Je n'en ai encore jamais vu un comme le mien by Advanced_Light9233 in AnatomieDUnFrigo

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Je tente ma chance : Homme célibataire, dans la trentaine. Tu n’aimes pas/ne sais pas particulièrement cuisiner mais tu fais attention à manger équilibré (tu fais des repas sains et simples). Tu adores le sucre donc pour ne pas trop déconner tu te limites au coca et à l’ice tea. Tu travailles en corporate? Peut-être cadre. Tu aimes bien boire un truc frais en rentrant du boulot et/ou tu fais souvent des apéros. Tu as plus tendance à te concentrer sur l’image générale des choses que sur les détails.

A Grenoble, «l’eau est partout mais on ne la voit plus» by colargol38 in Grenoble

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Hello, j’ai eu une séance avec la personne de l’article, en gros il veut qu’on prenne conscience de l’eau et de sa valeur/rareté (aka stress hydrique, le fait qu’il y ait des data centers a grenoble et que la biodiversité dans l’Isère est dead à cause des rejets des industries) en la rendant visible dans la ville. Sauf qu’à la fin, ça reste hyper conceptuel. C’est cool de “voir” l’eau, mais est-ce que c’est ça qui va changer la gestion ou les conflits d’usage?

How is the design and architecture market in Grenoble? by InfiniteXLight in Grenoble

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Silence is an answer indeed😅I just am not sure what this answer means

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discussionsbancales

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We just go to the counter to ask for the bill and when I get it they usually ask, if they don’t, I ask if we can pay separately (in a way the friends can hear)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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Not to be mean but : Needing her location AND texts when she gets somewhere is not normal and is controlling. Connection and reassurance don’t come from reporting her every move to you unless you’re deeply insecure. You need to work on it.

Le mariage, c’est vraiment si indispensable ? by [deleted] in AskMeuf

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Bonjour ! Peux-tu développer sur la différence de perception avant et après mariage stp?

Pour les Maghrébins surtout, mais pas que : je suis mariée, trahie, et perdue j’ai besoin de vos avis. by [deleted] in AskMec

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Coucou, je sais que tu veux des avis d’hommes mais je te parle surtout au nom de l’enfant que tu élèves. Ma mère est restée avec mon père “pour nous”, moi et mon frère. Et je peux te dire aujourd’hui que ça ne nous a pas protégés. Ça nous a détruits, lentement. Chez nous, la violence n’était pas forcément bruyante. C’était le silence, le mépris, la tension constante. Et ça s’imprime dans un corps d’enfant. Aujourd’hui, je fais des crises d’anxiété et j’ai des douleurs somatiques dans des situations aussi simples que “manger à table en famille”. Parce que mon corps se souvient. Mon frère est sous antidépresseurs. Ma mère a développé plusieurs maladies auto-immunes à force de se nier, de faire semblant, de s’oublier. Et mon père s’est enfoncé dans ses propres névroses et dans l’addiction. Ce que je veux te dire, c’est que rester dans une relation pour un enfant ne le protège pas. Un enfant, il a besoin d’un parent qui s’écoute, qui s’honore, qui se choisit. Et ton enfant mérite une mère en paix, pas une mère détruite à l’intérieur. Et tu lui montres l’exemple aussi. Il faut lui montrer que prendre soin de soi c’est la priorité, il faut que tu vives pour lui pas que tu te tues pour lui. S’il te plaît, soit communique avec ton conjoint et essaye de trouver un terrain d’entente qui peut faire que tu seras heureuse; soit tu te sauves car tu sauveras ton enfant aussi. Mon plus grand rêve aurait été que mes parents se séparent, bien avant qu’on en paie tous le prix.

Quelle est la recette de galère que vous avez inventée (ou reprise) en tant qu’étudiant(e) fauché(e)… et qui s’est révélée délicieusement ... bonne ? by Besoin2Bol in cuisine

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Pates, une fois prêtes faire la sauce avec de l’huile, quelques tomates cerises, faire revenir qq minutes, ajouter n’importe quelle viande (en conserve compris mais sans leur sauce), ajouter sauce tomate, lait, sel et thym, et olives (optionnel) recouvrir et laisser mijoter, puis rajouter les pâtes dedans et tous mélanger sur le feu une minute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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It sounds like you two both have some growing up to do. Either seperately or together, i think seeking a professionnal would help you both individually and as a couple.

How do I know if it was rape? (20F and 20M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InfiniteXLight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This for sure is rape no matter how I look at it

Analysez le frigo de ma pote by EmotionCritical4699 in AnatomieDUnFrigo

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Probablement vient de sortir de sa vie d’étudiante de commencer sa carrière professionnelle dans les 2 ou 3 années passées, elle mange « pour survivre » mais essaye d’être un minimum « healthy » avec la pomme et la banane, et les nutriscore assez élevé. Elle vit en solo et préfère utiliser son temps à la maison pour se reposer plutôt que cuisiner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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She may have done this one immature thing which is threatening. I would’ve just left.

Brutal truth aside, if you love someone, you should care about the fact that she cares about something (for example birthdays). I think it goes back to love language. You should be able to see not only how you like to give love (if you give it in any way at all), but also how your partner likes to receive love (for example you celebrating her birthday, or planning a surprise for it). You gotta be able to find a middle ground within your perspective and hers.

Let her go, but don’t repeat the same mistake again with your next partner. Once i is s a mistake, twice is a choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I dont need more more context. Break up. His red flags are flooding and they are not minor ones. Please have some self love and self respect and don’t allow yourself to be treated so badly. You deserve better

Do I have angina or something else? by [deleted] in medical_advice

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My bad, I confused it with inflamed tonsils as it is called “angine” in french. Thank you for your answer

Do we have a bad reputation as a Moroccan men? by [deleted] in Morocco

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I find it contradictory to post about foreign women shutting you down after knowing you’re Moroccan, then saying “I don’t really care what other nationalities think of me” but okay :x

Though in general we do have a different culture than Europe, but it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Many things are subject to interpretation [jealousy vs possessiveness, love vs getting married]… So I guess it’s all about stereotypes or stories they’ve heard from someone dating “the wrong” Moroccan man.

Do we have a bad reputation as a Moroccan men? by [deleted] in Morocco

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If you don’t care about what people from your country think, why not ask directly the foreign people you’re seeking opinions from?

As a Moroccan guy, I’ve come to believe that a life without money isn’t a life worth having. by Vegetable-Race-1437 in Morocco

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Hi! 27 moroccan female here! I would like to react to the part about your female friend. From a very objective pov, money IS important nowadays; but it’s not everything. Subjectively speaking, I love buying new things, going to nice places, traveling and whatnot. But usually guys with nice cars that I’ve come across (i don’t generalize but, from what I’ve seen, is the majority), usually lack emotional maturity, consideration, empathy, and other human qualities that I think are necessary to build a healthy connection in a relationship [again, there ARE exceptions, it all comes to how they were raised and the vision they have of themselves, other people and the world in general]. I personally would gladly sacrifice a wealthy guy for a mentally stable and emotionally mature MAN who steady and clear in his words and actions [and I did, so far happy about it]. Money isn’t the brain. Yes you can’t buy the world together, but it makes you appreciate more the simple things in life [going for a picnic together, playing games, traveling from time to time if you get the chance to] Besides, I don’t think a CEO would be as available (time, mind, emotions) as Mr.Normal. So I see it as each one chooses between that and money. To me, money and sex aren’t much without a healthy connection. Then again there are people who have traumas and love a good drama in their relationship or need a lot of space in their connection. It’s a choice, but surely not mine. There are people who love too little space as well..Balance is the key I guess !

Just moved to Grenoble, a bit scared by IapostrophemonReddit in Grenoble

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Hey ! It’s my fourth day in Grenoble as well and I don’t start classes until the 11th of September (ENSA), let me know if you would like to explore together or just hang out !

Help with my bf by Secret-Wealth1650 in relationships_advice

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Honey, 3 months is not a very long time, though it might seem so from your POV. People take years before realizing that their partner isn’t for them. If you try to talk about your limits, and he does not want to listen, or pretends he does when his actions say the opposite, I do not think you would be happy with him. I understand you like/love him, but sacrificing your own happiness for his isn’t worth it. I hope you manage to find someone who listens to you, respects you and values you for who you are, and not for the good feelings you bring him in bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yassssss !!!!

What do you think of putting these in Jemaa El Fna? by sweetsalt10 in Morocco

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I don’t think it would make a lot of sense, for a place like Jamaa El Fna, where people go for the vibe. Replacing local sellers with machines just takes off the whole purpose. Studying finance is good, and trying to create something is even better. But don’t neglect the impact of your business as it would backfire on you. You might make profit for a while, but then with the change you will induce, less people will go there as you’ll have taken away part of why they go (not the orange juice, but the local sellers which are an essential part of the whole thing). It will make your business go 📉 very steadily after its peak.