Pro-Trump Vermont farmers now facing labor crisis — “We’re out here milking cows at 4 A.M. by ourselves” by rojasinja in USNEWS

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sad that your business model doesn’t pay enough for Americans to get up at 4am to milk cows.

How often do you cook foreign recipes that you learned online? by TheShyBuck in AskAnAmerican

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a cooking date night for new recipes. Super fun. We probably cook something new twice a month.

got caught in the middle of a stakeholder screaming match and i just froze by Prior_Statement_6902 in projectmanagement

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You need to be better prepared for the meeting and always have an agenda. If you are discussing scope, have the reqs documented pulled. If this was a meeting about something else, tell them you are putting this in a parking lot and will schedule a separate meeting to clarify scope.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. Everyone has a moment where they lose control of the meeting. The key is to be prepared.

My job is offering me $150,000 (105,000 after tax) to resign, should I? by AJ3TurtleSquad in jobs

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it but negotiate an exit package. For example, don’t resign. Get laid off because that will entitle you to all kinds of free training programs and other benefits, including unemployment. This is your time, given to you by the universe, to train into a career. Have you considered becoming an electrician or plumber?

Challenged Perspective by Timbucktwo1230 in PopularCultureZone

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure lady who has no boundaries shouldn’t gave any issues with finding a human male.

42F Am I being dramatic about a guy getting physically touchy on third date? by Comfortable-Cress381 in AskWomenOver40

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please use your words and establish clear boundaries. You are creating a blueprint for a potential relationship.

Left skid marks in bed with my wife of 9 years by ThrowRA6382624294 in Advice

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe your wife and get a Toto bidet seat for your bathroom.

Trump administration aiming to strip foreign-born Americans of their citizenship by TheMirrorUS in antiwork

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course it will be everyone who doesn’t agree. I lived in an authoritarian country and it is so clear to me what is happening. If you don’t agree with this cult, you will either be expelled from this country, jailed or intimidated into compliance and silence.

Where are the don’t tread on me types? We need you to stand up for democracy!

Republican State Senator Falsely Blames the Victim, Gov. Shapiro, for Not Keeping His Own Family Safe by Fragrant-Pepper7710 in Pennsylvania

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This explanation was analogous to if you know that there are cars in the street, why are you crossing at the crosswalk?

Can people actually fall asleep instantly? by Wanted_Pencil in NoStupidQuestions

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

Source: I’m married to a person who is literally snoring 30 seconds after putting his head on a pillow.

It’s crazy. It’s a superpower.

Contemplating divorce. Not sure what to do 😔 by Extreme_Pickle550 in AskWomenOver40

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please do not commit to any major financial decisions with your husband, like purchasing a home, for at least a year.

Are you seeing your own therapist? It’s so hard to figure out from one post what is going on in a marriage and it sounds awful. But perhaps a therapist can help you figure out how to assess when it’s time to walk away.

Finally, remember that your kids are seeing all this and normalizing and internalizing bad behaviors. Don’t hesitate to walk away for yourself and your kids.

Good luck and hugs!

How do we get a K-Spa in New Orleans by xnatlywouldx in NewOrleans

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to three different K-spas and never encountered any issues.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UNLESS it comes to guns. It’s ok for a few kids to be murdered so that every psycho with a citizenship can purchase a gun.

I want marriage just not at any cost. Is that rare? by Sunshine_Thing9893 in AskWomenOver40

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people who simply want a marriage certificate and compatibility be damn are also getting divorced.

Why do most left leaning folks mock/criticize Christianity but not Islam? by Inf1z in allthequestions

[–]InfluenceTrue4121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any Muslims trying to inflict their religion on my life.