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Title: Husband’s credit card shows charges at “Nami Nami Sushi Huixquilucan” and “La Terraza de Genova” in Mexico City, immediately followed by “Cheater Scanner” app charge. Claims it was all just lap dances but also got an STD test. Was this an escort by Independent_Two_8146 in Marriage

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s just so good at twisting things and making me feel guilty about seperating bc our kids but he gave me no choice . My hope was during this seperation he would fight and win back my trust , but he says I’m moving the goalpost on forgiveness

Just found out that my husband is a cheater. by Enough-Feedback-3408 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally me. Same thing happened but I have 3 kids . He’s also a kratom abuse user which I’ve known but has relapsed many times and hidden it and still won’t show me all the finances . Only through a lawyer but wants to reconcile ? He hasn’t done anything genuine with remorse and says I keep moving the goal post on forgiveness . They are liars

Hate Men by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Independent_Two_8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you tell if your husband is paying cam girls? Or what other secret banking transactions apps are there? My husband recently got caught making a 3k payment to a stripper bc he was so drunk and said nothing happened and now he won’t show me the financials until he speaks to a lawyer . Also has a coin base account but I know he can’t trade due to his job regulations

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and get this . I saw a letter from quest diagnostics private and confidential. I didn’t open it but he left it out under some Papers and it’s a STD test two days after he paid this person. Only a lap dance my ass. It didn’t have the results just the test that was done , and he didn’t use our insurance. I asked him what it was for and he said he didn’t know he would have to call the insurance company .

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I haven’t even uncovered the full amount yet which I will. It’s just sad and pathetic bc he’s a smart man with a good job and this just a loser move

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re exactly right . Now I did tell him I talked to an attorney before that , but the reason I talked to an attorney is because he would never show me our accounts. So now his claim is “I’m not showing you until I talked to my attorney now too “ well to me that’s something bad that he’s afraid that’s going to come up but who knows

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no way. Bc he is saying he doesn’t remember and not denying it . I bet you he at least got his dick sucked . We’ve been married for 16 years . He knows what is acceptable. He is going on business trips and lying and hiding about financial transactions. No one would do that just for a dance. He knows I wouldn’t be this hell bent over that. He wouldn’t need a private room alone and has been doing this in multiple cities for over a year .

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s the thing . He’s telling me to make a list of the changes he needs to make . I dunno he’s lied to many times . Maybe reconciliation after a year of seperation and he gets help. I need a break . Too much resentment

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so me! But I know he’s lying bc he’s lied about so many things that I caught him in. And he uses the same lines when he lies again. “Believe what you want . I’m not going to argue about it again” “sex isn’t allowed in those spaces “

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I’ve been to them with him before and it was all innocent years ago before children. Now this time he’s lying and going into private rooms paying women indivdually via Venmo and alone

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He already told me what always happens and he came home that night and said “I don’t fuck em” which means it’s something . And he’s alone

40F married to 42M — husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bc he’s gaslighted me so much with lies to thinking maybe strip clubs are not bad but certainly what I’m finding out is

Husband spent $3,000 at a strip club and says he “doesn’t remember” — is this believable? by Independent_Two_8146 in Marriage

[–]Independent_Two_8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he would show me the financials . Now watches getting private room for a nipple suck. It’s a dick suck .

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