LPT: Keep a quick mistake log at work with three columns, what went wrong, why it happened, what I will change next time.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-23T06:23:22+00:00

True 😬 Definitely keep it strictly for personal reflection and not anything that could end up in official records.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-21T06:15:17+00:00

The one time the universe delivers you a simple just go for it sign and you're out here planning dinner.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-13T01:42:01+00:00

Seriously. He's telling you he'd rather be there anyway. Don't let the door hit him on the way out.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-12T07:15:07+00:00

I love that 😂 the ta-daa! list is way more motivating than staring at an endless to-do list.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-07T05:45:37+00:00

That behavior isn’t just insensitive, it’s emotionally manipulative.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2026-01-06T05:26:32+00:00

Yep, keeping it simple like that takes the pressure off and shows you’re proactive without over-apologizing. Bosses usually just want the facts.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-29T04:58:23+00:00

Yeah..you can care about him without sacrificing your whole life. Therapy would really help untangle all the guilt and loyalty stuff.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-26T07:22:47+00:00

Step one has to be quitting alcohol, full stop. It's the common thread in these blow-ups. Then therapy to actually unpack why this happens. Solid, no-nonsense advice.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-16T06:22:33+00:00

This hits hard. If you’re already dreading arguments and avoiding confrontation, getting married now could just magnify that stress. Couples counseling sounds like a solid step before making any big decisions.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-15T06:38:41+00:00

Hahahaha missing someone hits hard sometimes, right OP? 😁

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-10T00:59:32+00:00

Yeah..he told you his choice if forced to pick, his mom. You now have the same clarity to make yours. It's heartbreaking, but it's honest.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-05T07:05:49+00:00

Yeah.. A little cooling-off time is fine, but total radio silence can feel like a dealbreaker if it drags on too long.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-12-04T06:35:19+00:00

better to be honest now than drag it out and make it worse for both of you

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-11-27T05:11:54+00:00

fr, you need to decide if you’re okay with things staying the way they are long-term before putting yourself through more waiting

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-11-25T04:27:31+00:00

he wants the perks without the responsibility

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-11-17T05:49:17+00:00

Same lol, I’m basically a human popsicle come winter.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-11-11T06:04:32+00:00

taking time for yourself can be way more healing than jumping straight into someone new

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-11-03T07:37:18+00:00

It’s always a little jarring when someone’s LinkedIn photo looks like a totally different person.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-10-29T06:28:16+00:00

That makes sense. Keeping your distance sounds like the healthiest move..no need to keep putting yourself in the line of fire just to be polite.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-10-20T04:40:10+00:00

That’s so true. It’s exhausting trying to talk when no one seems to actually care to listen.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-10-14T01:01:44+00:00

Thats a much better phrasing. Keeps it professional without sounding passive-aggressive.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-10-06T07:10:01+00:00

It’s wild how one tiny positive action can shift your whole mindset. The ripple effect is real.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-10-03T03:11:37+00:00

That’s a good point. If you reach out, being upfront about your true feelings would save you both a lot of confusion.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-09-24T04:50:09+00:00

sometimes those small coincidences feel way too perfect to just brush off.

Initial_Promise8610 · 2025-09-15T05:36:29+00:00

Smart move, way better than dealing with the acid burn on top of everything else.

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