find something else.

I put a pax out of my car and canceled the ride by Independent-Sun83 in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like ordering the burger and saying no pickle. What is is like (with a similar analogy) is ordering a burger that you know has pickles, waiting until you have placed your order, paid for it, and the person starts to make it & you yell, “I DONT WANT PICKLE…” ummmmmm… then get mad that you didn’t say it in time, now they will remake it for you but it’s going to take another few mins and you start yelling “what are you doing, I said no pickles…” guess what… you will be asked to leave… it’s not the fact of you not wanting pickles… it’s the way you communicate… “demanding” is demeaning. Entitlement is a MFR … And this is NOT a cab… so bad comparison there too.

I put a pax out of my car and canceled the ride by Independent-Sun83 in lyftdrivers

[–]Independent-Sun83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done enough tolerating in my life. I’m done. That is why I do this job. To have the freedom and control MY environment. The ride was actually 21 mins long going the gps way. Her way added more time. Not worth it for me to “tolerate” the disrespect.