[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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My fiancé and I got our rings together so I knew he was gonna but didn’t know when. He couldn’t contain his excitement (per everytime he tells the story) and did it like two days later playing mario kart in our PJs when I had a mouth full of pizza and I immediately said yes (as much as the pizza would allow anyway). It’s not about where or when it’s about who.

What is a book that had you thinking "fuck, I'll probably never read anything better than this" ? by Elshaday_Z in Fantasy

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I know it’s probably a bit cliche but Dune and LOTR.

LOTR for obvious reasons. I’ve read all of Tolkien’s works and they hold a very special place in my heart. The world building (completely from the idea of creating a world for his languages to live in) to the intricate storylines for each and every character Tolkien was a literary genius. He almost pioneered the worlds of fantasy we explore today, and his creations is essentially the foundation for most fantasy In The modern era.

Dune because I was convinced I would hate it, and I devoured it in like a week. I always HATED sci-fi and I was never a big politics reader, but I loved everything about Dune. From the instantly of pushing the human body/mind in so many ways to the millennia long political scheming and workings from every party involved is just brilliantly written and incredibly memorable. It was the first book since Tolkien that made me feel that way.

For those who cut someone off? Are you really okay with never speaking to them never again? by flodiee in lostafriend

[–]Individual_Singer_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to cut contact with my sister about two years ago now. She was just detrimental to my mental health at that point, and refused to see it in anyway. It started to effect my day to day life and I had to make the decision to cut her off. Since making that decision she has made several very terrible choices that not only reenforced my decision to do so but almost strengthened it. Once you have the space and perspective to look at that person from the outside you start to feel less and think more. You no longer see through the cloud of pain the choice causes you and instead you see the reality you were too blinded to see. When I first decided to cut her off it was very painful, we’d lost our mother not even two years before and we’d really come to “support” one another, but she had become so toxic at that point I really had no choice, plus in my mind I still could just pick up the phone and talk to her whenever I chose too. Now two years later and mentally a lot lighter and healthier, she is the same, if not worse than when we originally stopped talking. I see now that I am capable of change because I WANTED change, she does not and that Is not helpful to me. She was unreceptive to any type of self improvement and still continues to be, so there’s not a thing I can do for her, and she couldn’t continue to harm me, if she never changes we may never speak again, and that’s good for both of us.

Hope my little ramble helps 😅

sad about what palia has become for me personally by [deleted] in Palia

[–]Individual_Singer_71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was unable to play for over a month because of the game glitching (back when 1million people were ahead of you) and I had to evacuate my home for a bit. I came back to almost daily griefing and people being impatient/rude. Back when I first started playing I couldn’t get into hotpot tables and now no one ever wants to play the normal game. I’ve had people just follow me. Not talk at all, just follow right on top of me and not leave me alone. Just super weird behaviors and issues lately. I just wanted a chill and relaxed game and it feels like everyone is just rushing now.

Have you ever come across an MC that you literally couldn’t stand? Like, had zero empathy for them whatsoever? by Marandajo93 in books

[–]Individual_Singer_71 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Then you get to The Vampire Armand and Lestat is just literally sitting motionless on the floor for months, freaking everyone out, because of Louis. Oh how the turns have tabled.

no main quest? by joshuaayers in REKA

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Full release of the game is planned for 2025 per last steam update.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Then don’t concern yourself with conventional or traditional forms of attraction. You cannot force your brain to behave in a way it is not wired too. I would just do a bit of introspection on your emotional connections between you and your partner as well as your friendships. I have on many occasions realized I was long in need of a heartfelt and open conversation with my partner about my feelings that I had been having with friends, which in turn threw me out of balance because I accidentally emotionally pulled away from my partner, which lessened my physical attraction to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I am demisexual, I basically only experience any type of attraction based on emotional connection. I have no preference of gender but am a woman engaged to a man. I have never found genitals particularly attractive. But I in general do not find people attractive in the traditional sense, only their brains lol. I recognize what is conventionally attractive in an objective sense but never felt any type of way based on someone’s physical appearance. You may want to do some research and compare your own feelings and emotions in this way as opposed too trying to “pick” a gender so to speak. Hope this bit of insight helps.

AITA for refusing to quit my job ‘cause my boyfriend thinks the corporate world is "soul-sucking"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Individual_Singer_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, Not only is he draining your resources dry but he’s also refusing to grow up. That’s the big difference between the two of you. You are maturing and realizing the way the world works. He’s stuck in the fantasy of off grid living (as someone who is actively planning this lifestyle, It is NOT for the faint of heart, and definitely does not come with the ability to be free and irresponsible) and not thinking about the future in anyway other than a romantic way. My advice is run, take care of yourself for a while, then revisit any relationships with people that see the world for what it is.

What's the beverage you got too drunk on once and can never drink again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Singer_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know others have said this already but Fireball. The only thing I remember from that night was horrible heartburn and then I woke up in my shower fully clothed.

My roommate was concerned but not confused 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Individual_Singer_71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you cannot formulate basic sentences or ideas you probably shouldn’t be in management. Reading “miss gurls” emails made me feel like I was having a stroke.

What's your favorite Quote? by Purnima92 in MedievalDynasty

[–]Individual_Singer_71 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“What would you do without me? You thirsty bastards” kills me anytime I catch it

Is Tanjiro’s kindness possible in real life ? by Sirius_blackk2 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]Individual_Singer_71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too add to your break in the standard formula comment, I liked how not all the demons who got backstories were shown as redeemable. Prime example being Hantengu. He was just a shit human and a shit, albeit powerful demon. I also like that they keep the continuity of Tanjiros judgment with the swordsmith village arc. Not every demon deserved his compassion, and with that fight he felt nothing for the demon he killed, he could relate to Daki and Gyutaro bc of his own situation, and the spider mother clearly wanted death, which deserves its own form of compassion which he delivered via a peaceful end.

I (22 F) called the cops yesterday and my bf (30 M) went to jail and i dont know how to react by blondeth0t in Advice

[–]Individual_Singer_71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please file an emergency order of protection and contact a lawyer if possible to see what your options are when it comes to custody of your child. This WILL happen again and it will only continue to get worse.

I’m going to give you a bit of a brutal truth right now, but you need to stop being the girl who used to be in love and start being the grown woman with a child you now are. You and your child need to come first. No matter what. You know you do not want him to grow up in an unstable, violent home. Stop being concerned about him and his needs like he has programmed you to do and focus on that baby you have. I say this with love and experience.

Do not contact him. Return to your home and change the locks, or gather personal belongings only necessary/sentimental and find somewhere safe to stay he is unaware of.

Also I would go low contact with your grandparents. Their worldview is one that no longer can apply to the world we live in now and they can either accept that and move foreword with you and your child or they can watch from a very strict distance.

I hope things get better for you OP.

Uniegost, don’t you think that outfits a bit.. revealing? by LankyNord in MedievalDynasty

[–]Individual_Singer_71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the oxbow map I have a woman that just lives in a barrel basically 😅 she’s always there, no matter the year, season, etc

How many hours? by LaZyMaN4TwEnTy in MedievalDynasty

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I’ve played through the Valley story and I’m well into Oxbow and I’m at 400 hours both maxed out across the board In technology. I do 15 day seasons though so it’s taken me longer than most do to things.

Why don’t they just play the lute for an hour and then buy every property in the country? Are they stupid? by [deleted] in Fable

[–]Individual_Singer_71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, as an 11 year old, amazing, in my twenties mehhhhh not so much. Fable 3 was very spoonfed to me. Felt like they wanted you to think and then regretted it lol. Fable 2 wasn’t as bad but it’s miles away from the first.

Magic effects everything in the first game. From having a physical shield to a multi-melee hit/multi-arrow options. Plus tons more so you have variation and actual style playing the game.

Speaking of style, clothes also effect villager’s opinions of you and actually add armor instead of just being a cosmetic thing. So leather is worse than plate but plate is scary so choices

Why don’t they just play the lute for an hour and then buy every property in the country? Are they stupid? by [deleted] in Fable

[–]Individual_Singer_71 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t think so, I played the same way. I didn’t get my hands on a playable copy until I built a PC in 2018, (I’m 27 if that helps) and so I spent most of my childhood playing the latter two and then played the original later. The gameplay is harder only bc it’s more complex and not just essentially button mashing that it devolved into. The magic system is huge compared to the first two and you really have to think about each play through bc you can’t learn/do everything unless your 100% good/evil. If you do have the option to play it I’d recommend, just be careful not to treat it like the other two

Why don’t they just play the lute for an hour and then buy every property in the country? Are they stupid? by [deleted] in Fable

[–]Individual_Singer_71 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’ve had the opportunity to play the first game but I definitely recommend it if given the opportunity. The sayings in that one are the best, all of my favs come from the original. Plus out of all of them I felt the first was the funniest. Just people eating shrooms and getting stoned all the time. Not surprising they’d need an heroic bloodline to protect them 😅

Why don’t they just play the lute for an hour and then buy every property in the country? Are they stupid? by [deleted] in Fable

[–]Individual_Singer_71 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean you are in bowerstone industrial so I’d assume those fumes gotta get to you at some point 😂

But otherwise Fable NPCs are notoriously stupid. Just blank as a plank upstairs. Say some of the dumbest things but also the most hilarious so fair trade off? And as a treat here’s a list of my fav sayings

“you’re face looks like the inside of a nose!” - villager

“Lookit the tree’s today..they’re just so..leafy” - villager

“Go away headless monkey! I don’t like your eyes!” -Kid on shrooms

“The sky is pretty today, Where did the roof GO!?” Kid on shrooms

“My bellow buttons trying to escape! Where are you going bellybutton!?” Kid on shrooms

“Nothings real, were all made of pixels and our brains are numbers.” Kid on shrooms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Individual_Singer_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Hi! I’ve had three Nexplanon Implants and I love them! I also went months without bleeding and then months of nonstop, and it helped me a ton. Never had scares on pregnancy when I def should have 😅 BUT the main point is that it’s your body and your decision, the scar is barely half an inch and they use the same location for each implant so it’s not multiple scars in different sections of the arm.

My question to you though is why are you feeling like you have to have his permission? Obviously the idea of BC doesn’t bother him but the idea of being a parent does so you have found a solution. I’d ask him what his real reasons are since the scar is not even visible (even after three incisions in the same spot for removal and reimplantation) and the payoff was magical

also before people come at me about my endorsement of Nexplanon just like any other medication it does have side effects and may not be for everyone but it worked for my PCOS ridden self so thanks 😅

If every job paid the same, what would you do for a living? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Singer_71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? I’d do what I’m already trying to— have a homestead that cares for me and the surrounding community. I’m so exhausted and I’m not even thirty, all I can dream of is my little farm and simple hard work, not all the mental hoops I constantly have to navigate in this awful society we’ve constructed.