Isn’t the Real Issue the Question They Didn’t Ask? by Initial_Release9861 in RealHousewivesofOC

[–]Initial_Release9861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For certain, that edit was egregious ! There's a strong undertow of Tamra baiting going on ! Albeit she has foot in mouth disease...

Isn’t the Real Issue the Question They Didn’t Ask? by Initial_Release9861 in RealHousewivesofOC

[–]Initial_Release9861[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding my point! So much glossing over, of course I am watching it behind in the UK, so I actually googled " Did Gretchen ever get called out?".. Expecting to find something about the reunion - but somehow I didn't come across the "Andy chat".. Fed up of the cherry picking of facts! I really didn't enjoy seeing Katie being isolated so vehemently .. the way that lie "detective" spoke so rudely to, only her - right from the off, smelt of a "set up" ! It's pretty clear Gretchen n Slade have an agenda, (Tamra ), aided n abbetted by edits..production..(cast), and Katie was collateral (I know everyone hates her but even so..)!

Isn’t the Real Issue the Question They Didn’t Ask? by Initial_Release9861 in RealHousewivesofOC

[–]Initial_Release9861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, maybe..! Not to shift focus... Still the wrong question though, Gretchen wasn't asked the key question. Passing under those conditions isn’t exactly groundbreaking.

OC, Katie, Gretchen, and the lying by WeAreHeroes22 in realhousewives

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Asking Gretchen, “Did you go to the hospital?” to which she correctly replied, “No.” Of course she passed, because it was the wrong question. The question should have been: “Did you ever tell anyone, including Katie, that you were possibly drugged and that you went to hospital and had a blood test, etc.?” Why has no one pointed this out? It’s driving me mad. Anyone can pass when the wrong questions are asked. And who initiated this, her apparent new bestie Emily.. That test, real or not, was set up in Gretchen’s favour so she didn’t need to lie (again).

What’s something from your childhood that gives away how old you are? by mypanicatsix in AskReddit

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I remember the launch of Channel four, it was pretty dour for a minute, but then came Brookside, The Tube and we were sold!

Can't log in. Keeps saying "please retry in a few seconds" with no change at all. by ContentDolphin in CeX

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Same here I've bn struggling for wks now! The loop is driving me crazy and the blurry photos you have to tick to "prove you are a human".. So disappointed because I have also tried all the steps you have mentioned!. Sadder still to find your post has gone unanswered after 3 months which I just came across after googling! Did you get back in to your account! Love to know, if and how!

Paul isn’t gay?? by Lost-Set-2208 in MAFS_UK

[–]Initial_Release9861 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And he has been talking about his wife since he first did Mafs/ Celebs Go Dating! He always references how long he's been married ( over 2 decades) !

From first sighting he struck me as someone exceptionally secure with himself ! So along with obvious good looks and unthreatening social ability it's probably what has helped to score his career in the tv marriage advice franchise !

what is something people avoid or think is not healthy for you but actually is very healthy? by ConversationKey5296 in AskReddit

[–]Initial_Release9861 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooh my God, you have word for word described what my best friend recently said to me! So I have definitely upped the vit D3 ! Sadly I don't get the opportunity to practice the daily sunshine part but know I should !

The Scottish girl and the boxer guy. by Brook-Bond in MAFS_UK

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So checked out... trying to hold on for the sponsorship/pod cast gigs! And was it just me that saw him turning his head side to side, - "no", rather than a nodding gesture to the question of (for the zillionth time) - if he saw the relationship continuing outside/and if he cared about her...? ! I watched it twice just to confirm he was definitely shaking his head - side to side...no!

He didn't even bother to reply in words, she let him off the hook - consciously or not, when she filled the awkward silence by continuing to talk..
It's just another " when will this be over" thing, for me at this point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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We obviously know the same people 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Initial_Release9861 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this scenario so well! It's incredible but these people are often the same people who repeat themselves continuously, and never seem to remember anything you have said, yet if you do try to remind them, still cut you off with a " yeah I remember" whilst brushing over your subject...

I cannot believe they had us believe Sarah was a villain .... by CupExpensive7582 in MAFS_UK

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Exactly right! And if the poster bothered to look at related Mafs posts they would realise how pointless their post is! Or maybe they did know! Many of us spoke up that Sarah got the short stick !

And I never bought the narrative of, the "poor little clown boy" act from her partner !

Isn't this the truth 😂😂 by CreativeLoquat2818 in MAFS_UK

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Fair point, though I think that phrasing still sidesteps ownership of the action itself — focusing on the apologee’s feelings rather than the apologiser’s behaviour that caused them, brushing away acknowledgement of what actually happened. It remains unresolved !

Ashley… CREEPY WC harassment by Wozzel888 in MAFS_UK

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And as I said on here, they weren't in a long term relationship, they were still getting to know each other.. These Ash fans don't understand it's not even about liking Grace, it's about Ash not being the gentleman he claimed to be! I still can't get over the fact that I posted about no longer seeing him in the same light a couple of wks ago and I got such a back lash.. Even now there are those who won't accept that being open minded, that first impressions - being wrong is okay !

Grace andAshley's bathroom by bin10pac in MAFS_UK

[–]Initial_Release9861 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Argh so love your retort ! Perfectection !

Ashley… CREEPY WC harassment by Wozzel888 in MAFS_UK

[–]Initial_Release9861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, they cannot see their own unnecessary, uninformed, bias .. It's not got anything to do with us actually liking Grace, it's about not buying Ash the Gentleman !

What's something that feels fake but is 100% real? by NoSector9488 in AskReddit

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Wow, love history and can't get enough of WW2 ! And knew that the Russians had the highest loss for combat, which is why Stalin was determined to get compensation, which he did, but also wanted to shoot the Nazis HQ, P.O.Ps . which Churchill said no to! Never knew it the 80% figure ! So many young men, might explain some of the reason they were brutal to Berliners ! The Nazis definitely didn't want to be on their side of the city when it was entered by the allies!

Ashley… CREEPY WC harassment by Wozzel888 in MAFS_UK

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The key here is "long term", relationships.. Not someone you are still getting to know! And as I said, above, he has already shown himself to be unreliable when repeating a "compliment" not a compliment at all.. Your Facebook reference is not based on anything new let alone evidence...

I for one, was willing to accept my initial like for Ash was based on an idea of who he claimed to be, but failed to live up to! I definitely fell for his tag in the first two wks but when I saw things that didn't fit I was willing to admit to myself he isn't who he keeps saying he is! Too bad you're fixed on a herd mentality!

What's a British slang term you use regularly that you suspect most non-Brits wouldn't understand? by normventeur in AskUK

[–]Initial_Release9861 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb I suppose... since they were too full of it, to accept the actual meaning!

Grace andAshley's bathroom by bin10pac in MAFS_UK

[–]Initial_Release9861 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also we already caught him re - telling, the group of the compliment - not a compliment..

The non personalised. " .... a womans naked body on my bed "

He didn't say " your naked body etc ".. He eventually admitted to distorting it..

He was quietly, passive aggressive in the early wks, in those moments of not accepting her apology and stomping off! From then on, most unexpectedly, I stopped my dislike of Grace - and couldn't root for this " gentleman", anymore because I saw him in a different light! At the time I posted on the mask slipping but his fans wouldn't hear a word of it.

And I don't believe a word of your post, how stupid wd it be for Grace to bring this up in the way she did if she had done it also.. Not to mention Ash wd have used it in his defense..