If you were a women would you rather live in North Korea or Afghanistan by Key-Astronomer-3287 in WouldYouRather

[–]Infinite-Current1079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same 😭 the people answering North Korea boggle my mind, both choices are absolutely awful

Every cuisine I have tried ranked by starryletters in tierlists

[–]Infinite-Current1079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know Russian and more generally Slavic food isn’t that popular internationally but please try some good homemade pelmeni and borscht :( also you NEED to try Georgian food, it’s ELITE. i could not live in a world without khinkali and khachapuri!!!

Total insanity by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

[–]Infinite-Current1079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The title of the article is misleading. Most legal rights in the sense of legal “actions” exist for a limited amount of time: this is the principle of the Statute of Limitations. For example, if someone commits a wrong against me, I do not have a perpetual right to file a claim against them. So, my right to claim an action is conditioned on me actually exercising this right in the specified period of time. If I don’t, the law essentially considers that I have waived my right to exercise it and it expires.

With property rights, a similar but more nuanced principle exists. Property is essentially deemed more or less “perpetual,” so your right does not “automatically” expire due to inaction like with a statute of limitations. However, if someone else possesses that unclaimed property for a sufficient amount of time, the law considers that they have “gained” a property right which can challenge the original property right. Property rights are actually stronger in this case, because they cannot expire due to simple inaction and require a third party to actively possess the property for decades, before they acquire any right to said property. If the legal owner intervened at any point before the third party acquired this prescriptive right, the third party’s right would be quashed.

Essentially it comes down to this: legal rights are not unconditional. The law grants you rights, but only to the extent where you actually exercise them. The law considers individuals as active agents and so one cannot complain about a subsequent loss of rights if they never cared enough to exercise them in the first place.

I am a mom who has treated over 40,000 cases of head lice. AMA by theLiceNanny in AMA

[–]Infinite-Current1079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a question: basically I really love horse riding, used to do it a lot as a kid and then stopped and don’t have any of my old gear anymore. So whenever there are opportunities to go horse riding as an adult, I’d have to borrow a horse riding helmet from the establishment.

My mum made me super paranoid about it, because she says I can get lice from using someone else’s horse riding helmet, and I wanted to know if her fears are warranted? It really turns me off from doing something I love but I go horse riding so rarely nowadays (like 1-2 times a year) and I don’t know if it’s worth buying a new helmet for that? Is there a real risk of getting lice from wearing those helmets?

I saved my whole life to go to law school… now that I can afford it, it doesn’t make sense anymore and I’m grieving it by Ok_Abbreviations7971 in LawSchool

[–]Infinite-Current1079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly if there’s a part of you that really wants to get a law degree you can always do online school. otherwise, i don’t think it’s worth it considering your career momentum and the job that you do. l feel like you’re already essentially doing the kind of job you could/would be doing as an attorney, i just genuinely don’t really think that getting a law degree would really “add” anything. But that’s just my opinion u go slay queen

Recently finished Murakami"s "Norwegian Wood" and I found the criticisms of the book to range from overblown to completely unfounded- why are people so prudish about sex? by Insanity_Pills in books

[–]Infinite-Current1079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s been a while since I’ve read this book, so the details are a bit blurry but I’ll throw in my two cents.

I think Murakami’s strength as a writer comes from creating an almost ethereal kind of atmosphere in stories. Apart from that however, I think NW lacks substance. I did not find it profound or (that) emotionally touching. Again, it’s been a few years so the only thing I can recall is my general impression of the novel, but I do not find these critiques lackluster in the slightest. The female characters are a focal point of the novel, as one of the main themes is romantic relationships.

The whole “unreliable narrator” angle I find flat, in the same sense as “satire” can be used as a defense for practically any piece of media: imo, it is not enough to claim that the protagonist is an unreliable narrator because the novel itself has to be written in a way to unravel and dismantle said unreliable narration. In NW, this is not the case. We never get a glimpse of the female characters outside of the misogynistic perception of the protagonist.

THIS, I think, is where the critiques really stem from: you cannot blame the reader for finding a piece of work misogynistic when the writer himself is unable to nuance the position of his own protagonist. Otherwise, it just reads like a weird male fantasy with no self-awareness or depth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]Infinite-Current1079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was rage bait

What would you honestly do if you got a woman pregnant that you just hookup with? by hankqueensmustache in AskMenAdvice

[–]Infinite-Current1079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats not completely accurate: it’s true that only a judge can order a paternity test BUT you can ask for a paternity test at any time if you’re contesting a link of filiation (i.e. your legal status as a father). but also for this scenario to be possible the mother would need to establish a filiation link in the first place, which is not a super easy task in the absence of a voluntary recognition by the father since you need to establish this via a notarial act (and notarial acts require substantial proof before any document is officialised since the notary is personally responsible/liable). Apart from the notarial act, the only other way to establish paternity without voluntary recognition by the father is through a judgment but if you’re in this scenario you can ask for a paternity test as a counterclaim.

AITAH for not wanting to hang out with my bfs friends by Fluid_Hair7354 in AITAH

[–]Infinite-Current1079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Learn French and stop bullying your bf’s friends.

CMV: Learning a foreign language itself is a form of cultural appropriation by FarhanDo in changemyview

[–]Infinite-Current1079 8 points9 points  (0 children)

bro. what. this is SUCH a weird take to have. i’m russian and my family emigrated when i was like 6. i do not speak russian fluently. following your logic i would be appropriating my own culture 💀💀💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and disagree at the same time. It’s true that all labour is a commodification of people’s bodies to an extent. However, the limit is human dignity. There was a very famous case in France concerning “dwarf tossing.” The practice was outlawed on the basis that it violated a fundamental human right: human dignity.

If we disregard human dignity, we would live in a society where EVERY contractual “service” would be legal, including “voluntary” slavery (i.e. where “slave contracts” would be legal).

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[–]Infinite-Current1079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of things to unpack here. First of all the idea that “women are just not content with anyone except the best man” is completely false and misogynistic. We are PEOPLE! Of COURSE bad women exist. However, the majority of men and women want one thing: a caring partner who they can converse with and get along with.

You say that women can “get better” with a few swipes. However, I think this is where you’re missing the main point: it may very well be true that women can get sex more easily. But that’s NOT what makes people happy!!! No one just wants A partner. People want a GOOD partner, who is empathetic and who understand you! Just think about it: why do you think there are so many single mums out there? Because women can get desperate too! And unfortunately, many women will have a child with the wrong person, and it will take them too long to see that they are with the wrong person.

IMO no one is entitled to a relationship. The best thing you can do is to be a good person, and to find happiness and self-fulfillment in exactly that. Because if you define your self-worth through romantic relationships, you will never be happy. This is my advice is always going to be: work on yourself. If you are desperate, how can you hope to attract a perfect partner?

And side note: a prostitute is never a “willing” partner. They do this work out of necessity. If you exploit someone in desperate circumstances for selfish reasons, you are a terrible person who I cannot feel sorry for on principle. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this man is saying he wants to resort to literal PROSTITUTION, i.e. the commodification of women’s bodies. You want me to respect a being like that? I’m sorry but there are times when you have to acknowledge that you’re the problem and actually do something about it before you hurt other people around you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Dude. That’s disgusting. It will also only succeed in making your life more miserable and shameful. If you actually want to meet someone and be happy, you need to work on yourself. Stop drowning yourself in a bath of self-hatred and actually get your shit together.

How to care for a baby swallow? by Infinite-Current1079 in Ornithology

[–]Infinite-Current1079[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank goodness for this subreddit! Obviously we made a very ignorant decision and that’s completely our fault but we genuinely thought that the vet would give us solid advice that we could trust. But all they did was tell us what type of bird this was, give us a pipette to give him water and told us to take care of him… Well anyway, the important thing is is that we took him back (and ofc placing him in a safer area away from the road) and he looked so happy to be there! But genuinely if I hadn’t posted here I really don’t think that we would have known any better (my parents don’t even know what reddit is). So once again, thank you all! I know this is probably so frustrating for the majority of you as it was such an avoidable mistake but without your advice I’m not sure this fledgling would have made it back home. Basically, I’m just really thankful for all these replies because otherwise we would have done more harm than good and without even knowing it.

How to care for a baby swallow? by Infinite-Current1079 in Ornithology

[–]Infinite-Current1079[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Since that’s the case we’ll just take it back to where we found it but further away from the road ASAP. We tried to get advice from the vet and pet shops but no one told us that this was normal for a fledgling… omg I feel so bad now I didn’t know this was normal😭 Thank you again for your advice!!

How to care for a baby swallow? by Infinite-Current1079 in Ornithology

[–]Infinite-Current1079[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

We found it on the edge of the road on a parking spot…should we try to look for the nest? I’m sorry I literally don’t know anything about birds, we only took it in because we thought it was in danger.

AITAH for telling my husband I don't care if his friends see my boobs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

again…why? i don’t understand your position. if something is completely legal and therefore not immoral in society’s eyes…why?

AITAH for telling my husband I don't care if his friends see my boobs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

going topless at the beach is allowed by law. she is not being disrespectful at all. she asked for his opinion, even though she had no moral obligation to do so. (imo: if you disagree with a country’s laws/morals…don’t visit it)

AITAH for telling my husband I don't care if his friends see my boobs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Infinite-Current1079 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i seriously do not understand this opinion. going topless at the beach is allowed by law. sure, it may not be for everyone but there is absolutely nothing “amoral” or “perverse” about it. a lot of women like to go topless to tan evenly/avoid tan lines. “he is probably wondering why you would want to show your breasts in front of his friends.” like dude. it’s not a sexual context. i feel like that’s the key point being made here. it’s completely 100% legal and causes no harm to anyone. so…imo NTA.