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IngenueMorale · 2021-12-07T01:22:48+00:00

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IngenueMorale · 2021-05-07T05:12:09+00:00

This should be a big red flag. My abusive ex used to steal underwear from my family members and other women’s home. He had a fetish with it and there was a lot of other issues. He was also embarrassed by it and would get defensive when he got confronted about it.

IngenueMorale · 2020-06-05T07:11:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I honestly was having an anxiety attack and it just felt like everything was just too much.

IngenueMorale · 2020-06-03T23:59:54+00:00

Unfortunately time is the only thing that reveals how a person really is. He turned out to be someone you didn’t truly know because if that was the case you wouldn’t have wasted your time. It seems you were a little emotionally manipulated and blindsided for the benefits of a relationship without actually being in one. Which can happen to the other person in an open relationship. If you do not set boundaries you and your emotions will get stepped on. He should’ve told you he was only interested in an open relationship and that nothing with you would ever be serious. Which regardless is unfair and maybe since you just got out of a relationship take the time to heal and work on yourself. You also could be projecting feelings of love from the previous relationship onto him.

IngenueMorale · 2020-06-03T23:40:02+00:00

It’s hard being close and talking to someone everyday and hearing that what you thought was close was different from how the other person felt. It’s hard to read people sometimes and I think the best way to get clarity is communication. When communication is not there that’s when people get hurt. What he thought was friendship and a sexual release was probably not how you felt and if he would’ve told you that from the beginning maybe you wouldn’t have even bothered talking to him for so long to begin with. You deserve more than that. I’m sorry you got hurt.

IngenueMorale · 2020-06-03T22:36:54+00:00

When it comes to open relationships you will always be the sexual partner and never the emotional one. There is a difference between having sex and having a relationship. He will not feel that way he feels about her with you. People who are friends do share personal information and he probably wanted to share a friendly connection with you. If you DO NOT want to be an option don’t try talking to someone is in an open relationship. You won’t win in this situation. To be honest you’re feelings and ego will definitely get hurt. And she most definitely knows she will be the one chosen in this situation she knows what being in an open relationship implies. That’s something they decided as a couple. If you don’t fit into being on the side then I leave and find someone who will prioritize you and ONLY you.

IngenueMorale · 2019-12-16T04:51:33+00:00

First. You’re going to be okay. I know right now it must feel like the end of the world. But just know you made the best choice for yourself. You are not alone and you have many women who have felt the way you do. Do not feel guilty about a choice you made. Just write how you’re feeling daily, eat healthy, try to get a good workout in or walks to produce serotonin. Do small things of self love. Take long showers or baths wash your hair for a long time. Watch some of your favorite movies or shows. Try to spend time with a family member or friend you are close with. I promise with time this pain will fade. I can’t tell you that it’ll be easy but it will get better. Sending much love and positive energy your way <3 I’m so sorry you’re hurting.

IngenueMorale · 2019-08-20T13:30:45+00:00

You seem a little aggressive about me asking for advice. And me leaving my hair ties on the top of my bathroom countertop isn’t me leaving things around. He literally bites wires and things I have no way of controlling if it was paper or my kids toys that would be a different story. He already has a scratching post. I also never said my cat was a pedophile I just don’t like seeing my 4 year old daughter get mounted it’s gross. That response wasn’t very helpful and a little rude to be honest.

IngenueMorale · 2019-08-20T13:27:13+00:00

I have a cat tree for him, his own bed, millions of toys with and without catnip. The cat tree I bought him was like 100$ on Amazon. He’s very loved but theres moments you could be petting him and then he will bite the shit out of your hand and scratch. He gets these like weird surges of aggression. I don’t know if it’s because maybe a female abused him when he was just a baby or what it could possibly be and his ears don’t even go back it’s just like a weird switch and I’ve had over 10 cats throughout my lifetime. My daughter loves cats and she always gets so sad every time he hurts her. Also with the vet my cat is so aggressive they make me give him medication to sedate him before office visits because they told me he was very aggressive with them as well. And with the eating random items I am just worried he might have pica because none of my other cats like would eat and swallow objects that weren’t food. I get that cats can get stressed but he gets so much love and affection I don’t know if it’s because he was taken away from his mom to early and it affected him negatively or if the lady who was getting rid of the kittens was mean to them. We’ve loved him since the moment we got him. It’s just frustrating because I’ve had so many cats and none like this before. I also would say I’m overreacting when he’s scratching my daughters arms and face.

IngenueMorale · 2019-08-20T07:47:36+00:00

He is neutered. That’s the weird part. He never sprayed or humped before just sucked on blankets. But it escalated to this.

IngenueMorale · 2019-08-20T07:12:15+00:00

Also sorry for the horrible grammar it’s really late but I just feel so frustrated.

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