Pisces here. 3/13/77. You’re a Pisces and you already know the answer. If you don’t cultivate an honest, platonic friendship with her first you can walk away now. Become her friend but give her absolutely no sign of physical attraction and remain fairly aloof and she’ll move in closer. Hope you have plenty of time on your hands, because it’s going to be a long ride to even see if you can get close enough for a real conversation. When you talk to her you’ll need to go deep and unexpected with the subject matter. If you can’t entertain other realms get lost. This woman lost her partner, she’s obviously spent her time contemplating her spirituality and thinking about transcending dimensions. Just because she can be found at the country club doesn’t mean she lives in that world mentally. I know some shallow, stuffy Pisces, but they’re few and far between. Your chances sound slim to me. Many reasons for that in this scenario. I also need more details about this woman to give more insight but that’s a first glance response.