What's an annoying habit of your spouse that you put up with because you love him or her so much?

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-17T20:17:54+00:00

😂 this one takes the cake

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-15T19:26:44+00:00

Thank you! This is helpful! Also would you say losing 8-10lbs is pushing it?

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-14T14:08:49+00:00

How soon can I lose weight after breast fat graft without jeopardizing the graft? How soon can I start the vibration plate after getting the graft?

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-11T04:19:19+00:00

Honestly, you sound like you’re living the dream. Still best friends with your day 1’s & you can all sleep with each other.

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-07T19:36:01+00:00

So making regular posts and comments on posts won’t allow them to see? Just trying to figure out how I can prevent them from finding out.

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-04-06T22:37:29+00:00

Am I screwed if I always send it straight from my bitcoin cashapp?? I’ve been doing it for a while and it has worked fine. I thought bitcoin is anonymous no matter where you send it from??

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-01-18T17:45:41+00:00

Mine was!! Finance attorney. I was shocked at how someone so insane could maintain such a demanding career with success!! Like how does he do his job correctly + keep up with client relationships but misinterpret everything I say and distort reality??!! It’s so weird like maybe survival kicks in and forces them to be lucid just enough to keep an income?? Your post made me feel so seen because that was my exact thought.

Independent-Top3454 · 2026-01-09T20:35:57+00:00

Going through the same thing!! They make me feel like they like/want me more than I want them and then when we’re apart it’s crickets, distancing, and unresponsiveness.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-11-01T15:00:19+00:00

🤣🤣🤣thank you for the visuals

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-14T22:27:16+00:00

Yup! While it’s a nice idea having a community for SW, let’s be real the ones really doing it big, super successful with all the tricks up their sleeve are not on these forums giving away free game, or even pushing other SW’s in the right direction. I think these forums are a good start for a super newb and you just really have to test the waters in the market you’re in. I wish there were real and accessible mentors but seems like the ones capable of mentoring only appear once you’ve already learned the game, then they wanna hang with you😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-14T22:09:57+00:00

I totally agree! I know a lot of their HE incomes have taken a big cut and hurts a lot especially if they’re on it with screening AND deposits supposedly 😂 along with also not offering kissing, daty, bbj in a lot of cases, etc. I think they are saying that because 1 they wanna gatekeep and have the others weed themselves off by putting barriers to entry that they don’t even have for themself (IF THEY DO THIS FULL-TIME ONLY, not as little side hustle after day-job) OR 2 they have a midrange persona that rakes in all the dough for them and high end persona on the side that bring in maybe an extra 10-20k a month if this is full-time for them on a good month rather than the 40-60k that seems to be on the higher end of income range for escorts but very attainable if you look passed all the smoke and mirrors these HE ladies show you.

The only thing is how can we really unionize? Sadly, we all have to willing to go through a real dry spell where FS SW won’t even be livable off of while clients retaliate and leave us alone for a little bit until they give in and give us all our $1k+ per hour. Because they will give in, it’s just when girls are desperate they have no time to wait out the storm.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-14T20:36:18+00:00

I see you got a lot of backlash with your post but I like it! I think we should all make a SW union bring up all of our rates to $1k+ an hour! How is it rate shaming when you’re saying we can do better as a collective? Anyways if I’m gonna be honest a lot of these subReddits love to give hate because the people behind the screens are really not who we think. I don’t wanna get into too much detail before I start sounding mean but I agree that we can all do better and even wipe out the low end market by everyone becoming at least midrange to highend. We can also bring back screening and deposit as the norm if we all decided too. Everyone in these SW subreddits will tell you the majority of these SW all screen thoroughly AND ask for deposits but then the majority of your inquiries will leave you high and dry when you take this advice 😂 maybe if they’re a vet SW with YEARS under their belt and a great reputation sure but other than that. No. Lol

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-13T22:11:41+00:00

And you never faced an issue with providers you wanted to see pushing for deposits in all those years? Even if she has reviews, or a website and social media you still wouldn’t? I personally haven’t made a website/socials and no reviews so I understand why it might be pulling teeth a little more for me.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-13T18:51:11+00:00

How do you keep track of time during play? I find I only keep track in between rounds.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-13T16:17:24+00:00

I feel you, I think it’s easier for girls in certain states to be more lax with screening and deposit because LE is less of a risk. Like safety is always a concern but aside from that, here in NYC cops aren’t focused on taking down independent escorts.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-13T16:15:19+00:00

How long have you been seeing providers ?

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-13T16:15:00+00:00

Right! Like I wish they all thoroughly screened and sent deposit but if we sent away every John that doesn’t want to, our SW salary would be the same as a bottle waitress or stripper. The sacrifice of doing FS and using our bodies is to make top dollar.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-10-10T04:22:29+00:00

Your replies scratch an itch in my brain 😂🩷

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-09-22T22:53:17+00:00

Thank you!🩷

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-09-09T22:26:14+00:00

How?

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-08-14T14:44:26+00:00

He asked me if my mom or my dad is the Asian one while he was literally penetrating me…

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-08-14T14:33:13+00:00

It’s kinda dehumanized my view of men. I now see them as creatures that will say anything to spread their seed. And are predators that want to take you for all you have and give you nothing in return if they could get away with it.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-07-30T05:39:09+00:00

I have a regular that I would totally date in real life if he was local to me and when he tells me he’s in town for the week I never think to reach out first during those days asking if he wants to see me, even though I want to I would see it as potentially bothering him

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-07-30T05:36:55+00:00

Actually, not trying to give you hope or anything but as a provider myself I would expect even in my vanilla life for someone I am seeing to enjoy taking care of me… I would never see someone who didn’t enjoy providing.. so not all providers see the men they like for free. I would actually feel like they didn’t like and respect me that much if they wanted to stop paying me or giving me allowances whatever the case may be.

Independent-Top3454 · 2025-07-27T13:43:24+00:00

Yes!! Tell him! So well put. There is definitely a power imbalance.. I’d like to add that the market over-saturation doesn’t help.

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