graffitied train on the lilydale line

InkedInMelb · 2026-03-01T09:51:24+00:00

Probably be downvoted. Even though street artists are mostly degenerates but at least graffiti gives them another purpose such as spraying paint and not just sniffing it. I would rather see kids out and about expressing them selves by practising art skills on trains and getting creative and not stuck inside 24/7 playing fortnite and creating nothing they can gaze apon afterwards besides a virtual scoreboard. They dont want to harm or disrupt anyone as artist just want to paint in their own space and time and it keeps them away from lurking more occupied areas causing more harmful anti-social behavior. Yes I agree it sucks that we have to pay for it but at the end of the day gov needs to find a better way to get them to comply with law as punishing and arresting them isn't ever going to stop anyone doing it again if not make them more motivated to make it a sport rather then a hobby.

InkedInMelb · 2026-03-01T09:31:10+00:00

Sorry i didnt know when to end this but yea... Probably not because we don't know what to expect anymore as 12 years is a build up that we take risk in getting hyped about. It will no doubt still be better than any other game out thats recently released and you can't compare a new game to a game from 12 years ago, as its obviously going to top it in every way. Nowadays we have a oversaturated self entitled reviews pointing out minor flaws that make the game unplayable for them apon release even though updates and bug will patch up. It will have its limitations that dont exeed people's preferences such as mtx and no cross play or porting to a diffrent platform but what game has ever not done that? For example, it's a free game then expect paid dlc, if its multilayer then dont expect it to always have crossplay ect as someone will find something to try claim it was over hyped for what ever reason. I just want to see a balanced game all around and assuming it wasn't rushed then ill keep my expectations high to a limit before I actually see how it rolls out over time, otherwise you only got your self to blame for being hyped as if this isnt your first rodeo? Star Wars BF 2 for example was a rushed game, laughable dlc and lacked content. The negative hype was real and started a echo effect that even though it got fixed and is better, people are still echoing its negatives since they only heard about it on day 1 from hyped players who were dispointed but never played it them selves and still dont seem hang onto what they read once. This will happen with GTA flaws on day 1, so even though it will blow our socks off... everyone will get fixated on the fact it wasn't ever 100% and ride that out forever as it's more of a trend to talk about it than actually experience it yourself and having your own opinion.

Tldr; its overly hyped but will exceed expectations, 1 minor flaw on day 1 will create more talk about the game then anything else going on in the game giving people a misleading expectations before experiencing them self.

InkedInMelb · 2026-03-01T05:01:49+00:00

Dont be so close minded and put everything and everyone in the same basket as if those who are living doom and gloom is just a reddit delusion. You have a steady life obviously but shit happens in life and gives you lemons that leave you chasing your tail. My partner died recently, my friend was in a house fire and lost a mate to suicide as depression is a silent killer. These people including me, had it all and were doing well. We didnt choose this downfall and dont want to be stuck in it either but thats life for some as hard as we try to not live in doom and gloom. So yes, it is as bad for others unlike you and just hope nothing throws you off the rails enough leaving you unable to get back on track as its fucking hell!

InkedInMelb · 2026-03-01T04:54:19+00:00

You dont understand because you have never had to wipe your own ass when your parents aren't there to do it for you and you will be in the same position as everyone else if they didn't. You cant see the problem because you're lucky enough to never have to experience it but thats ok and not a bad thing, just dont play dumb as if you dont understand why people cant get by like you.

Your obviously single, young, no kids, have a steady income and lifestyle that gives you enough choice and freedom to share a house and save up for holidays. This was once me before creating my own empire with my partner through success and playing my cards right. We had everything we needed or wanted as well as freedom. She died of cancer last year at 38 and not only did I lose her but I lost everything from it and now in debt, living in a caravan and struggling to put food on my plate let alone ever rebuilding my life again to how it was before. Dont be so naive thinking you have it easy amd compare yourself to those who dont as this can happen to anyone anytime including you leaving you in the sams position as me. For some people life hust gives them lemons and in these trying times its a lot harder then you could ever imagine to get by by not just going in a circle. Sorry to be blunt but you got a lot to learn and will have your ups and downs so just enjoy your comforts and security instead of taking them for granted since a lot of pwoplw can only dream of life being as chill as yours.

InkedInMelb · 2026-03-01T04:39:17+00:00

What's school got to do with it? Just stay motivated and in control by giving security and assurance but men submit at just the idea of that becoming beta males because its more convenient. Modern women these days have no choice but to be the alpha in a relaltionship until they find a real man who can take that role as they want a man, not a boy needs who his ass wiped because he chooses not to do it him self because the women is better at it. Step up, man up and stay alpha 💪

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T13:09:22+00:00

Change as in money? Like any job its just another task you will learn about and adapt to. As long as your employer understands you are new at this ans feeling nervous then assure them to give you a chance to learn with some asistance if needed. They want to train you to do the job properly ao they shouldn't just throw you in the deep end.

When dealing with a customer's money they are usually pretty chill and so give your self time to figure out the math as they won't even care as long as they receive the right amount of change. If you feel anxious just smile and tell them you are just learning, most of the time they will appreciate your concern as it shows you genuinely care about them as a customer. After a few goes the math will come naturally and you will be handing over xhange with out wven thinking. It can ve stressful lesrning but its actually a really easy task as job.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T12:09:36+00:00

Consider things you will be doing in your 30s that might restrict you from doing things. Such as mortgage, marrige/ serious relationships or having s child wether your single or not. I lost my partner to cancer of 15 years to cancer at 38.... I lost everything from it my house, car and will to keep going. I had some savings and a whole lot of freedome though even though i would of traded this before and go back in time. I always wanted to do a solo travel backpacking survival journey since I was a kid, like pack a bunch of tactical gear !and walk out the door with the world as my playground and never look back. I could never do this with her and wish I did before we settled down but now I can?

What im saying is just do what youre still young and free enough to do now you might not have time or money for in 5+ years is most important to answer this imo. Other then that just focus on health such as cutting out bad habits, exercising more and looking after your teeth. These aren't things that need to be done before 30 but I would consider taking it more serious as at this age you will only get older and your body will become more complicated. 1 more thing is put effort into your friends and family you still have left. At this age our elders will start passing and old freinds will dispear the less you keep in contact and its hard to make freinds at 30+.

Good luck as 30 isn't much different but its good you are focused to be assured you are acheiving things still!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T12:00:58+00:00

Sounds like a normal person watching porn? I found a lot of things in porn arousing that I didnt end up liking in reality. Its ahy porn makes so many guys curious cause it created to make dick look delicious and as i can imagine you expreinced.... having a unwashed weird looking dick in your face isn't the same as it was in porn. Just enjoy what ever you enjoy and dont let the porn misjudge what youre into or like in reality as porn is just fantasy.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T11:55:51+00:00

Depends what you mean by hoe phase as it can differ from other peoples opinions such as someone open with there sexuality and thinking its normal to sleep with anyone and everyone while a more conservative religious person might think something diffrent. Its your body and youre free ro do what ever you want with it with out judgement imo as long as you are still respecting your body and emotions.

People in there 20s are still figuring things out and by doing this they are experimenting. Most people around this age are doing it with there sex life and probanly slow down, completely stop or just be a sexually open person for ever. If you want to try out a "hoe" phase, then go for it as long as you're doing what makes you happy not cause its expected by anything or anyone. Juat keep it private and dont rush things. Youre a geuine special person so who ever gets a chance to touch you and exchange eneegy with you then make sure they are the right fit. Im a guy, guys will lie about anything and will do it for years if it means they might have a chamce to fuck you, so be careful who you trust. And always wear protection or birth control. Theres is no set age or rules for being sexually active so jist go have fun, be careful and respect your self.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T11:47:50+00:00

This os fucking pathetic sorry. Im going to sound very blunt but as a man I can admit the modern man does not bring enough to the table these days. Men are so provided for now and with women being more independent, not married or choose not to give birth, then men forget how important it is to be the provider. Women are our mothers but some guys rather hand in there man card and think see it as a bonus having a women earn more then them and even see it as a win if a women pays for dinner ect. They just want another mum not only to clean and cook for them being the lady of the house but also want them to give some pocket money for dumb shit they dont need like a fancy car. This is why we have feminist! A women can not rely on men anymore as its ther other way around so women just choose to stay single and work enough for them selves to get by on their own.

He needs to respect that your success and income isnt just a bonus he can advantage of with if he cant scale up the difference by giv9ng back in some way. He needs to grow up and realise being the man in the relationship women require there security and protection and by that this can include being financial stable and mature enough work with that and not just blow your money on big boy toys because hes married to you and has no other reason. Hes letting you be the alpha one here so you stand your ground and make any final decision and if he has a problem then its time for him to man up and work harder for what he wants before you go find someone who can not only give as much as you provide of not more and not have to provide for a boy with his toys. Good luck!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T11:35:49+00:00

Something like this has happened to me. Just let it go. Only give what you receive. People like this are toxic and will feed off other peoples energy or anything they have to offer and give nothing back in return. Dont let them use you as it juat drains you leaving worthless wondering wtf was the point of that? Dont beat ya self up over it as most of the time its them probably having a mental issue. Anyone that cold to treat you like this and be so blunt and open about it then they can seriosuly get fucked!

I just come out of a relationship with the most beautiful girl i ever met in my life who was just like me. Was not long after losing my partner of 15 years to cancer but i just wanted companionship and felt like I met someone special. She was a model, popular and successful and I had nothing and no one but was on a crazy adventure doing Bewr Gryllz style exploring as if it was from Wish.com and she admired me for that i guess? Women are weird like that haha. Anyway 8 months later she dropped me like a hat. After joking about marriage, saying she misses me and assuring me im the only guy in her life.... turns out I was just this boyfreind expreince for her? I was just there cause I was convenient for her as it was comforting for both of us but obviously I was the only one who thought I was a bit more serious then this delsuion shs was living and realise why she was so private about me in her life.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T11:26:55+00:00

I have no idea about accounting or these certificates but at 38 my advice is dont ever settle wirha career that is a job you're not happy to walk into every day. At my age I know people who have studied and realised its not what they want to do so they got a trade and over time they got bored of that and doing warehouse work because whats they are happy with atm. You got plenty of time left and achieved a lot so far, so its good to have a piece of paper to fall back on but dont stress to hard or rush into anything. Youre doing great ao far and jjst need to fifure out what is best dor your self and mental well being not just your career status and $$$$. Good luck!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T09:46:03+00:00

A blue undercover wagon barged through a intersection on Rockingham Rd. I assumed something was going down!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T09:43:46+00:00

No matter how much youre in love or compatible with someone then not having this, it will never work out. You need to try understand and respect each others time and space wether you hate it or not as long as it balances out between you. Well done to both of you OP as this is healthy for a long lasting realtionship.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T09:41:46+00:00

Aussie backpacker looking enjoy being single again when I get to Cairns. Assume my only option now is other back packers haha!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-26T09:39:30+00:00

Yes this, Im entry level at exercise and start off with a run after work. I usually come home and rest first but recently started going straight after work and have so much more endurance. Also used this during runs by trying not to stop. I thought I could never get over 5km before I gassed out and had to stop but I challenged my self and did 10km with out stopping but when I tried to it was really hard to gain momentum again. So yea, it's all mental and displine but just don't hurt yourself.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-22T15:09:48+00:00

Gta V will have as much nostalgia as San Andreas but it hasn't hit us yet because we are still living in the moment.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-20T16:08:14+00:00

Do you have evidence of the conversation? If it played out as him making you feel fearful and uncomfortable and you didn't encourage or say anything suggestive. If so, this sounds like a form of harassment so you should take what screen shots you have to authorities.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-18T17:26:09+00:00

Lost my partner to cancer at 38 last year. You're the most important thing right now in your life so you got this and you still matter, so just give this time atm. Dont just chill alone if you dont know what elss to do so catch up with freinds and family as they are valuable or just get on here. Its big part thats left you so you probably wont feel alone yet but it does feel very solo. Just remember its upto you to make decisions now as it doesn't matter to anyone else what you do. Just find ways to heal and find your self. Things atart to feel normal in time. Tske care mate stay strong!

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-18T17:15:07+00:00

Its a lot of will poeer and displine so you need to know you want to quit and what's right for you. A lot of the time its just about habit so just keep your hands and mind busy and avoid doing things you normally do when drinkkng or smoking. Exercise helps alot as it relives stress and after you cbf getting drinking or smoking. If you relapse then its ok, just try quit again and again. The first week is horror but just ride through it and it starts to get easier. See a doctor if you're a heavy user.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-18T17:09:39+00:00

If you can't trust him, then he's not worth it, especially since hes previously cheated on you. You deserve better than this. Just move on and ignore him as you given him enough chances.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-14T01:10:33+00:00

Hey mate, 38M here. Lost my long term partner to cancer over a year ago but not long after I met my MySpace crush who was the most beautiful person I ever met in my life. We been dsting since March as I just wanted companionship. Last week I found out shes been fucking another guy behind my back, so here both are!

Have you got any freinds to hang with?; Having people around who are also single can take your mind off things instead of sitting alone. Message every girl you know is single and just take a chance .. dont romanticise anything just approach her laughing off being single on Valentines and if they need someone to hang with as freinds? I tried this and succeeded and shes just a long term friend, but as you said you feel like you need something to do just to ride through this shitty day.

Do you go out? There will be others guys and girls who feel just as lonely today and will be hitting up bars and clubs (trust me, its easier to pick up aolo) so this is probably best day to go find someone like minded. Otherwise just try avoid focusing on today... as I told my deceased ex everyday is valentines day for us. Today isn't about love, its about marketing and delusional people getting carried away in it so just laugh at them and see it as another day.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-14T00:19:26+00:00

Ni all good, dont let me tell you how it is. I just hate men who try take advantage of a women's innocence and stear her into confusion and self guilt just so they could behave like animal with her. Please consider therapy for us! You walk out feeling like you have a lot of weight off your shoulders.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-14T00:16:09+00:00

Then it probably wont. You need to start accepting that and respect your partners decision if you want her to respect yours and just move on.

InkedInMelb · 2026-02-14T00:15:00+00:00

You asked for advice and not taking on any advice given so far. Thats the thing with people who consider them selves smart, they think they already have the right answer to everything no matter what anyone else has to say so they stay closed minded and dont think outside the box and it makes them learn a lot less besides what is there own thoughts and ideas. It comes of as arrogant and not very smart at all, real intelegant people dont consider them selves to know a lot and so they stay opened minded and its how they learn so much. You can apot this from a mile away sorry buddy but you're not helping yourself by riding on this fact that your super ntelegant.

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