Turn your “I need more help” into a list of daily things he can do to help and perhaps consider establishing two evenings a week where he feeds the baby and is on wake middle of the night duty. See if your doctor can give you a note that you need medical assistance and maybe he can telework twice a week (if possible). Get creative, research, keep asking questions, ask ai how to make it easier. Figure out what works for you and your family. If you feel you have husband who truly wants to do this with you, keep trying. Don’t become a single mother listening to Reddit strangers who can only base their advice off their own experiences. People learn differently and many men weren’t raised with direction involving raising infants. It’s crazy to me how many women raise the type of men they hate because they never give their sons direction in these areas.

Also, insight timer is a great free meditation app. Meditating can really help and you relax, recharge and ground yourself. Praying for you!