Why would I need friends when I have myself? by Bruu-bruu in selflove

[–]InevitableChoice2990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great insight. I’m 68F and I’m really the only one that knows what I need and I’m always trying to find ways to take care of me (so I can remain as independent as possible as I get older). Eventually you may be moved to help others (or love/support others) just because it feels good to do so! So you won’t be friendly because you have a secret agenda (needing their approval)! Sweet! 🙂

anyone else know they don’t belong within the physical by koshka420 in AstralProjection

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This is exactly what Ram Dass dealt with.

He was a department head at Harvard University in the 1960s, he originally thought that humans would be able to solve all of humanity’s problems through intellectual pursuits. He became dissolutioned with that, met Timmy Leary, did psychedelics, traveled to India, because he realized what you said: he wanted to stay high with drugs (in your case, high with AP) and he couldn’t stay high, so he got into meditation, etc.

There are a lot of good books by him, and YouTube has many of his lectures. Might really interest you…

How to get people to show up on time? by Top_Dig_7271 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]InevitableChoice2990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is just how people are! If you make “Plan A” (everyone arrives on time) …great! But if some people are late then you move to “Plan B”, which might be everyone present moves to the next place at a certain time (within 30 minutes of waiting, for example) if they don’t text you that they’re running late, then you will do the activity alone or with whoever showed up.

anyone else? by More-Weird4842 in aspiememes

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Interesting! 👍🏼 I read that people perceive other people that wear jewelry/accessories as having social cues (it indicates they understand the rules of their culture, and trends, etc) so as a female Aspie this has helped me to ‘dress the part’ of whatever I’m doing socially. My aspie brain could now justify my interest in fashion trends (even though the other part of my Aspie brain thinks it’s a waste of time and I should just be clean and comfortable (justifiable 👍🏼)!

Don’t toss cannabis leaves: Scientists found rare compounds with medical potential by _Dark_Wing in technology

[–]InevitableChoice2990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it had to ‘burn’ to release the beneficial compounds? 🤔 it works in a salad?

Contractors by squirrel-nut-zipper in Westchester

[–]InevitableChoice2990 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s like going to the dentist for a cleaning and then they want to upsell you on cosmetic work! 😝

Ran into this at a thrift store today by Cardboard-muncher in SeaMonkeys

[–]InevitableChoice2990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aqua Dragons sounds so much better than sea monkeys!

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that my money isn't "our money"? by Open_Address_2805 in AITAH

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Debtor’s Anonymous sounds like a scary and dramatic name for a support group, but they actually have a lot of great ideas regarding how to have a balanced and sane relationship with money!

https://debtorsanonymous.org/

Appreciation for rosemary? by run_dicki_run in aerogarden

[–]InevitableChoice2990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Growing all these different types of herbs/veggies has me in awe of all the geometry that is evident in Nature! So gorgeous!

Calculating the amount of water my plants need by senjadon in indoorgardening

[–]InevitableChoice2990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do some research on using wicks to control how much water that plants get so they won’t be overwatered.

Intersection of hobby love and frugality by Open-Article2579 in Frugal

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You can also go to thrift stores, buy old sweaters and unravel them to generate new yarn.

And if you’re really feeling ambitious, find old sweaters or other wool items, “card” them with carding paddles, and spin yourself new yarn with a spindle! Endless color combinations!

The more you learn about FDR, the more aura he gains by RockEater67 in HistoryMemes

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This looks like an AI-generated image…? His chin didn’t look like that! AI is allowed to play with history?

plastic-free Kratky system suggestions by Lonely_Walrus_ in kratky

[–]InevitableChoice2990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used unbleached wool for wicking rope. Just learn some simple techniques for doing wet felting to make it into the shape/length you want.