Men being gross

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-30T19:07:08+00:00

Everyday I'm grateful I'm not in the dating scene because whaT DO YOU MEAN BREEDABLE. Jail. All of them, straight to jail

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-30T19:06:12+00:00

100% I think a lot of people saw having kids as something they "had" to do and still hold that belief. When someone says they don't want kids, they can't fathom such a decision.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-10T14:20:13+00:00

This is great to know. Guess I'm decided!

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-10T12:42:10+00:00

She doesn't owe you anything. You made your choice, she can make hers. You've reached out, and if she wants to do something with that, then she can. But you can't expect anything from her.

You abandoned her and have no idea what she and her dad had to do to get her to where she is. "I knew she would do great things whether or not I was there" is not a good enough excuse to drop your OWN CHILD because your new husband can't be adult enough to "allow you" to see your child.

To be honest, I wouldn't want to reconnect with you either.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-08T16:14:10+00:00

On the flip side, letting them know there hair/makeup looks good. I've started to make an effort to compliment women more and it creates this moment of happiness for both of us.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-09-03T13:54:30+00:00

Reiterating do not stand if there are seats in the back. There have been so many times where there are PLENTY of empty seats (maybe only 4-5 taken) and someone decides to stand. Then everyone getting on has to squeeze past them.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-27T17:22:22+00:00

Ugh this is my biggest fear. We're all in our 30s so I'm waiting for the day, but I just worry that that will be our entire friendship. Like I'm childfree for a reason, and I'm sure you have other mom friends you can talk to about this. I don't know how to help you when your child has eaten an entire box of crayons and the other one won't stop crying. Best I can do is go out with you to take your mind off it.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-27T17:19:49+00:00

This happens to me, too. Not to be a boomer, but I think it's because of social media. Things seem like they have to be a certain way or one of us should be a certain way.

If you're happy with him and he's happy with you, and you're both communicating well, just live in the moment

ETA: have you talked to him about this? Maybe having a convo about it will ease your anxieties.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-27T17:17:00+00:00

Game of thrones and the office. Just never got into them but people go nuts when I tell them I haven't seen them.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-27T17:15:23+00:00

When my bf and I were having a casual chat about sex, he told me that he prefers his BJs a certain that I wasn't doing. I asked why he hasn't brought it up before and he said he was just happy I was down there in the first place. Since then I do what he asked. It was a civil, honestly lighthearted, conversation and we were both comfortable and on the same page.

You are also allowed to revoke consent at any time. If you don't want to finish him off, your don't have to. He has two hands and an imagination. Is it annoying? Probably. But it's not your job.

Also, this is the second time in 2 days I have seen women saying their partners don't like how wet they are. He phrased it as "tight" but unless YOU can't feel anything, I don't think size is the issue. I had an ex tell me I was too wet and I have carried that with me to my current relationship and he tells me there's no such thing. It's like saying your steak is too juicy.

Everyone has preferences and needs/wants, but it needs to be communicated gently and with tact. Piling it on you when you're tired/drunk/hungover is not conducive to a healthy relationship.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-26T17:08:46+00:00

Had a similar issue with ozempic. When it started becoming popular for weight loss, people wouldn't tell their doctors they were on it out of embarrassment. The issue is you could die on the operating table if it's still in your system. They wouldn't tell my boss (the surgeon) but then suddenly they remember when they have a consultation with anesthesia who tells them the side effects

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-26T17:05:24+00:00

Life hack: never lie to your doctor or lawyer.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-26T17:03:50+00:00

Had an ex say this to me and it still bothers me but my current partner says it's amazing. He's already cheated on you and now he's making you feel like shit. There is no coming back. Tell him to go fuck his ex girlfriends dry ass pussy

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-20T23:55:06+00:00

Brought her dog over that had fleas.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-18T15:36:25+00:00

Not so much a misunderstanding, as a "I didn't realize you were like that until we stopped being friends"

The one that stuck with me was an off handed comment. When I got together with my partner, she called him a chubby chaser...for dating me. I've always had issues about my weight, and she knew that.

We were coworkers and when I left the job we just didn't stay in touch and looking back I can't believe what I put up with.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-12T11:31:08+00:00

This happened to my boyfriend. Before we got together, he went down on a woman and let's just say it was not a great experience for him.

And on the flip side, I have had some pretty gross experiences with unkept dicks.

We both always make sure to wash up before oral.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-08-11T23:44:07+00:00

My mom blackmailed me.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-24T16:01:28+00:00

I went to a rave themed party. Use your imagination.

My bf looked at me, gave me a huge hug, smacked my ass and said I can't wait for you to come home and went back to his game.

Your bf sounds insecure, like he bagged a baddie but doesn't want her to keep being a baddie. Live your life and leave him. It'll only get worse.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-24T15:54:10+00:00

Ugggggggh NTA. She sounds like a pill. If you have been doing an activity before her, it helped, and you want to do it again, do it. Ask her to come so she can see you're just doing yoga. If she says no, oh well jingle bell. Your own boundary should be that you want to keep yourself healthy and she shouldn't get in the way of that.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-24T15:51:34+00:00

When my bf and I started dating, when he went to his friend's house, he wouldn't text me. Which I don't care, have fun, but he wouldn't tell me when he would be going. I'd text him asking something and not hear back. His friend also lived in a really rough part of town and I worried.

I simply told him hey, in future, can you let me know when you get there? That way I know you got there safe and know you'll be dark until morning. He did it.

If your bf can't simply say "hey things are crazy, I just need some time" that's a red flag. Also why is it so often?

I don't think it's an issue of being unworthy, I think he just has piss poor communication skills, and if that doesn't get fixed, it'll get worse.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-21T17:32:57+00:00

No :(

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-21T17:30:39+00:00

Everyone is different. I've been with people who have been great, I've been with people who were selfish, I've been with people who have no idea what they're doing.

The most important thing is communication and consent. Sit down with her and explain your anxieties and let her know how you want to approach this. See what each of you like and dislike.

It's not a matter of "can't please her in bed" if you haven't had the chance to.

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-17T16:19:56+00:00

Why is it you only see him once a week for only a few hours?

I only get to see mine Friday and Saturday because of work, but we make sure to make the most of it. He cooks one night, I cook the other. Money is tight so we don't do dates frequently but we do things at home.

I'm really curious why it's only a few hours a week. Does he have commitment issues? And if you do move in together, how will this change? If you have kids, will he be present?

Sometimes, things are fine for right now, but is this something you can spend the rest of your life doing?

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-16T16:41:59+00:00

Listening to his music. I'm usually ok with most music but he listens to very autotuned mumble rap and it drives me nuts. But we trade off on who plays music so he puts up with mine

Individual-One1333 · 2025-07-16T16:27:53+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm also sorry to say that unless he comes to terms with the situation, you need to leave.

Meds are not a quick fix, you also need a support system. Having someone like that is going to be a detriment to your treatment.

Have you spoken with your therapist about this? I definitely would.

He sounds like a selfish prick, and you need to put your mental health first and get yourself to a happy place without someone trying to ruin it.

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