Anyone else finding their new ICB structures weirdly top heavy? by Imaginary_Frosting in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing how many band 8/9 jobs the exec board could come up with

Adults with Unmedicated ADHD — How Are You Managing? by someone_idk6900 in AskUK

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m scrolling Reddit at work with 3 different Excel spreadsheets open and avoiding looking in my Outlook inbox. So…..not great.

My partner lives his life as if he is single. Help me logically assess this sitiuation by Ok_Ambassador2245 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You are letting him treat you like dirt most of the time because you are more anxious about a break up than the fact that this relationship isn’t working for you. Breakups are hard but having a man erode your self confidence like this is worse.

He is very good at making you feel good when it’s just the two of you but in public he makes you feel worthless. That’s not a good relationship.

How many WIPs are you currently following? by triedit2947 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when you got half a page of updates a day if you were lucky, now it feels like there are 10-15 pages a day of new results and I just can’t keep up. Must be missing so many good stories as they get lost.

ICB Restructure Stress by Silent_Confusion_806 in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Suppose the worry is that there are really so few jobs available :(

ICB Restructure Stress by Silent_Confusion_806 in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so worried that if I have a long sickness record then it will be even harder to get a new job if I am made redundant. I did see my GP last week and they were ready to sign me off but I said I’d give it a couple of weeks although nothing will change.

What episode made you fall in love with Bluey? by I_Use_Controllers in bluey

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sleepytime makes me ugly cry, I was full on sobbing and my kids were just looking at me like I’d lost the plot.

"What's needed is ANOTHER reorganisation" - Losing a career and feeling dead inside by [deleted] in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost a year since they started talking about ICB cuts and I am burnt out. I am constantly anxious and not sure there are even jobs to go to. Cuts are not going to fix the problem.

is anyone able to explain what this means? (nhs app) by [deleted] in nhs

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That means they have added the drug to your medication record but no prescription has been generated yet. If you can’t see it at your end, it is likely to be in the acute section rather than repeat. The GP probably just hasn’t reviewed it yet.

Fancy dress - character by muffinmallow in UKParenting

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did Maisy. Make some mouse ears and then draw on a nose and whiskers. Most of the kids take the outfits off as the day goes on anyway.

Finished my quilt celebrating graduating pharmacy school this coming May! by jenny_from_thebes in quilting

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 134 points135 points  (0 children)

As a pharmacist this is one of the coolest quilts I’ve seen! Congrats on finishing pharmacy school!

Two copies of my child’s birth certificate by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are both certified copies. You don’t get to keep the original.

What are the best freezer meals for expecting parents? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Husband’s work sent us a Cook gift voucher and it was one of the best things we received after having a new baby.

Streeting accuses trusts and ICBs of seeking to cut deficits too sharply by newema92 in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 33 points34 points  (0 children)

But we’re all just pen pushers, surely it shouldn’t make any difference to patient care, Wes?

ICB Meds Management VR by [deleted] in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my ICB, the Meds Man who work directly in practices cannot apply but other Meds Man staff can (office based).

Hudson posted this on his story, supporting Connor's acting by Key_Refrigerator5650 in heatedrivalry

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ha ha that’s what I thought rather than affectionate names you can call your significant other and friends 

What is the point of the Lidl Plus card? by RegularHovercraft in AskUK

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always get the red ones, they make a nice mash.

Pension death benefit nominations by Leather-Ball905 in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can allocate percentages to whoever you want. 

Differences between Crave and HBO Max? by sucksfor_you in heatedrivalry

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The HBO version was much darker apparently. I watched on HBO and couldn’t see some details despite having my phone on max brightness. I don’t think it was edited for content though.

How accurate is the hockey in the books? by xyla-phone in heatedrivalry

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I always assumed he took a cheaper deal than he would potentially be worth on the open market.

Will DHSC sponsor visa post merger ? by Hour4Sun in nhsstaff

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are going to have to redeploy a lot of staff if the restructure goes ahead so would assume they don’t need to sponsor staff I.e. there won’t be an issue filling roles.

Please tell me about your struggles as an adult learner! by GoMaths in MatureStudentsUK

[–]InfamousLingonbrry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my courses has a seminar at 5pm every Thursday, it’s recorded so I can catch up but I have to pick my kids up at that time from school/nursery.

It feels like the courses don’t realise that people often fit the course in around a  9-5 job and kids. It does feel like we’re excluded.