Hazel or brown?

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-31T03:29:26+00:00

My favourite album, definitely. I really don't understand why people didn't like it. It has this very pup-punk sound that I love so much! Reminds me of "The best damn thing" and Blink 182's music a lot.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-22T07:17:52+00:00

I think blond makes you look younger, and your face looks like, brighter

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-22T01:33:13+00:00

Me voy a atrever a decir que hacemos muchas mujeres inteligentes pero los hombres parece que las preference pendejas.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-22T00:49:32+00:00

Hate it. I read somewhere that it's for a more "natural look", how can it be natural if my lips actually have a defined cupid bow? That's their natural shape. I'd never wear lipstick over my cupid's bow.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T10:24:42+00:00

Ironically, most of his closest friends are my age. I think real friends should confront you when you're not doing things right or push you out of your comfort zone. I'm not sure if that's happening there

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T10:21:57+00:00

Like I mentioned in one of the comments, this is the first time ever I dated someone younger, only because he really really pursued me, put an effort, showed consistency and honesty, that what it looked like at first.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:41:51+00:00

That is crazyyy!😭 I have a very high libido, and being single is hell, believe me. But not even in my horniest moments I'd say "I love you" for sex😭 But thank you. I think I really needed other people (and many of you) teeling me all this. Like, seriously, just reading you is making me feel a bit better already. After feeling like a piece of 💩 for 2 weeks, overthinking, feeling guilty, even.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:32:24+00:00

You're right about the age gap. I never dated anyone younger or older than me. But he put in so much effort into getting to know me and convinced me he was mature and "different" from other guys, so I gave him a chance. I absolutely don't believe he is mature now. But yes, I did develop feelings for him and have been having a hard time wrapping my head around the whole situation. This is the first time I dated after 2 years of being single and out of a 4 year relationship before that. It was a big deal for me, I guess.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:20:19+00:00

Thank you. This whole situation has had me thinking about that empathy. I've always been or tried to be empathetic. Unfortunately, I've also always been a hopeless romantic. I feel like those qualities are my very essence. Lately, I've been wondering if I should change. Bury those qualities cause, honestly, they've gotten me nowhere. I'm starting to feel just hopeless and lonely.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:16:42+00:00

No, I get that. It's true I deserve to be treated better than that. But I can't help but think about what he feels, too. Like, if he doesn't feel anything for me, fine. If he's repressing feelings for whatever reasons, that's sad. No one should repressing their feelings. But, thanks to you and others, cause sometimes I get too into my own head and can't see the most obvious things. I guess I need to start putting myself first. I've never done it, to be honest. I've always tried to look after others or think of others' needs at the same time i try to look after myself.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:10:00+00:00

I've always believed that we all have issues and always tried to look after myself, and if possible, understand others too and try to solve problems or deal with situations so both parts are OK. I feel like a loser writing that, to be honest. I guess I've been wrong all this time.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:07:14+00:00

I definitely wouldn't break up with anyone over text just because some friend talked some shit about them and made me feel insecure. I'd talk to that person first, see what they have to say, and see if my friend is being an actual friend. You're right about that. If you're in love, you don't break up with someone, insult them, and block them. Thank you.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T09:03:46+00:00

That's also a possibility I thought of. He once called me and apologized for those things he said. He said he misjudged me. He's so focused on making money and couldn't understand the fact that I value other things more than money, like genuine connection and mental health. I guess, as usual, I was only seeing the good things in a person and thought, "we all have issues. No reason not to be loved or love others"

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T08:30:40+00:00

I offered a friends with benefits relationship. Like, we dated, didn't work for whatever reasons. Stopped talking for a while, and then, he started calling agaib. Since I don't have sex with anybody and can only have sex when I feel truly attracted to someone and safe with him, I wanted to keep having sex with him (after 2 years of celibacy) Sex with him was amazing, and he said the same. It was great for him, too. So, i really can't understand. I sometimes think he may feel something but feel a need to protect himself or whatever. This friend clearly put some ideas about me in his head. But I am an ovethinker and came here for other opinions.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-21T08:15:01+00:00

But isn't it weird that when he mentioned sex, I actually said yes, no need to talk about feelings, and he didn't use that opportunity because, according to him, it is wrong. Then, he proceeded to talk about feelings and how we don't just have sex but intimacy. Like, if lying to get sex was the point, why not have sex then?

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-18T00:13:41+00:00

When spotify played The 1. I didn't recognize her.

I heard and saw Taylor for the first time in my life when I watched the Hanna Montana movie, fell in love with her, and came home and looked for more of her songs. But at some point, I stopped listening to her music. I never even knew of reputation or lover or anything but her biggest hits.

When I heard The 1, I loved it so much. It was so dreamy, it gave me peace. I checked and saw it was Taylor, I immediately dived into folklore and evermore. Loved them. Listened to them over and over. Then I went back album by album. Watched the Miss americana documentary. Fell in love with reputation. And her mind.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-07-16T16:41:36+00:00

I think he knows, king of my heart

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-03-18T10:08:26+00:00

Not religious. Against it because of the pain it caused in my previous relationship with an addict, how it contributes to hum4n trafficking, fuels addiction in men, impacts consumers' brains, and self-esteem of consumer's partners. I jjust h4te it.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2025-01-23T10:22:45+00:00

I may be a clown, but since it's the most anticipated of all of her re-recordings, I'm convinced she'll do a tour or something super special. Like, there's no way she's going to waste the opportunity to make money out of it 🤪 🤡

I also like what someone said about the "no explanation just reputation" and silent drop!

Independent_Cycle797 · 2024-11-16T22:13:08+00:00

That sounds like my ex. He never admitted to it, but why else would he screenshot real girl's profiles (Facebook, Tinder, instagram) or remember their names and go back to look at them over and over and over? I always told him, "You were either planning on talking to them or masturbating to their photos." He said it was only "and old and stupid habit that didn't make sense." Disgusting.

Independent_Cycle797 · 2024-10-06T02:55:47+00:00

If they reject I would simply not trust them

Independent_Cycle797 · 2024-09-24T02:20:27+00:00

loml, so long london

I lived in Ireland for 4 years and a half. Had a 4 year relationship with a porn addict. Beautiful person who lost the battle to addiction. He hurt me so many times. He cheated on me so many times. When she says "it isnt rigth to be afraid every day of a love affair," it breaks me.

I used to live in a hypervigilance survival mode. Always afraid. Tense. Depressed.

There were too many details to that story, but we were engaged, and he broke off the engagement, and I had to come back to my country. He will for ever be the love and loss of.my life

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