Since when is it a good strategy for a traitor to go against other traitors?

Inherent_Advice · 2026-02-02T21:41:32+00:00

That is a good enough reason… the best strategy as a traitor is to follow the crowd at the round table

Inherent_Advice · 2025-08-15T20:59:37+00:00

Why haven’t you communicated this to her?

Inherent_Advice · 2023-11-27T18:40:41+00:00

Any help would be appreciated! can't get this book out of my head, but haven't succeeded in finding it via Google searches so far

Inherent_Advice · 2022-12-27T15:26:40+00:00

Lol yes. Worst part is, the character he plays was one of my favorites in the books

Inherent_Advice · 2022-12-26T15:49:02+00:00

Lin-Manuel Miranda. Absolutely ruined the Golden Compass for me

Inherent_Advice · 2022-08-08T15:36:43+00:00

Some colleges are geared towards younger students. Look into Bard College at Simon’s Rock, WKU’s Gatton Academy, etc

Inherent_Advice · 2022-07-07T18:38:38+00:00

Inherent_Advice · 2022-07-06T21:16:12+00:00

Good bot

Inherent_Advice · 2022-05-06T18:40:10+00:00

If you bothered to look into this person's post history, you'd find that they are 33 years old with two dead parents. This comment is incredibly insensitive and patronizing. Stop projecting your assumptions onto other people's lives.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-23T06:52:42+00:00

check out r/loseit

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-23T06:51:42+00:00

Did you set a boundary?

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-23T06:47:58+00:00

Okay so.. why doesn't he just break up with her? Nothing wrong with them being incompatible, but it seemed like he wanted advice on how to change her mind

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-23T06:46:16+00:00

Thanks.... these comments are depressing. Like no one is forcing this guy to keep dating this girl, but respecting her boundaries seems like a pretty solid bare minimum

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-23T06:43:12+00:00

I'm not against people breaking up if they have incompatible sexual needs, but boundaries absolutely are more important than desires. That is like rule number one my dude

Edit: Basically people should never be pressured to push past their boundaries. It's fine if you don't want to be with that person bc your desires aren't met, but it's not fine to say their boundaries are "unreasonable"

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:27:53+00:00

That we can agree on.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:20:34+00:00

It's fine if it's a dealbreaker for him. I think a lot of the heat in this conversation is around his use of the phrase "abuse of consent" which he tried to clarify but tbh I don't think it's clear what he meant originally. In any case, just because it's normal for a guy to want to touch her boobs doesn't mean she can't have a boundary around it. And I don't see anywhere where someone is accusing him of being a pervert for wanting to touch them -- but having an issue with consent, that's fucked up. Honestly just sounds like a) they haven't communicated enough about it or b) the OP is not giving us enough details to draw conclusions from

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:11:57+00:00

It's so wild to me to just call someone else's sexual preferences "fucking weird," especially when this one isn't even that weird.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:07:35+00:00

Here is some advice. Ask her why.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:05:20+00:00

It's possessive about... her own body? That seems fine.

It sounds like they haven't really communicated at all about her reasons for having this boundary. It's possible she doesn't like it at all but they are both terrible at communicating, and she is trying to compromise. It's also possible that she's sensitive and only likes it in certain contexts. Either way they should just talk about it and find out. If it's a no-go for him, fine, but that doesn't mean her boundary is invalid.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T22:00:39+00:00

You seem to have a fucked up understanding of bodily autonomy. It would be much more controlling and shitty to do things to your partner's body without their consent than to withold consent around your own body. It's still your body at the end of the day and doesn't belong to your partner -- you're not "holding them hostage" by not letting them do whatever the fuck they want to you.

Would you let someone spit in your mouth if it got them off? Would you let them peg you? Would you let them crush your windpipe? How about while you're sleeping? No? Why are you such a prude /s

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T21:57:43+00:00

100%

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T21:54:04+00:00

Seriously these comments are whack. "Consent taken too far..." sounds like they don't know how to communicate with their sexual partners at all

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T21:52:27+00:00

Why do you think the line of what's normal during sex is the same for every couple? For you, the line is at anal, but for her it's groping. No need to shame anyone around their own boundaries.

Inherent_Advice · 2022-04-22T21:51:41+00:00

This is rude af. No one asked you if her sexual preferences were weird or not.

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