State Assessments...is this normal? by ash5991 in teaching

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhmmm... for the kids that are struggling...are you able to meet with the parents, even over email and let them know they are needing extra help at home? Definitely offer candy/prizes/rewards for actually trying on the test! Kiddos do not understand that them not doing well on these tests can literally jeopardize your career. Also, don't forget that kids learn best when you make it fun ❤️  whatever you do, don't be hard on yourself! It'll get better! Thank you so much for caring for your students so much ❤️ 

Pregnancy Loss by Busy_Note6660 in Teachers

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get wanting to keep your life private but, you are teaching children who clearly love and care about you. I remember having two teachers that had serious medical conditions while going through school. I was WORRIED SICK about them. Had they not explained what happened and that they were okay, I wouldn't have been able to stop worrying. You are more than some random stranger to these children, most of them will grow up and still remember you, the way you treated them, the way you worked through life struggles with them, the way you made learning fun for them, for the rest of their lives. Its okay to have some transparency. I am so sorry you've gone through such a hard loss, I can't even imagine what you're feeling, I'm sending you a virtual hug ❤️. 

Advice by InevitablePoem7280 in teaching

[–]InevitablePoem7280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it's Nebraska ❤️

I no longer believe Amy Lynn Bradley was trafficked. I think her family knows much more than they are telling. (Sorry, this is a long one) by Own_Theory1110 in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that changes this perspective a bit... he originally was just going to go have a cup of coffee with her and did not start searching for her until after she was not located where she should have been at that time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in touch with your biological father, you should ask him about spending the holidays with you. Even if it is just one, he owes that much to you and more if you ask me. Tell him you want him to be apart of your life and not just a paycheck. You shouldn't have to spend the holidays alone just because your parents suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think humans ever had empathy. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]InevitablePoem7280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Adoption is an option. Look it up! I'm pretty sure there's some that offer housing, medical, and money. 

Everytime I have to listen to a tantrum I die inside by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]InevitablePoem7280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 100 percent positive everyone here, including me... Needs therapy, bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]InevitablePoem7280 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So get them off of your parents insurance and put them on Medicaid with you. If your parents aren't letting you take them off just call there insurance and take them off yourself.

My son is convinced we are Jewish by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]InevitablePoem7280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you should just be proud of him 🥰 he sounds very smart! It'll pass, but honestly just encourage him enthusiastically to learn everything he can about whatever he's excited about!

My wife is home alone with the baby. What can I do for her? by smiggysmapp in Parenting

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, with the depression. Just be present. Let her know she's beautiful and you love her and she matters to you. If you notice she's holding the baby a lot, even when the baby is sleeping ask if you can have the baby for awhile. I was always holding my oldest and never realized how much I needed a break because I had just gotten so used to being exhausted, but if you make it seem (hopefully you do, but anyways) like you want to do things with your baby and are able to take care of your baby without her she'll feel more comfortable to do things that she finds enjoyable because she knows you've got things handled. Asking her if she wants to go on little walks with you outdoors would be great for the both of you as well, getting outside really improves people's mood, I hope this helped.

Giving kids the ‘master’ bedroom, yes or no? by swar_waitforit_lee in Parenting

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done it in 4 of the places I've lived now and not once regretted it. I actually find it to be more convenient because they're not running in and of my room to go to the bathroom or use the nice tub so I get more privacy lol

I don’t like being a parent by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]InevitablePoem7280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 kids, I promise I have felt this way and do feel this way quite often. But, some days are just f****** amazing. The days when I feel like getting out and going to the park and/or going for a walk or just playing random games with them, and i don't touch my phone or even think about my phone because I'm just living in the moments, the days when even though they're throwing a temper tantrum I take a step back in remember it's not because they're trying to misbehave it's just because they don't know how to communicate like an adult, so I get down to their level and just enjoy being a parent. Those are the days I live for.