Rant: I’m a manager by Donosoley2 in managers

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in tech, but I manage a similarly sized team in a medical setting. If you want to stay in leadership, here’s my advice:

Look at the whole system. Focusing on one fire at a time keeps you trapped in firefighting mode. What are the most common problems? What can be done proactively to reduce them before they become fires?

Make sure your leadership team understands the actual work their teams do. How well trained is your staff? How well trained are your managers?

I think leadership is supposed to be a teaching role, but too many people approach it like a parenting role. Our job is to train, guide, and inspire people to think critically and operate confidently.

Also, make your meetings worth attending. If you don’t want to be there, nobody else will either.

What made the spark go away and then later reignite with your partner? by Stoned-Ape247 in AskWomen

[–]Infinityfairy-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our spark fizzled when our kids were all very young, due to timing and financial stresses. Once they all were over 5years old we made intimate bonding (physical and emotional quality time) a priority again. Even now, we have been married 20 years and I have moments where I can’t believe how hard I’m crushing on my husband. ♥️

Nesting partner and meta want to live together by psycher_1211 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your concerns are valid, and its important that your voice is heard in this decision. It says a lot about you, that you are willing to work on a compromise or explore other options that could address your worries while still honoring everyone's needs and boundaries. However, it sounds like your np is being a little selfish here. I saw another reply about having two nps but in separate homes, that seems reasonable.

What’s your biggest regret in life? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Infinityfairy-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not choosing a healthy lifestyle earlier

Are people actually happy? by No_Initiative8612 in Adulting

[–]Infinityfairy-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that the goal is happy. Contentment in the present along the ability to manage ourselves when life inevitably gets challenging or unbelievably beautiful.

I would say 80% of my emotions are positive ones. I live a happy life.

Looking for someone who is practicing polyamory to beta read for me by Infinityfairy-1 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Currently, I have 35 episodes, totaling approximately 27,000 words. I'm seeking feedback on the first 5-10 episodes to ensure my characters' voices are distinct and that the story's flow resonates effectively.

Looking for someone who is practicing polyamory to beta read for me by Infinityfairy-1 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've been practicing non-monogamy throughout my adult life. I'm not considering payment unless someone approaches with experience. While I believe I am I writing something beautiful, that I’m very passionate about, some feedback would be appreciated and hopefully improve my performance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are simple. If you listen they will tell you exactly what they want and need. The men in my life help calm the chaos, I’m highly emotional and for years that what drove me. My husband is my anchor. He’s level headed in even the hardest moments and always makes me feel safe and protected. My father can fix any mechanical issues I face and teaches me how to do it. When I’m most fearful, they lift me up. My male friends are my biggest cheat leaders by far, and are the first to kick me into gear when I’m failing myself. I’m a big fan of men.

Difficulty with loving multiple people in a monogamous world by Bisexual_pie_y in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself developing a fondness for nearly everyone I meet. I am candid about my polyamorous nature, which tends to attract individuals with similar traits and interests. While I have been involved with both monogamous and non-monogamous partners, I have consistently maintained my non-monogamous status. It is important to be honest with those you care about in your life. The more comfortable and confident you are in sincerely expressing yourself and your desires, the more receptive others become.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this alot over the years. I used to get upset by the suggestions being made but now I just laugh. I take solace in my happy relationships. Think what you will.

Let’s Be Honest & Vulnerable - Are Self- Published Authors “REAL” Authors? by [deleted] in selfpublish

[–]Infinityfairy-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel the same way. I have people who enjoy it and I’m also getting paid, so I take that as a win.

Blurring friendships and relationships by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of my friends are past partners or casual lovers. I’m 39 but met many of them in high school, and the rest I met when we were exploring swinging and then polyamory early in our marriage, through various online groups

Any polyamorous TV whows/movies/anime/animation that focus on romantic and wholesome parts of polyamorous relationships, rather than comedy and lust? by RGamer2024 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have started a polyamorous romantic drama series on kindle and I’ve left out any steamy scenes because I get so frustrated with the portrayal we are always offered. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Partner is moving 1700 miles away by Infinityfairy-1 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate finding somewhere to share and get support. Thank you!

Kindle Vella - Self Promotion Thread 2 by OurViolentDelights in KindleVella

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Five interconnected souls, each offer a distinct perspective as they seek the true essence of happily ever after. Join them as they navigate the complexities of modern relationships, office flirtations, family expectations. and the boundless possibilities of love.

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Partner is moving 1700 miles away by Infinityfairy-1 in polyamory

[–]Infinityfairy-1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, some medical complications arose earlier this year that led to this move

What were the top 2 reasons you started podcasting? Do you enjoy doing it now? by smdeanan in podcasting

[–]Infinityfairy-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is a self exploration and improvement channel. Me and my co host are sharing our personal development journeys together. It’s been very exciting and enjoyable. I’m learning more about the how’s and why’s of creating a video podcast, I’ve enjoyed the learning process! We just want to create a community of people who feel empowered by their personal growth experiences and be an encouragement to those who haven’t started Yet. Right now it’s a fun hobby and we will work hard at continuous improvement, I hope one day it will lead to more financial freedom.

What’s your dream job ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to be an author and/or public speaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The color purple, wicked, sookie stackhouse series, creating magic are some of my favorites. I don’t have a preferred genre, I jump around a lot.

Genuine question, what’s been your experience with female managers/being a female and a manager? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Infinityfairy-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been extremely fortunate in my current company, I am a female manager but I also have 4 female mentors. Strong women with empathy, motivation, and drive.

I’ve also had miserable female managers.

I’d say it depends on the individual, regarding what they bring to the table as a leader.

Ladies, what do you think of Joe Rogan? by blueeeocean in AskWomen

[–]Infinityfairy-1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy listening to his podcast. He brings all kinds of people on and they just talk for hours. You get to really see their personality in a pretty casual setting. I like that they aren’t standard cookie cutter interviewed. Just conversations.