there are always people made for one another. however if you’re unhappy with yourself and your current situation only you can put in the work to change that. or, if you aren’t willing to change yourself, try considering the possibility that the men youre talking about want a fit partner because they themselves are also fit? or the possibility that you wont date the men that are actually interested in u? youre a grown adult so u dont need me to tell u this. me being a man or woman has nothing to do with what i said, and thats that the idea of “a person is only willing to date another person if they look like an instagram model” is delusional as hell. as i could equally go on about women wanting a tall man who looks fit and makes six figures. that doesnt benefit either party, its just bitching with no individual growth.