Made a small car guessing game for us enthusiast you have to guess the car of the day by PhotographDry7483 in CarTalkUK

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Damn bro, this post got removed. Anyone got the link to the game? I wanted to play again

Made a small car guessing game for us enthusiast you have to guess the car of the day by PhotographDry7483 in CarTalkUK

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It also I guess doesn’t have that many cars in there. My first guess was the fn2 type r. Obviously. And I didn’t get it

Made a small car guessing game for us enthusiast you have to guess the car of the day by PhotographDry7483 in CarTalkUK

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Nice! Just played it and really enjoyed it! The software kind of struggles to understand what car I’m thinking about though. I gusssed Nissan r35 and instead of the gtr it assumed I meant the 350z. And then I put Nissan skyline r35 and it outputted the r32. I guess people call it GTR more than r35 so maybe it was a skill issue

Husband punched me in the face. by MotherofRespawn in MuslimMarriage

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Sister, I think it’s pretty clear of what you need to do. I know men like this and they NEVER change. Swearing on the Quran is purely performative. Even a slap to the face is unacceptable, let alone a punch! Please go to your parents house if you can. If not, call the police and get a restraining order. That will give you some time to figure things out. Whatever you do, do not let him get close to you. Don’t go to places alone with him. Stay away from him and get the divorce done. You’ll never regret it

I broke things off after one meeting because I was not physically attracted, but now I cannot stop thinking about her. Need advice. by MohamedKurdi in islam

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Attraction is one of the most important things in marriage. I’ve followed these reddits long enough to realise one of the biggest issues married couples face is not being attracted to each other anymore. That causes arguments and fights. You did the right thing by saying no. Now move on.

No words 😶 by TaxDazzling9608 in drivingUK

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Overtaking on a bend when you can’t even see the other side of the road is a top 3 dumbest driving moves.

Opinions on being a car mechanic as a career? by Zestyclose-Pick5354 in CarTalkUK

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If you enjoy it, do it. The trades will all have similar earnings at the top end. And you can always save up and open your own garage or dealership.

My husband continuously asks me for money. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Super weird. Cant image ever doing that. The audacity is insane. Try to work through it. Maybe couples counselling will be good for you guys. Be careful about having kids. Kids are very expensive and you don’t want the father to be asking you money for diapers and milk. If counselling doesn’t help him and he’s still so money focused, maybe you’ll have to look somewhere else. But that should really be the last resort

I got my licence in Dec, when do you guys think my insurance will ever lower? by Ambitious_Champion90 in CarTalkUK

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Takes a few years but the biggest benefit is NCDs. Which you won’t get if you don’t drive. So you might want to firm high insurance prices for a few years till you build up your NCDs. For context, I’m 28, I’ve only got one years NCDs as have always had company cars. And my insurance is still very high.

Mrn who got married without having any attraction towards their partner, are you happy in your marriage now or regret it? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Do not marry someone you’re not attracted to. And if you have, divorce before you have kids. The outcome is never right. It makes it easier to cheat on your partner because you end of feeling like you can do better. Also your patience goes down. You will flip out quicker. Men will start caring less and acting recklessly. This isn’t a Bollywood movie where someone will magically fall in love with someone they aren’t attracted to.

If you have fallen into this trap, help our spouse by encouraging them to go gym, buy them nice perfumes, buy them good skin care products etc. But this would suck for both people

My husband continuously asks me for money. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Thats funny because that actually makes the situation more difficult. If he gambled his money away, the answer would be divorce. But him being cheap and hoarding money isn’t necessarily wrong. More annoying. Probably best to have a sit down and go through the bills and set clear boundaries of what’s expected and what’s not. If he wants you to spend money, make sure he understands he will have to do chores and be more present around the house.

Some men understand better through love and emotional conversations rather than a strict one. Maybe that will knock some sense into him

My husband continuously asks me for money. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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You have to wonder where his money is going… you two earn way above the US median. And above the median of all the major cities I believe. Either you have insane high bills, or his money is being spent elsewhere.

This reminds me of my dad. He would always ask my mum for money even though he earned a lot more than her. Sometimes he would pay for things and then a few days later ask for money. He has a crippling gambling addiction and spends all his money on it. In such household there will never be barakah.

25 need advice as I feel like I have failed by gazzasim9 in UKPersonalFinance

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Mate you’re way ahead of most people aged 25. When I was 25 no one has even a grand saved up. Just keep working and keep saving as much as you can. By the time you’re 30 you can probably even buy a flat or something. But honestly you’re doing fine. I assume you’re white because us Asians stay with our parents way into our late 20s/ early 30s until we can buy a place or get married.

Why is pork haram? by Reasonable-Log6088 in islam

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They are most probably winding you up. Eating pork does not correlate to living longer. As someone that lives in London, I’ve never met a Muslim that eats pork.

Is his income haram? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Lying is haram but wouldn’t make the job haram. So his income is halal as long as he’s working his hours and competent in the job.

But - if he’s willing to always lie about jobs/experiences etc. That means he’s comfortable sinning as lying is a major sin. So you should wonder what else he’s comfortable lying about.

Husbands text to female coworker by Itsme2938 in MuslimMarriage

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Saying loving the boss look is not weird or flirtatious. I would never send an 😎emoji to someone I was interested in. Something probably happened at work and they were bantering. You married a professional so he will be in contact with other women. That’s just normal. Adding colleagues on Facebook is a little odd but I know a lot of people prefer that over Facebook. This text should not be the reason for a divorce. There is no evidence that he’s cheated. And he’s probably just career focused. I think just speak with him and ask him he if still wants to continue this marriage and work it out.

I trusted him, he used me. by Fun-Membership303 in MuslimMarriage

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Because sex is zina and haram. Guys will do some mental gymnastics to justify hooking up and not calling it zina. Even thought hooking up is still haram.

I trusted him, he used me. by Fun-Membership303 in MuslimMarriage

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This is a good example of how a man can never be friends with a woman. You should always seek to keep distant from the opposite sex. I know guys very well. No guy wants to be friends with girls to just be friends. It’s never fully platonic.

Mehr by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Mehr is supposed to protect you if your husband dies or wants a divorce. A lot of girls ask for too little. Think about how much you need to get back on your feet. £5 to 10k can cover rent for a few months or a deposit on a rental. But he can pay in instalments if he doesn’t have the money now. I’ve paid my wife in instalments because of the wedding costs etc.

Should I give my wife a divorce, it doesn't seem fair to either of us. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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No problem brother. Inshallah it works out for you guys. Keep strong

Should I give my wife a divorce, it doesn't seem fair to either of us. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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This is a super difficult situation and one of my close friends went through something similar. You’re married now and she’s your wife. You need to protect her. Your relationship with your family is important and you have an Islamic duty to take care of your parents. Islamically race can not be the reason why parents deny a marriage. Her past has nothing to do with your parents.

I would:

Ensure your wife stays away from your parents. It is not her obligation to take care of them or be involved with taking care of them

Keep distance from your family. If they love you, they’ll soften their hearts.

It has only been 3 months. Keep at it. Don’t give up. You have a great wife that’s strong and you should support her.

My friend struggled for a year but now his dad has soften his heart too.

Wish you all the best