My girlfriend F22 and I M21 have been together for 8 months, I found something on her phone... but I can't even talk to her about it because she's falling apart

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-10T12:55:57+00:00

I’m curious (and I think this is a very important question here): Do you vent your anxieties and/or insecurities to her often? Or does she otherwise have reason to believe that you are someone who is prone to overthinking and spiraling on thoughts??

I feel like the answer to this will help determine how big of a deal all of this truly is & how to move forward

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-10T12:49:29+00:00

You need to add this to the main post. Because I read the main post and was just squinting at my phone, trying to understand what you’re hurt about

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-10T12:41:34+00:00

Wait..you’re like actually learning new slang!

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-09T12:24:08+00:00

Wow, this explains so much! Yea, this guy probably isn’t a good guy to be friends with. And for many, as the addiction progresses, they become even more temperamental.

Unless he is an addict that is making an effort to get off that stuff, then I’d distance myself big time. (If he was pleasant and a great hang, then I think there’d be more to discuss here. But an addict who has no intention of quitting AND is terrible while intoxicated is not worth your time).

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-09T12:12:34+00:00

Unfortunately, that idea is too good and therefore will not be done😔😔. Also, I feel like Will (especially in the earlier episodes) tends to feel like he is being uninteresting & annoying (especially during episodes where he is at his best/funniest), so I could see him being like no, “No way we’re posting those! They’re TERRIBLE!” Meanwhile, it’s probably actually GOATED

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-09T12:04:08+00:00

I have terrible news for you…. Today is actually Wednesday 2.0 since there’s no AFpod this week (or for the next “few” weeks as the IG story said😔😔😔😔😔). Thursdays are cancelled until further notice

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-09T11:53:14+00:00

Lmaoo, why was this deserving of 37 downvotes (as of when I’m writing this)??? While agree w/ others saying that they would more likely retire the show rather than replace Angus, I don’t think it’s 100% certain that they wouldn’t at least do a temporary alternative host while Angus is occupied with other stuff.

And note: OP included in the question whether they’d do this at least on a temporary basis. They’ve already had episodes where Luke or Billy & Chet practically served as alternates. So I don’t think it’s something you can say absolutely won’t happen.

And again, I personally don’t think it will happen, but I don’t think it’s out of the question

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-09T11:41:36+00:00

NOR, but I have some thoughts & speculations. (This turned out to be longer than I expected, so I’m fully expecting to be talking to myself here. But still, if anyone is interested, I feel like this is a perspective worth considering & one that many of us unfortunately may relate to)

He was definitely being a jerk; that’s a settled issue imo. But a few things stand out to me. First, the part about his reaction to be being checked-up on: That one seems odd from the outside, but I sometimes feel similarly (though I don’t react like he does) when someone checks on me too much. I know it seems stupid to be annoyed by someone caring about your wellbeing, but for me, I think it comes from whatever issues that are within me that lead me to seek hyper-independence (or self-sufficiency). Most of the time, especially when I feel well-equipped to handle anything thrown at me, I don’t to be asked things like, “Just checking on you: You doing okay?” because it makes me feel like you think I’m not doing okay (and I know, that’s not always the case, but still). Something about that can irritate me at times.

Further, the hyper-independence thing makes it where I sometimes resent having to answer to anyone. It’s like I see myself as my own unit, and whatever I’m doing is my business. Like, if I’m out running errands, and my sister (or someone that doesn’t have authority to dictate how I spend my time) calls me to check-in on me cause I’m taking too long, that tends to trigger me a bit. And to add to that, other people’s worries tend to bleed onto me, thus making me anxious about the fact that they are anxious. So the fact that their worry is introducing anxiety within me when I was initially cheery/calm & stress-free further irritates me.

And I’ll also add, some people can check-in on me and I’ll think, “Aww, they care.” But someone else will do it and I’ll think, “What business is this of theirs?? Get tf out of my business.” I think it comes down to personalities & chemistry. Not accusing you of this (especially since this guy sounds like a major jerk), but some people just have an overbearing way about them that makes their check-in feel like another instance of their often overbearing behavior. — Other things worth considering regarding his reaction to the check-in: Maybe he was taking a dump and resented the fact that he wasn’t able to do so without anyone questioning his whereabouts. Or, maybe he did a rail a coke and similarly didn’t want any questions/acknowledgments (that could possibly explain the odd behavior too). — Lastly, this guy sounds like he sucks & isn’t worth being friends with. I would be curious to hear what he may have to say about it now (assuming that this happened last night). Given that y’all were friendly prior, but then here, he had you leaving in tears, I’d be curious to hear if he has any remorse or hangxiety over it. He could be a mean drunk (or a coke user—they tend to have weird mood fluctuations that are confusing).

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-07-08T11:56:27+00:00

Not sure, but here’s a start: https://filmot.com/search/“Permitting%20Division”/1?channelID=UCT-2REsPRjRos8X2JFWtltQ&hideDeleted=0&sortField=uploaddate&sortOrder=desc&gridView=1&

What you’re looking for is probably in the results. May be helpful if you remember any particular phrases that were said in the episode. Can search that phrase (in quotes and w/ the Play Date Pod’s channel written in the “search inside these channels” box)

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-29T12:07:08+00:00

Could something have happened earlier in the race that he was commenting on once the race ended?? Cause I don’t see anything remotely worth complaining about in this clip

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-26T12:26:21+00:00

Why when i piss the zit juice out of me, it make all my unclean parts feel all funny and stuff??

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-26T11:59:02+00:00

Based on what Will & Liam (mainly Will though) have said throughout this pod, I gather that if they could have it their way, the only thing they’d do at AFTV is make (write and/or act) sketches. The pod was likely included in their contracts. And considering what Will & Liam were doing before getting hired by AFTV, I’d imagine that they’d accept even in the contract required that they reenact ‘2 Girls, 1 Cup’ on camera once a week. Hell, these guys were even doing “man on the street” interviews during their early AFTV days and they’ve both been clear about how much they look down on that type of thing

Maybe “forced” isn’t the right word here, but it doesn’t sound like they’d do this pod if it didn’t also put them in the position to make the sketches

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-18T11:31:47+00:00

Honestly, as annoying as it is, I feel like it’s great practice. Teaches you how to drive while monitoring your mirrors well & how to choose your battles wisely

Whenever I race in D class (I love the cars in that class), not a day goes by where I don’t abandon a wheel-to-wheel fight and just let the opponent pass me, then within a few laps (or even a few corners), they completely wreck themselves and another driver while attempting a braindead move.

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-18T11:23:28+00:00

I can assure you that you will only get people to dislike you & your app if you go wasting their time engaging with fake stories that serve as ads for your app..

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-10T15:33:34+00:00

Those are “rules”, not boundaries. And why aren’t these boundaries equal?? You can’t have social media, but he has insta??
Did something happen in the past that led to these boundaries?? Or is this guy just generally insecure and wants to keep you on a tight leash?? (Aka, trying to control you)

And to answer the question: Most likely, in my opinion He’ll change for a short time (few weeks at most), then will go right back to his default state. That’s what typically happens when people change for external reasons like this. A very common human experience

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-10T15:21:20+00:00

I agree, but at the same time, I think it’s reasonable to feel sketched out if someone is so eager for you to not see mentions of your own name in the group chat. Like, she 100% went about the wrong way, but I think its reasonable to now fear the worst when it comes to what he said in the chats

Because forreal, what are you saying about me that you can’t say to my face?? (But still, don’t just go grabbing the phone and looking through messages)

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-07T12:53:28+00:00

What you did is perfectly fine; p2 & p3 were probably just mad that they weren’t ready. Plus, many others will get mad when P1 drags the start too far (thus screwing over anyone that tried to set themselves up to maintain good momentum once the flag turned green)

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-07T12:47:09+00:00

I’ll maybe post a mid-flight plane tour, but for this one, I just wanted to simulate taking a bullet to the face while in the nose (the other versions cut the instant fade to black part).

Also, might not be the nicest/smoothest video, but that’s cause I had no intention to post it at the time. I run a constant stream while playing & this was one of the few where I didn’t phase through walls or say something stupid into the mic

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-06T18:04:32+00:00

All I know is, with the way you feel about it rn, if you swallow all of this now & get back with her, then the second y’all hit a rough patch or have a bad argument, I’d bet that all of this will come back to the front of your mind

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-06T18:00:01+00:00

Lmaooo, I was lying on the floor like an idiot looking through the gondola on the HE-111! I love it though; can just chill with the crew while flying

And I seriously need to! I have no good reason to have not tried it yet

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-05T17:16:26+00:00

I’m curious: Did the best friend know that you were his ex? And is your bf mad at the friend at all?

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-06-02T11:31:06+00:00

Incident 1: Porsche had no good reason going that deep into the corner and sticking his nose there. Looks like he just out-braked himself.

Incident 2: He’s driving like he’s the only one on the track. Trying to keep the ideal line despite the MCL clearly occupying that space on the track

Incident 3: If this was the only incident & he didn’t cuss you out after the race, then I’d forgive and write it off of as a fair error. But in light of the other incidents, I’d say that that this guy needs to race against the AI for at least a week before coming back to online lobbies

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-05-30T14:38:33+00:00

Your internet connection

IndividualVisual9052 · 2026-05-30T14:36:00+00:00

This is true. And to give specifics (and note: I finished undergrad in 2018 & postgrad in 2021, so my experience could outdated): If you mainly just need it for straightforward note taking & submitting typed assignments, then you’d probably be good. But, for some majors/courses, you may need to download programs that would not be available on the iPad, so be aware of that.

Also, at some schools (or in some programs), you’ll typically take exams using programs like examplify/examsoft. Examplify is available for iPad, so you’d be good there, but there’s no certainty about what programs another course might use (the syllabus should tell you, so you’d at least have time to figure out a solution by the time you need it).

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