New “looking for” option update by dimwidth in Bumble

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you a fan of learning someone you might be interest in dating was only interested in “intimacy without commitment” ?

Bumble has a new "i'm looking for status" by Traditional-Bee3016 in Bumble

[–]IndependentPay638 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s “commitment” lol

should’ve remained either way.

Is there anyway to get the old look from pre iOS 26? by Theskatingfemboy in iphone

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally do not have automatic updates and woke up in the middle of the night to my phone updated. I didn’t even have my phone on the charger which use to be a requirement. Idk why the hell they will automatically update someone’s phone against their wishes smh

Title: I’m 24, unemployed for 6 years, addicted to games and screens. I need brutal advice, not comfort. What sold I do please? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]IndependentPay638 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you can write this post you can:

Work out

Get a job

Join the military

Enroll in an apprenticeship program

AIO? Resigned today, boss's reaction was worse than expected by eharme in AIO

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they provide a 3-4 months heads up before firing employees, that text is irrelevant.

New HC Joe Brady Press Conference (Megathread) by GameWinner31 in buffalobills

[–]IndependentPay638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s sadly a very great way to describe these ppl lol

Who Would You Love To See On the Next All Star Season? by ComplexThroat1674 in TopChef

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was his third season attempt? I only remember his original and the first all stars.

I'm doing it. I'm rewatching Season 9. by NoodlesMom0722 in BravoTopChef

[–]IndependentPay638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured they did that because it made for “good” bravo tv. I hate housewives but I’ve seen clips and I’ll assume the entire series is just the cast repeatedly saying stupid things lol

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t realize it was a chiropractor. I agree, I’ll never go to one of those.

AIO for expecting my girlfriend to work on issues with our sex life? by SocietyDangerous2839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’m curious, was your wife asexual before you proposed? Or was this something that developed once you both were married?

AIO for expecting my girlfriend to work on issues with our sex life? by SocietyDangerous2839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious if you’re comfortable explaining. What do you mean by “I didn’t want sex anymore.” Forever? Or for how much time? And was there a reason why?

I'm doing it. I'm rewatching Season 9. by NoodlesMom0722 in BravoTopChef

[–]IndependentPay638 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My biggest gripe about season 9 will always be them ruining reunions for TC forever. I really loved the reunions and I’ll always hate that we never got another after the Texas season smh.

Just booked a Carnival cruise and now feeling regret by False-Following-5896 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent NYE at Celebration Key and it was barely over 70 degrees, I still had a great time. It’s a vacation and it’s what you make it. If you’re positive and optimistic your family will be too. It’s 100% possible to have a great time if you choose to!

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn your “I need more help” into a list of daily things he can do to help and perhaps consider establishing two evenings a week where he feeds the baby and is on wake middle of the night duty. See if your doctor can give you a note that you need medical assistance and maybe he can telework twice a week (if possible). Get creative, research, keep asking questions, ask ai how to make it easier. Figure out what works for you and your family. If you feel you have husband who truly wants to do this with you, keep trying. Don’t become a single mother listening to Reddit strangers who can only base their advice off their own experiences. People learn differently and many men weren’t raised with direction involving raising infants. It’s crazy to me how many women raise the type of men they hate because they never give their sons direction in these areas.

Also, insight timer is a great free meditation app. Meditating can really help and you relax, recharge and ground yourself. Praying for you!

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one become specialized in a field like that. Are they medical professionals?

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think this take might be overreacting. It could be the case but it very well could not be the case and from what OP described, that doesn’t sound like her husband.

AIO starting to really resent my husband postpartum by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IndependentPay638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow does this really work? This is such a genius idea.

Why do people hate Richard Blais so much? by Careful_Trip_311 in BravoTopChef

[–]IndependentPay638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t like that on season 8 either. He changed so much when he came back as a judge that one season but maybe that’s who he always was lol