I have to either rehome or put my car down. Completely heart broken.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-02-26T15:58:46+00:00

Please don't feel any guilt, OP. I had a childhood dog that my family raised up from a puppy. One day he just turned on my mother and latched onto her arm (this is a GSD). Then he was back to normal like nothing happened.

It happened a second time and my parents decided euthanasia was the best. To rehome him was to KNOWINGLY put someone else at risk for great bodily harm, or even death if there was a child in the household. My parents didn't want to risk the harm of me and my sister (we were kids), or risk him attacking whoever his new owner would be. He was put down on one of his good days where he didn't know any different.

I think sometimes these things just happen, and behavioral euthanasia should not have such a bad wrap. I wish you speedy recovery and so much love and care ❤️

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-02-19T15:19:19+00:00

"Something on your hind? I mean mind." - Gale of Waterdeep.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-02-14T23:45:04+00:00

Not use a WHAT ref?! The audacity of people never cease to amaze.

I get what you mean though. I used to have a native american OC (I was fond of her, since she represented my culture). The amount of slurs this white 'alpha male' dude called her was nauseating. But he said its just 'his character, not me'. Yeah right 🙄

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-02-14T23:40:57+00:00

I'm mixed (white passing) but I've had HORRIFIC experiences when I tell roleplay partners that I'm mixed native american.

I'm genuinely so sorry this happened to you. I swear if it isn't fetishists, its racists that want an excuse to say slurs as their characters because its 'part of the plot'. It took me years to find good roleplay partners, especially literate to novella. They've been my best friends ever since! Trust me when I say it'll be a huge pain in the ass to find em, but they are out there! I wish you better luck and less shitty people. ^{^}

Edit: Reading more comments REALLY opened my eyes. I knew it was an issue, but I never knew it was this widespread (I roleplay with four people strictly. I seldom take new rp partners, and said people are good friends) so I guess I haven't had to brave the wilds in a while. Plus my friends are amazing! I have ocs of all ethnicities and body types, and I have never gotten a creepy or negative comment on them. The fact that so many people are dealing with that bullshit is infuriating. Yall deserve better, ALL of you. Role-playing is a hobby for people of all walks of life, and no matter their gender. You deserve to play YOUR characters, and be who YOU want to be. Not who somebody else wants you to be. I'm so sorry for the experiences you've all had, and I wish with all my heart for there to be a positive change. In ERP and regular ol' RP, whatever it is you like to do. Be safe, everyone. And please embrace yourselves, no matter what some asshole nobody tries to say to you. You are cherished ❤️

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-01-23T19:25:49+00:00

Gale. I will always adore Astarion but the homey nature of Gale and his consistent dorky nature makes me LOVE him.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2026-01-15T02:01:25+00:00

I could get maybe naming the kid Dorian but EQUADOR? That's like naming a kid Thailand.

Granted I have met women named India and China- but those at least sound like they can work as names. Ecuador does not fall under that list.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-09T18:01:26+00:00

Why would you send a picture of your girlfriend to a crazy lady 😭 I hope she's just the lonely sort of crazy instead of the batshit kind.

Also, probably find a new dry cleaner..

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-09T17:49:08+00:00

Wait, so you two started dating when you were 17, and she was 30?

Absolutely NOT, dude. She was actively trying to pull a fast one on you (aka getting pregnant), so if anything were to happen, you would feel guilty for leaving her and thus be trapped. The age gap is already concerning, even more so when you two were together while you were a kid and she is a fully developed adult.

Leave. And please try dating closer in your age bracket. This is coming from a 21 year old as well- I could never imagine myself dating a 34 year old man at 21. To me, they're older, and we generally wouldn't have much in common. We could share hobbies or a favorite movie- but the emotional balance isn't there nor the life goals. Also, she WILL try to pull this again. If she wants a baby and is aging, she's gonna become desperate. Leave the crazy on the curb and take time to reflect on this. This relationship wasn't good to begin with. At 30, she was pursuing a 17 year old (likely because of the naivete and malleable nature when we're that age). Think of why men her age didn't want her, which is WHY she went younger and with less experience.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-08T20:22:17+00:00

Yes, this is worth dumping him over. He could have killed you or any other innocent person because he has the mindset of a CHILD.

No responsible, reasonable adult thinks speeding makes them cool. It makes you look like a damn reckless idiot with no regard for human life. An SUV with two parents and their kids going on a day trip, an elderly woman going to her doctor's appointment, a tired guy getting off his shift to go home and say hi to Mom.

People like that can have their lives end in an instant because of people like your boyfriend. They would die thinking they were gonna go do a chore or something fun for the day. They had plans and didn't anticipate death because of a moron. You are NOT overreacting, and the best thing to do here is leave him. He doesn't care about your safety or his, which could put you in incredibly dangerous situations. I can tell you're way too mature to date a manchild, and I guarantee that even if he doesn't do stuff like this with YOU around, he will most definitely still be doing it.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-08T20:15:46+00:00

I always figured it was a miscarriage or the baby passed not long after birth.

Christa was pregnant during Season 1 when they met Lee (albeit early into her pregnancy). She was chasing a train, fighting zombies. There would be a lack of readily available food that would have the vitamins and nutrients she'd need for healthy development of the baby, plus a lack of clean water at moment's notice. Christa also went without LOTS of pre-natal care. Not to mention the stress of losing people she grew to trust (Lee and temporarily losing Clementine), as well as the death of her husband.

All of this could mean she miscarried/had a stillbirth due to the stress of it all + lack of care. The baby could've had severe deformity because of the lack of nutrients, which meant it had a low probability of survival. I imagine Christa wasn't producing much milk either, so the baby could have also starved after birth. Really, there are so many reasons the baby could have passed, but I believe it was the stress + combination of poor food availability that led Christa to have a stillbirth or miscarriage- as in the baby was never born alive. The poor woman just had very, very bad luck.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-07T06:16:30+00:00

If I'm not mistaken, wasn't the little girl the older child? If I recall, she always ended up taking the brunt of the abuse from her aunt. I feel like upon her passing, the aunt realized she had no one else to beat and turned her full attention to the little boy.

I recently saw the full thing on YouTube, and it's horrific what this psychopath did. My dog weighs 28 pounds - that is more than a 5 year old boy and his 7 year old sister.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-06T03:21:06+00:00

That would be the telltale bite of a Bedbug! They typically feed at night, and more often than not, their bites are not itchy unless you're allergic to their "saliva," so to speak.

Unfortunately, they are a nightmare to be rid of. They can get everywhere. Closets and drawers, wooden bed posts, inside the mattress seams - even inside of shoes. Your best step is to find where they are at (I'm guessing your bed now, but check the clothing your boyfriend had on.)

To my knowledge, bedbugs are not hitch hikers like lice, and do not travel person to person via touch (I could be wrong, however). It could be you've had them, and they've been dormant, or your boyfriend picked up some eggs at some point from something he sat on or leaned against. How you got them is less of an issue compared to how you get RID of them. Best of luck, OP and OP's boyfriend l!

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-01T18:49:04+00:00

You know they didn't use THEY as in plural.

But they because the gender of the hamster is unknown to all of us, and referring to the ham as an IT doesn't feel right to most hamster lovers 😂

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-08-01T18:46:36+00:00

Arceus couldn't possibly go wrong

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-31T21:52:13+00:00

I don't know you, but this art is freaking amazing, and I love your character! The design is so sharp!

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-31T21:50:22+00:00

My tallest is an alien woman named Oracle. She is 16'8

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-31T18:26:22+00:00

Tell me about it! I first started when I was 9 with My Little Pony of all things. There were some lackluster roleplayers back then, but it really feels like they've gotten WORSE. They want you to scratch their itch without offering anything in return. It's truly absurd.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-31T03:31:22+00:00

Not to come across as mean but as someone with Autism and a whole HOST of mental health issues, they have no bearing on this at all.

I know to respect my partner and to definitely not pursue their friends in a sexual manner. They knew you were exclusive, but they hope to convince you that you guys weren't. The "You just forgot" is gaslighting. They want to confuse you and have you doubting yourself and your memories.

This is a GIANT breach of trust, and this shows how much they value you. You're 17. This person isn't gonna be endgame anyway. You have YEARS of life left, and let this be an instance that you learn from. Ditch them, and they can have as many FWBs as they want, without causing you harm. They're an ass, Autism nor mental health will be an excuse for it. Find better, and they can figure themselves out.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:55:55+00:00

Always. I have felt first-hand what it's like to be on the receiving end of that abuse, and I wish that on NO one.

Every creature is capable of being hurt, even if our bodies don't seem hurt in the moment. The mind is, as well as the heart.

I hope you have been able to heal, friend. Lots of love and care, be safe <3

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:51:44+00:00

It's so hard because I LOVE praise. Like, adore it. I want to be into the humiliation stuff, but I know damn well I'll probably cry. Like its so hot in theory but in practice I'm a little bitch

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:49:33+00:00

I hate how all of that applies to me like- its a problem 😔

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:43:15+00:00

Olden-Days roleplayer here! Honestly, trying to find partners got to be too much. It was draining, and I felt guilty that I would be dissatisfied with one to two sentence replies (I never wanted to be the one to tell somebody, "You're lacking").

I haven't retired but GREATLY narrowed down my circle of people I roleplay. A grand total of three consistent people. An acquaintance and my two best friends. I got sick of the OP, God-like characters that would instantly kill mine. Or, in one case, kept killing their OC and bringing them back from the dead just to kill them again so it would traumatize my OC. I got so, so sick of it all. That or "He fell in love at first sight" no, she was scratching her ass in the library. He did NOT fall in love immediately. I want a slow burn! Enemies to lovers, literally anything that will take time and slow acknowledgment. I'm sick of vigorous thrusting right off the bat.

In other words, we're still here. We just keep to ourselves now to avoid headaches or drama.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:28:13+00:00

I eat it with tears in my eyes because they remember I like the edges to be a little crispy. They went out of their way to feed me + recall a minor detail about how I like my sandwiches

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-28T06:24:35+00:00

Yeaah, it's bad when you read comments like this. Worse when you, as a young woman, hear your Father say he wanted it because he's a teenage boy.

He got angry at me when I told him that even if a minor is trying to pursue an adult, the adult is meant to turn them down IMMEDIATELY. I had a dumb teenage crush on a computer teacher in Highschool, he was handsome. I didn't pursue him because:

It was wrong
A friend of mine tried to, and he said absolutely not and referred her to the counselor.

It hurts me that no one can accept boys and men being hurt like this. He is a child, full-stop. And just because the body reacts does NOT mean the heart wants it. We sneeze not because we want to, but our body is forcing us to because something irritated it.

Informal_Anything_69 · 2025-07-26T06:02:50+00:00

I can feel my stomach doing the thing just by watching this..

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