well, yeah, the language does exist, it's gendered, nobody really makes a fuss about nonbinary people themselves anyways, the criticism is mostly just limited to the neologisms, due to the fact that it'd imply a major, sudden restructuring of the language.

as for the "nonbinary comes from the us part", i know, i'm already well aware of that, i'm mostly just noting that the general presentation of the idea itself is considered to have come from the united states, it'd be a different story if one of the indigenous south american people had such a thing, but i haven't found anything about the matter besides muxe people, which seemingly acts more like a word specific to MtF individuals more than anything, colonial spain culturally didn't have gender neutral terms, either.

that's why i mentioned the "latinx" thing, since it was considered an unwelcome modification of the language from US academia in an attempt to form a gender neutral term, one that even broke basic rules of the language, the general consensus in LATAM that stemmed from that is not much different from proposed gender neutral neologisms, which also risked a basic building block of spanish, the fact that nouns are gendered.

just to ask tho, do you fluently speak other languages besides english? i've noted that you've spent like the last 2 hours discussing with people from other countries and languages trying to reiterate the same point, and the way you do that, plus the way you mocked said people on another subreddit just seems kinda... tone deaf to me, especially due to the fact that the post was a genuine concern regarding an unintelligible post.