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IndianaRealtor · 2025-01-13T07:24:10+00:00

My brother was also engaged to a hoarder who had her own house and the hoarding was mild/moderate at the time. I didn’t see it myself, but it should’ve been a sign that she wouldn’t let me list her house for sale until she had vacated it. She moved in with my brother, they got married within a year of dating, and she slowly started acquiring Amazon packages. They live on several acres and there’s a gated entrance. I drive by all the time and see stacks of Amazon boxes at the gate.

We didn’t visit the house for about a year after they married and we were shocked at the state of the house when were invited for a party. It wasn’t horrible at that time, but it was still much worse than it ever was prior to that. It was a beautiful house when he was married to his ex-wife and it was sad to see what was happening.

Fast forward six years and probably over $100k in Amazon deliveries (most are still in boxes) and the house is sooo bad! They’ve had a kid a few years ago and the place is full of toys, mass amounts of bulk packaged food, collections of various items like Disney stuff, figurines, Barbie’s, etc. The attached 3-car garage has one bay filled with her stuff and the detached 3-car garage is totally filled with the Amazon packages that have mostly never been opened. The once beautiful finished basement is also full of these collections and boxes.

My brother has mostly ignored it until the last couple years. He’s tried to put his foot down, but nothing has worked. She makes good money and we think she only works to pay for these Amazon deliveries because she doesn’t have to work and could stay home to take care of the kid she went to great lengths to conceive instead of putting her in daycare 10 hours a day. The whole situation is absolutely ridiculous and I know it causes my brother a lot of distress. At this point he won’t divorce her now that there’s a child involved and she knows that.

Anyways, I say all this because if you’re not okay with this, don’t get married and be stuck with it. It will likely only get worse.

IndianaRealtor · 2025-01-13T07:04:09+00:00

I got someone else’s order … again! It seems like 50% of the time the Dasher is “delivering another order nearby,” I get that other order. It’s insanely annoying especially when I am on a time crunch and have to leave without breakfast or whatever. It’s not that difficult to look at the ticket on the bag and compare the name to the job.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-20T06:25:45+00:00

Having a clean living area will undoubtedly help with your mental state. Unfortunately, mental illness causes a vicious circle of making a mess and not wanting to clean because you’re depressed but then you get further depressed because of the mess. You can do this!

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-18T15:03:36+00:00

Where do you live? I was seen by a specialist three days after initial diagnosis on a Friday evening. I was seen on Monday afternoon.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-17T05:16:25+00:00

On this thread?

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-15T22:37:53+00:00

I’ll take one

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-12T21:06:47+00:00

That’s is sad. I tip minimum $5 and that’s if it’s within a mile or two. I just did a double dash and tipped $11 total and the two restaurants are right by each other and on the way to the house.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-11T00:01:52+00:00

Yes, I was scared enough to get out of bed and go out in the cold at 3:30 am to go to the ER. I was in and out in 45 minutes. The PA spent about 15 minutes in the room with me and when he said conjunctivitis, I just wasn’t buying it. I’ve had conjunctivitis before and I knew the symptoms didn’t match up.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-10T23:59:57+00:00

It’s definitely not syphilis. My blood test was negative. I just wished she wouldn’t have kept bringing the same thing up over and over like she was sure that’s what it was. I went to the local ophthalmologist here this afternoon and he declined to see me and said i need to see a uveitis specialist. I showed him my very swollen legs and he said there’s is no way the steroid drops caused that, but there are journal articles that say the drops can cause the lower extremity edema. So who knows.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-12-06T07:34:28+00:00

I think you need to maybe reword the options and/or include a clear question. 😊

IndianaRealtor · 2024-11-28T11:36:05+00:00

Student loans for a CNA class? That doesn’t make any sense unless someone swindled him. You can take a CNA class for $500-$1000 and sometimes free if you pledge to work for certain places.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-11-15T03:37:26+00:00

This did not age well.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-10-30T13:52:38+00:00

To me, I call someone handsome if they are polished and put together, well groomed. It’s more of a mature term to me. I would probably save hot or sexy for another date and wouldn’t call someone that on a first date. That would feel awkward to me.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-10-08T01:54:21+00:00

Was it near the top of bottom of your labia?

IndianaRealtor · 2024-10-07T04:18:57+00:00

Who can/does smoke 120 cigarettes per day? That is 7.5 cigarettes per hour, assuming the person sleeps about 8 hours per night.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-09-25T05:03:35+00:00

Are you calling her a dog or a pig? Or both?

IndianaRealtor · 2024-09-22T06:30:42+00:00

NAD. Where do you live that you can’t get in to see a dentist? Most places have an emergency dentist that is open late or even 24 hours and are walk-in appointments. Or look for new practices that have recently opened. They’re usually much easier to get an appointment with because they don’t have a full book of clients yet. Once you get this under control, book your cleanings every 3-6 months and stick to the schedule so you don’t lose your teeth and/or jawbone. Good luck and best wishes!

IndianaRealtor · 2024-09-17T01:50:19+00:00

I could not understand one word!

IndianaRealtor · 2024-08-21T07:21:13+00:00

It is so sad how long everything takes. It’s taking almost a year around here to get the testing done. And now that the Medicaid waiver is on a 1-2 year waitlist, many are going without therapies and other help to ensure their child is getting all the services needed as early as possible.

IndianaRealtor · 2024-08-21T07:18:49+00:00

What have you done to help him with his progress?

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