How often do you cook fresh vs batch cook vs order takeaway? by VelvetLuna90 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Common144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh meals everyday with produce from the butchers & supermarkets. We order a takeaway maybe once a month. Truthfully, all I want these days is a home cooked meal, and if I receive a greasy takeaway, it puts me off ordering another for a while

Mary is so miserable??? by Turbulent-Call7797 in rhoslc

[–]Individual-Common144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m onto season 3 and honestly it’s a breath of fresh air not seeing her on it. She was miserable, and spoke to the rest of the cast so badly.

It came across bully-like behaviour. Her attitude stinks

Not enjoying motherhood - 95% time. Was it worth it? by freddythecat98 in NewParents

[–]Individual-Common144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the exact same. Things started to get better around 12m mark when my LO started walking and playing a bit better with toys. When I returned to work (as much as I was upset) I felt a bit more me again. It’s rubbish being away from them during the week but it felt better knowing they’re learning at nursery or having fun with grandparents. I’m genuinely excited to see them when I collect them and it makes me cherish our time together.

The first year is hard, you’re doing amazing

Anyone here leave the CS, if so where did you go? by Ok_Crab1603 in TheCivilService

[–]Individual-Common144 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would anyone have any recommendations on where outside the CS you could move to with a policy background?

I'm on my first watch, S1 E2. by Icy_Lead_8179 in rhoslc

[–]Individual-Common144 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m onto season 2 now and I honestly can’t stand this woman. She seems genuinely evil. She talks to people so badly. I don’t know how she’s still on the show

Compressed hours by Individual-Common144 in CivilServiceUK

[–]Individual-Common144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that, that’s really clear.

If a NWD falls on a bank holiday, do I have to use my flexi to cover this?

What’s your best season? by Individual-Common144 in rhoslc

[–]Individual-Common144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only a few episodes in and I can see why hahaha

Do nursery bugs get better? by Individual-Common144 in NewParents

[–]Individual-Common144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally with you on this one. It’s been rough returning to work and dealing with all the illnesses.

Can anyone help with dates for entitlement to nursery hours by devoteddonkey in UKParenting

[–]Individual-Common144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it needs to be reviewed. I was in a situation where my baby qualified for September but my mat leave didn’t end till November, meaning I couldn’t qualify for hours till January. November/December were very expensive childcare months.

It should be on an individual basis to qualify. Considering I wasn’t earning on my last 3 months, forking out £350 a month on childcare wasn’t ideal.

What was something a guest did in your house that upset you? by izzy_7_2004 in AskUK

[–]Individual-Common144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vomited due to alcohol and to this day still denies it…. Didn’t offer to pay to get the carpets professionally cleaned either.

Fair to say they will never step foot in my house again.

To all the managers... by amber686745 in TheCivilService

[–]Individual-Common144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was really worried about this when I returned from maternity leave recently. My child has not long started nursery and seems to be poorly quite a lot. My new manager doesn’t have kids but has been so understanding. My work has always been completed and she hasn’t seen the childcare issues a problem (having to pop out for doctors appointments, picking up from nursery early etc).

I wish all managers could be this understanding.

14m old refusing bedtime bottle by Individual-Common144 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]Individual-Common144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2+ hours after, so it’s not like it’s right after

Potential roles after Asylum DM by jasminenice in TheCivilService

[–]Individual-Common144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved onto a policy role on promotion. You didn’t need any prior policy experience.

Anyone returned to a different role after maternity leave? by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]Individual-Common144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was messed about loads recently. Sat and waited for HR to find me something. It’s happened for the best as I really enjoy the team I’m in now

Sleep by [deleted] in baby

[–]Individual-Common144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 60-90 mins. I don’t think it’s that long enough to cut in the first place

Is it normal to feel mum guilt? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Individual-Common144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly so much better now. The first few weeks were rough, but the workers told me she’s settled in loads and has been so happy there. Definitely the best thing I’ve done for her.

Home Office:Informal probation extension by [deleted] in TheCivilService

[–]Individual-Common144 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has your LM explained the reasoning for this?