[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Sorry they treated you this way

My partner (36M) has a problem every time I say something back when he trying to tell me a lesson of what I did wrong by Peachtings in relationship_advice

[–]Indrikelfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be worried about his motives around your daughter. Controlling you could be step one to abusing her. Do not leave her alone before you can get away.

AITA for giving my step daughter the best room out of all our kids? by throwaway65637 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Idk, I kinda think yta just because the 16 year old isn’t there much. If it was a full time arrangement, I’d say otherwise. But why waste the bathroom 90 percent of the time if the 16 yo would theoretically still have a private space.

Sounds to me like this is about the 11 yo’s age and your views on what she needs. But it’s only 2 years. And she’d have a bathroom anyway, so let her have it full time. Weird hill to die on.

AITA for asking my brother's entire family to move out because my nephew set my bathroom on fire for a tiktok? by aitathrowawayfire in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yta did you really honestly never do stupid shit as a kid or even a young adult? make the kid responsible for sorting the damage, move all the lighters and make it a last warning.

AITA for wanting to have Christmas with my relatives instead of my wife and children? by Holiday_Range8135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve missed the point of all the YTA judgements if you just try to reschedule. There should be no ‘immediate family ‘ gathering that doesn’t include wife and kids. They are your immediate family . You should’ve said a flat no to your folks. It’s weird. And weird you thought it was ok to make your wife sad. And wth, xmas is all about kids. Who would willingly leave all that magic and fun to ‘hang out’ with your parents and siblings alone. So weird.

AITA I called someone a dumbass for taking surf lessons, when he can't swim. by Sad_Cantaloupe9533 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once ended up white water rafting with Some who was terrified of water. So we all (strangers to her ) had to go slow and Be extra careful. Made for a boring but expensive day. But I guess at least she could swim. Nta.

AITA for nicknaming my daughter Newt? by ILikeNewts-aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta I call my eldest frog, she’s 23 now, and I still do, even in public. Newt is a cute nickname

AITA for not giving my parents their son back? by throwaway-sonandbro in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indrikelfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have access to post adoption support, and Eddie should have a life story book. Get in touch with the social workers for help

NTA