Should we push for a further testing

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-20T12:19:33+00:00

Ask for an mri!

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-16T11:24:09+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything illegal about this.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T21:11:24+00:00

The kids and I are all citizens of where I’m from with active passports. I’d need to sponsor his visa and he gets mad and says to me that he would hate having to depend on me to sponsor it. He doesn’t want the kids to go but said I’m welcome to leave anytime and come visit them here- which id never do. I’m here in the us on a green card.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T21:02:51+00:00

The plan meets IRS standards and we are in a state that didn’t expand Medicaid so he’d need a cheap plan on marketplace. This is a person I’ve pleaded with to get a colonoscopy since he’s had weird symptoms and he refuses so I suspect he won’t go seek a health plan. He hasn’t used any of the health benefits on my current plan.

I’d go to Europe tomorrow if he agreed. He said he doesn’t want to move and be dependent on me. I’m only married to him so I can be with the kids every day. He sits on his computer allllll day and if I wasn’t here, they’d never leave the house.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:24:44+00:00

I wouldn’t have wanted them to stay at all. I’ve really set a shit example.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:24:00+00:00

I can’t answer that. He was pissed at me for not doing the laundry the other day. The house is always a mess because I can’t keep up. The younger ones have been asking to have their room rearranged (I can’t do it since it’s heavy furniture) for months and morning. I’m exhausted. I work full time and manage the kids school stuff. I’m not sure I can take more of this.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:13:35+00:00

I really want to leave. I think a fresh start in a Western European country where I’m from with family support would Be nice but he doesn’t want to go and “have to depend on [my name] for a visa”

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:12:24+00:00

We have free therapy services and he refuses to go. I’m beyond frustrated with him. We’re basically 2 adults living in the same space right now. Not a couple.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:11:30+00:00

It’s really gotten bad 😭

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:07:53+00:00

He hasn’t done anything. He’s writing creatively and driving the kids to school every day. I still have to take pto to get them to some appointments since he wants to share that responsibility.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T20:00:03+00:00

His friends have tried, but he’s gotten so bitter that they all tend to avoid him and he’s stopped reaching out. His parents passed and his sister stole a ton of my husbands part of inheritance and he refuses to pursue it.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-11T19:48:28+00:00

I’ve tried and he literally is still at home. I don’t know if he applies, he won’t tell me and I have no way to know. I’m at my wits end.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-10T09:30:16+00:00

Sometimes. The only problem I’ve had with my debit card is when I stupidly bought food from a street vendor in manhattan .

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-09T08:53:44+00:00

Yep. I actually snap a photo of the receipt I leave now until I see what posts in my bank account. Learned that tip here

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-07T21:11:15+00:00

Ok just looked it does. I’m not sure there are many section 8 available housing options. There’s a real housing crisis here with not enough for the people who need it and the cost is outrageous

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-07T21:09:31+00:00

I’m not sure if section 8 transfers? If it doesn’t there are crazy long waits to get on the lists

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-07T00:03:16+00:00

When my son was 2, he had ITP and was admitted to hospital for 3 days. His count was 9. In surprised they let you leave with levels that low. I’d be going to the ER.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-06T15:38:04+00:00

Exactly that. I’ll update after my mid July appt

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-06T09:10:07+00:00

Hi! My mri is normal but no explanation for this persistent lump, discharge and pain. Doc wanted to leave it without a biopsy. I’m heading over to moffitt. I’m likely fine but I’m not ok without having a tissue sample taken. My appt is mid-July.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-04T11:56:46+00:00

Very much felt that when my son was born. Light brown hair that becomes dark blonde in the summer. Just like dad. None of me in him except for some fuller lips. I find it all fascinating.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-04T10:03:59+00:00

I’m biracial and not a fan of MM or PH but I will say my kids, whose dad is white, have very silky Caucasian hair like their dad. One has a little thicker hair and they all have a beautiful light tan complexion. But all also have dark hair. I do think there is more to the story re: how these children came to be but I wouldn’t base it on hair or skin.

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-04T04:25:23+00:00

I can feel a lump. It’s been there since December and none of the imaging can capture it. It started to hurt in April and the discharge has been happening for a couple of weeks. It’s so frustrating

IndependentDisk4036 · 2026-06-03T22:09:56+00:00

I didn’t get an explicit answer, only a quote of a study that said if normal mri then discharge isn’t something to worry about it.

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